My ex is getting remarried on what would've been our anniversary!

[Anonymous]

You didn’t even make it to five years and you have a kid together?

[Anonymous]

Damn I feel bad for his new wife. Recycling the date and location idea- how embarrassing!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My ex husband called me to let me know that he was getting remarried on October 15th.
That would've been our 5 year anniversary. To make matters worse they're having a destination wedding in Jamaica at the same resort I told him five years ago I wanted to get married, but he was against the idea because he wanted to make sure his family was there. I'm a little annoyed and maybe even a little jealous about their upcoming nuptials! This woman was originally his AP (the reason we got divorced) and now she seems to be getting my dream wedding. Ok, I'm done venting now.

I have a friend whose ex-fiance proposed to her, bought a house which they were going to live in together, and told her to decorate it and plan the wedding as she wanted. They continued to live apart during the engagement and home reno.
When the house was finished, he ghosted her, blocked her on everything, proposed to someone else and moved her into their newly renovated dream house.

Some people just want to be cruel.

[Anonymous]

They both seem nuts

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Damn I feel bad for his new wife. Recycling the date and location idea- how embarrassing!

It sounds weird and nuts. Do not engage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does she know it's your anniversary too? Maybe his parents aren't coming because they don't support his marriage to a home wrecker.
Good miss on your part OP. What are you jealous of?

Yeah she knows, obviously she doesn't care. I guess I'm feeling a little jealous that she's going to have my dream wedding.

It’s not a dream wedding though - she’s marrying HIM. The AP is still trying to get him to leave you/erase your existence by having her wedding on your anniversary and at the location you wanted! That’s seriously so sad - for her. Hugs to you OP. You should go away to a new dream destination on your old anniversary date. You are free of him AND you have an amazing DD. The AP is jealous of YOU!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Damn I feel bad for his new wife. Recycling the date and location idea- how embarrassing!

It sounds weird and nuts. Do not engage.

This is a surprisingly common man move. They find another woman who looks similar and might even have the same ethnic background, down to the specific country, the ex girlfriend has a culture in and date the new woman. Everything can be recycled. I've seen men date doppelgangers as the next girlfriend and one even proposed to the new girlfriend with the same ring he had previously proposed to other women with! They will make plans the same as they did with the first girlfriend and move at lightning speed with MISS right now.

[Anonymous]

Op, he's either dumb or crazy. They'll probably name their first child after you. Take it as an honor.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My ex husband called me to let me know that he was getting remarried on October 15th.
That would've been our 5 year anniversary. To make matters worse they're having a destination wedding in Jamaica at the same resort I told him five years ago I wanted to get married, but he was against the idea because he wanted to make sure his family was there. I'm a little annoyed and maybe even a little jealous about their upcoming nuptials! This woman was originally his AP (the reason we got divorced) and now she seems to be getting my dream wedding. Ok, I'm done venting now.

Maybe he got a tattoo with the date of October 15 and wants it to remain relevant.

[Anonymous]

This thread is super old - but would love an update if OP is still on DCUM!

[Anonymous]

Maybe there will be a hurricane.

[Anonymous]

I would take it as an ego boost. He’s still obsessed with you.

Laugh it off and move on.

[Anonymous]

Watch Ted Lasso. Sounds like you have a Rupert ex.

[Anonymous]

dude found the cheat code - he doesn't have to relearn a new anniversary date! Sweet!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My ex husband called me to let me know that he was getting remarried on October 15th.
That would've been our 5 year anniversary. To make matters worse they're having a destination wedding in Jamaica at the same resort I told him five years ago I wanted to get married, but he was against the idea because he wanted to make sure his family was there. I'm a little annoyed and maybe even a little jealous about their upcoming nuptials! This woman was originally his AP (the reason we got divorced) and now she seems to be getting my dream wedding. Ok, I'm done venting now.

Reminds me of Gisele and Tom’s wedding at Monyhan’s church. Tack-E.