My ex is getting remarried on what would've been our anniversary!

[Anonymous]

Does she know it's your anniversary too? Maybe his parents aren't coming because they don't support his marriage to a home wrecker.
Good miss on your part OP. What are you jealous of?

[Anonymous]

That's awful. At least they are getting two selfish jerks out of the dating market-until he cheats on her. Sorry you (and your kid) have to deal with this crap.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm more weirded out that the new wife doesn't mind sharing a wedding anniversary with his failed marriage. Talk about some bad juju.

She was his AP and probably resented the wife and kids all along. I wish he was my ex, I'm very creative with someone who would cheat on me and my kids.

[Anonymous]

That's awful OP. He sounds like a piece of work. I would take the advice of the PP and drop some hints about this if you see some of your mutual old friends. It is strange the AP does not seem to mind, but maybe she does not know about the resort...

I would limit contact as much as possible.

[Anonymous]

I think he is just afraid he might forget the new anniversary or get confused if he changes the date

[Anonymous]

I'm so sorry OP! That's gotta hurt. It really sucks.

[Anonymous]

Seems like he can't come up with any new ideas. Too much work for him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think he is just afraid he might forget the new anniversary or get confused if he changes the date

That was my first thought, too. Or, is he the type to even remember that this date was your anniversary?

[Anonymous]

Yeah I wonder if he even remembered. I don't know ours and I'm still married.

[Anonymous]

Got one better: my ex husband got married on our anniversary and later named his daughter the same unusual name as me. Sociopaths are everywhere. I had stopped communicating with him but heard this through mutual friends who thought it was crazy but my ex and I didn't have kids together thank goodness.

[Anonymous]

Uh- this is really weird. To the point where I wonder if you are real. I'd say good riddance to him. Sorry you are going thru this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You know this is all on purpose don't you. Sad people imo.

In a year I would be sending sexy thongs anon in the mail to her. Some hang up calls...you get the idea.

Yes immature I know, BUT I do believe in being happy and moving forward - however I am ok with helping KARMA along too!!!

+1 the above would be some amazing revenge

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does she know it's your anniversary too? Maybe his parents aren't coming because they don't support his marriage to a home wrecker.
Good miss on your part OP. What are you jealous of?

Yeah she knows, obviously she doesn't care. I guess I'm feeling a little jealous that she's going to have my dream wedding.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You know this is all on purpose don't you. Sad people imo.

In a year I would be sending sexy thongs anon in the mail to her. Some hang up calls...you get the idea.

Yes immature I know, BUT I do believe in being happy and moving forward - however I am ok with helping KARMA along too!!!

+1 the above would be some amazing revenge

But why do you seek revenge? Just be glad you're no longer with that loser. Living willk is the best revenge.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yeah I wonder if he even remembered. I don't know ours and I'm still married.

He remembers.