husband wants to keep baby and I don't

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:wow committing murder over money. You need help lady.


WRONG. NOT Murder learn science.

Her body her choice.

Not to mention Roe vs Wade still law. According to your guy Kavanaugh it's "settled law" unless he lied under oath?

Also, not your business.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I would never forgive me wife for aborting a child that we made together, unless I was completely on board with it. I would divorce over it.


Even if you and she already had children? So you'd rip up their existing lives by divorcing?
Anonymous
MURDER ..IT IS...her chice ended when she agreed to take in the dick..

Pro life and proud
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:MURDER ..IT IS...her chice ended when she agreed to take in the dick..

Pro life and proud


Thank goodness the law disagrees with you.

And even if it didn’t, thank goodness there are always ways.
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Anonymous wrote:And yes, when that 11 yo DD finds out, she’ll be impacted. Maybe for the better and she’ll cherish life and not weigh a human life against her own convenience


If these two can behave like adults, which I have my doubts about given his jumping to divorce immediately, there is really no reason why the 11 year old should know. If she found out as an adult, she would hopefully be understanding of an adult decision. If my mom had told me at 11 she was pregnant and I was getting a sibling, I would have been HORRIFIED and wondered why she was trying to ruin my life and the life of our family starting over with an infant, so your anticipated reaction is far from universal.


Actually my mom was in this situation; her mom became pregnant with with a sibling, did not want to have the sibling, and my mom was old enough to be completely embarrassed and understand her mom didn't want to have the baby.

Pre legal abortion days, so grandma had the baby because she had to, he knew he wasn't wanted, and grew up with many mental health issues; my mom had to deal with it and help him until the day she died, as she had to take over helping him after grandma died. And now I help him on occasion. Sometimes it's best for everyone to have the abortion.


Gross.


If you think it's gross, I can give him your number and you can help him navigate senior citizen life. Since you are so pro life and all. I hope you have adopted several foster children yourself and deal with their issues, if you are so freaking pro life.

That's one thing the "pro life" people never talk about, what happens to the kids women are forced to have that they don't want, and what kind of lives those children have.
My grandparents really did try, and loved him, but neither wanted a surprise (and difficult) child so late in life (right before menopause, mid 40s) in the 1950s.
Anonymous
Oh yeah, and pre birth control, if you didn't want kids you just couldn't have sex. That's how my other set of grandparents did it in the old days; once my grandma decided she was done after 4 kids, she never had sex with granddad again. He eventually found another lady who would. Worked for Grandma, as long as he still loved there,gave her half his check and kept it on the down low.

So if you are so grossed out, you are looking at a life of no sex after you have had the number of children you want, because slip ups always happen. The only way to make sure.

These are the old fashioned types of lives forced birthers (pro lifers) want to go back to.
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Anonymous wrote:I would never forgive me wife for aborting a child that we made together, unless I was completely on board with it. I would divorce over it.


Agreed. Fundamental difference on the sanctity of life, not to mention the unilateral approach to such a massive decision. Society likes to preach women's independence, and the Left like to use this as a scare tactic to vote a certain way, but a husband and a wife making a decision together on a pregnancy should be common sense. Otherwise, that's not a marriage at all. If my wife did it, it would be a million times worse than a ONS with some random bloke



By the way the Ultra Right is single issue voting on this issue and it's hurting the whole country. Former Republican here.


Plenty on the ultra left single issue vote on this as well, because they have you all think Conservatives are coming for your uterus, which is insane. But that’s another topic.

If she aborts his kid, he certainly has every right to divorce her. As I said that’s a fundamental difference in values and a marital issue that will likely never heal. They’ll both be happier in the long run.
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Anonymous wrote:I would never forgive me wife for aborting a child that we made together, unless I was completely on board with it. I would divorce over it.


Even if you and she already had children? So you'd rip up their existing lives by divorcing?


Heck yes I would. What’s left of it but tatters anyway, after she kills his child. Good God people are selfish. It may be her right to kill the baby, but it’s also his right to be unchained from a Salomé
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Anonymous wrote:I would never forgive me wife for aborting a child that we made together, unless I was completely on board with it. I would divorce over it.


