Its always difficult to argue with an 'expert'. We live in an area with one of the highest number or graduates and post-graduates in the country. I am sure there are several with high achieving parents in these forums and reading/responding to the comments. So any one can through in their level of expertise here. May I throw in my stem phd in the ring? ![]() |
Exactly. |
I'm not really getting a "we have long accepted and moved on from TJ" vibe (from your prior post) here. |
Honest question - how are you sure that they wanted to go to TJ? Just because they told you? Or because they did a good job of convincing you that they shared your dreams? People are strikingly unaware of how easy it is for a kid to convince their parents they want to go to TJ, only to then write in the essay that they don't. And now, they conveniently have an admissions process that their parents hate that they can blame. |
Thats ok - you are free believe what you want to believe. I commented on several other AAP threads here, not just TJ related. The fact is if really move on or whether you believe I moved on doesn't really matter one way or other. The truth is we can't change what already happened and even if TJ adjusts its admission process in future it doesn't really help any of my kids - we are past that. My kid(s) is fortunate to have both parents in stem fields and able to meet all the academic needs until their college. Our base school is well rated and not that far behind from TJ and course offerings aren't too bad. Granted, TJ offers some courses that are offered nowhere else, but it shouldn't be too difficult to supplement if my kid is interested. We/parents didn't attend TJ and still ended up graduating from top universities. TJ doesn't determine your career, its just a place for like minded kids to pursue their interests. Also, no one really cares about HS once you go to college. Having said, why I am still interested and commenting? I think the new process is flawed and I hope enough people realize it and fight for some meaningful changes in the future and hopefully help TJ aspirants in future! I hope I am not sounding too pretentious here! |
Heh - I'm pretty sure this comment is referring to me. I'm the one many of you call "the savior". And I didn't write that comment. Believe it or not, there are MANY people on this forum who disagree with the status-quo crowd. But I'm glad to know I'm living rent-free in your head. It's interesting - you got some facts about me right, and other ones wrong. I suspect that you genuinely believe that all of these pro-reform posters are the same person... does that help you sleep at night, thinking that there are fewer of us than there really are? |
Asians still represent 55-60% of the students because Asians still represent 55-60% of the applicants. |
I guess what I believe is that, if you talk about this regularly around your DD or she's aware that you're posting about TJ at this length, it wouldn't come as a surprise if she is still somewhat pre-occupied with having been turned down under the new admissions system. You don't sound pretentious, but you do sound rather invested in the school's processes. |
Thanks, you just provided a valid point supporting the argument. Isn't the new process supposed to encourage those who felt left out earlier (or not able to compete in the previous process) to apply to TJ? The changes are done so that hyper focussed stem kids (or parents) will lose all the advantages they had ex: test(s), teacher recommendations, higher importance to GPA etc. The new process very heavily relies on creative writing abilities and kids who aren't are articulate enough will be punished, even though they could be superior in math or science. So, yes, we can't confidently say the new process is really selecting top/deserved students and at the same time didn't even achieve the intended diversity. So, who is winning at the end?? |
Actually, its the other way, I keep reassuring DD that TJ doesn't really matter in the long run and point to many known examples we see in our neighborhood/friends such as TJ kids and base HS kids usually end up in same universities. Well, she can even see us/parents as an example as well - we didn't attend TJ. I am sure she will get over it during summer as she will take a break from academics, TJ related discussions in school/friends and get busy with other activities. Today is the last day of school, so I assume/hope in a few days, TJ will no longer come up for discussion in our house ![]() But, you are partially correct, I am (or have been since last year) somewhat invested in the process as I have been worried that TJ isn't selecting deserving candidates and killing the dreams of so many kids under the disguise of diversity, which isn't really happening anyway. I just hope that it will be rectified in the future and even if it doesn't help my kids, it might benefit others. Thats all I have to say in this thread! Also, to the original point of thread, I sincerely hope TJ will punish those who unethically claimed as qualified for free meals. |
When you hire at your company do you hire the best applicant or the one the deserves it... |
Oh btw, my kid/DD isn't even aware that this forum even exists! All she knows is I spend a good amount of time on reddit and I probably have too much influence on both my kids with my very liberal ideas/positions to the annoyance of my spouse who thinks I should let kids form their own opinions ![]() |
It's certainly ok to let the kids move at their own pace. Just that the kids who couldn't finish Geometry HN by 8th grade do not belong to TJ level. Don't try to chase the high speed train if your speed is not ready. Find the right track. This is good for everybody. Don't always think about making the high speed train slow down to wait for you. It won't help you. It just makes everybody slow. |
Great analogy! For kids who can go faster than average, can still do at the base school with plenty of HN and AP/IB courses. You don’t need to sacrifice kids who can go at much faster pace that base schools might not offer! Diversity is perfectly fine, but not at the expense of diluting the talent pool. |
It this is true i.e. the AAP kid who couldn’t get into algebra I in 7th grade and got B+ in 8th shouldn’t be preferred over a strait A students. It’s totally wrong and pretty much sumps what’s wrong new process. I have heard similar stories, kids with wealthy parents, who struggled in math and sconce were able to get in. Those who like the new process will keep defending it no matter ho many examples we throw at them! |