Agreed. Fundamental difference on the sanctity of life, not to mention the unilateral approach to such a massive decision. Society likes to preach women's independence, and the Left like to use this as a scare tactic to vote a certain way, but a husband and a wife making a decision together on a pregnancy should be common sense. Otherwise, that's not a marriage at all. If my wife did it, it would be a million times worse than a ONS with some random bloke


Um, you realize the original Bible text says a fetus is not alive till it draws first breath, right? And that conservatives changed the Bible translation in the 70s to get “useful idiot” religious people (yes, this is what the GOP elite call you in private) to vote for the billionaires’ agenda, yes?

Today it’s obvious to anyone who cares to look: anyone who ACTUALLY cares about sanctity of life would be prioritizing actual kids’ healthcare over tax cuts. But most religious people, Brett Kavanaugh being a notable example, do not. The majority of anti-abortion people in America are either hypocrites or fools and idiots getting used by billionaires.
Anonymous
How about open adoption? It seems the best of both worlds. You'll know your baby son or daughter and make someone's dream come true without paying a penny.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:How about open adoption? It seems the best of both worlds. You'll know your baby son or daughter and make someone's dream come true without paying a penny.[/quoh

Husband wants the kid.
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Anonymous wrote:I would never forgive me wife for aborting a child that we made together, unless I was completely on board with it. I would divorce over it.


Agreed. Fundamental difference on the sanctity of life, not to mention the unilateral approach to such a massive decision. Society likes to preach women's independence, and the Left like to use this as a scare tactic to vote a certain way, but a husband and a wife making a decision together on a pregnancy should be common sense. Otherwise, that's not a marriage at all. If my wife did it, it would be a million times worse than a ONS with some random bloke


Um, you realize the original Bible text says a fetus is not alive till it draws first breath, right? And that conservatives changed the Bible translation in the 70s to get “useful idiot” religious people (yes, this is what the GOP elite call you in private) to vote for the billionaires’ agenda, yes?

Today it’s obvious to anyone who cares to look: anyone who ACTUALLY cares about sanctity of life would be prioritizing actual kids’ healthcare over tax cuts. But most religious people, Brett Kavanaugh being a notable example, do not. The majority of anti-abortion people in America are either hypocrites or fools and idiots getting used by billionaires.


No, I am not aware of this. I am aware that some Protestant demonstional views have shifted right in response to abortion demand being used as birth control, but I am not aware of the text of the Bible, which is used across many denominations, was revised in the 70s for political purposes. Please educate me.
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Anonymous wrote:I would never forgive me wife for aborting a child that we made together, unless I was completely on board with it. I would divorce over it.


Even if you and she already had children? So you'd rip up their existing lives by divorcing?


Heck yes I would. What’s left of it but tatters anyway, after she kills his child. Good God people are selfish. It may be her right to kill the baby, but it’s also his right to be unchained from a Salomé


I don’t see it as a sanctity if life issue. It’s a marriage issue. And I would either have to be on board as the co-parent father or not. We would have to make the decision together. It’s not like she is a random hookup.
Anonymous
Please provide the Biblical citation where it says a fetus is not alive until it draws it's first breath?
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Anonymous wrote:I would never forgive me wife for aborting a child that we made together, unless I was completely on board with it. I would divorce over it.


Agreed. Fundamental difference on the sanctity of life, not to mention the unilateral approach to such a massive decision. Society likes to preach women's independence, and the Left like to use this as a scare tactic to vote a certain way, but a husband and a wife making a decision together on a pregnancy should be common sense. Otherwise, that's not a marriage at all. If my wife did it, it would be a million times worse than a ONS with some random bloke


Um, you realize the original Bible text says a fetus is not alive till it draws first breath, right? And that conservatives changed the Bible translation in the 70s to get “useful idiot” religious people (yes, this is what the GOP elite call you in private) to vote for the billionaires’ agenda, yes?

Today it’s obvious to anyone who cares to look: anyone who ACTUALLY cares about sanctity of life would be prioritizing actual kids’ healthcare over tax cuts. But most religious people, Brett Kavanaugh being a notable example, do not. The majority of anti-abortion people in America are either hypocrites or fools and idiots getting used by billionaires.


No, I am not aware of this. I am aware that some Protestant demonstional views have shifted right in response to abortion demand being used as birth control, but I am not aware of the text of the Bible, which is used across many denominations, was revised in the 70s for political purposes. Please educate me.


NO ONE used abortion as birth control. Yet another mind control talking point fed to you by republicans who need to manipulate the dumbest base in america. Southern baptist weren't opposed to abortion until the 80s when it became politically convenient.
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