S/O How do you justify having an affair?

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Anonymous wrote:^ Self reflection can help with those delusions actually. I held up a mirror for these people in those "10 pages". They will close their eyes and fight looking at it, but they got a glimpse, and they notice that the image is not as high and mighty as they built it in their heads.

Again, they are welcome.


Projection


Anything to avoid admitting she was humiliated and betrayed. By the husband she chose and stuck with, waiting for the other shoes to drop.


Could you please bump up the PP you are referring to? This conversation is really confusing otherwise.


The entire conversation is a mess.

I am a happily married woman and I agree with the other woman daring to point out that betrayed wives who scream insults at their husband’s girlfriends-affair partners-side pieces etc are totally and completely delusional, where they don’t direct that same fire to the husband. Cue the insults and a million lying replies about how of course they blame the men equally. It’s all lies.


But why can't you have a conversation that includes nuance and thoughtfulness? If you've been cheated on you're not allowed to have an opinion on the rando woman who slept with your husband? Doing so is some kind of failure of feminism, or self-esteem, or intelligence? That is just silly.

Frankly it's super weird to be this passionate about not allowing people to have opinions of the woman who slept with their husband. And therefore I suspect you are the same poster just pretending to be someone else to give yourself a +1.


You are free to ask a mod - your assumption is wrong, and I’m just entertained that someone has finally brought perspective to these idiotic threads. You all don’t want to believe actually happily married women can read these whines and see how pathetic some of you get when your husbands chase other women. Well…. 🤷
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:^ Self reflection can help with those delusions actually. I held up a mirror for these people in those "10 pages". They will close their eyes and fight looking at it, but they got a glimpse, and they notice that the image is not as high and mighty as they built it in their heads.

Again, they are welcome.


Projection


Anything to avoid admitting she was humiliated and betrayed. By the husband she chose and stuck with, waiting for the other shoes to drop.


Could you please bump up the PP you are referring to? This conversation is really confusing otherwise.


The entire conversation is a mess.

I am a happily married woman and I agree with the other woman daring to point out that betrayed wives who scream insults at their husband’s girlfriends-affair partners-side pieces etc are totally and completely delusional, where they don’t direct that same fire to the husband. Cue the insults and a million lying replies about how of course they blame the men equally. It’s all lies.


But why can't you have a conversation that includes nuance and thoughtfulness? If you've been cheated on you're not allowed to have an opinion on the rando woman who slept with your husband? Doing so is some kind of failure of feminism, or self-esteem, or intelligence? That is just silly.

Frankly it's super weird to be this passionate about not allowing people to have opinions of the woman who slept with their husband. And therefore I suspect you are the same poster just pretending to be someone else to give yourself a +1.


She’s insane. That’s been established.

It’s like shouting I’m a thief, I’m a rapist, I’m a liar, I cheat on my taxes, (insert any other moral failing) and arguing with society to not judge.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^ Self reflection can help with those delusions actually. I held up a mirror for these people in those "10 pages". They will close their eyes and fight looking at it, but they got a glimpse, and they notice that the image is not as high and mighty as they built it in their heads.

Again, they are welcome.


Projection


Anything to avoid admitting she was humiliated and betrayed. By the husband she chose and stuck with, waiting for the other shoes to drop.


Could you please bump up the PP you are referring to? This conversation is really confusing otherwise.


The entire conversation is a mess.

I am a happily married woman and I agree with the other woman daring to point out that betrayed wives who scream insults at their husband’s girlfriends-affair partners-side pieces etc are totally and completely delusional, where they don’t direct that same fire to the husband. Cue the insults and a million lying replies about how of course they blame the men equally. It’s all lies.


But why can't you have a conversation that includes nuance and thoughtfulness? If you've been cheated on you're not allowed to have an opinion on the rando woman who slept with your husband? Doing so is some kind of failure of feminism, or self-esteem, or intelligence? That is just silly.

Frankly it's super weird to be this passionate about not allowing people to have opinions of the woman who slept with their husband. And therefore I suspect you are the same poster just pretending to be someone else to give yourself a +1.


You are free to ask a mod - your assumption is wrong, and I’m just entertained that someone has finally brought perspective to these idiotic threads. You all don’t want to believe actually happily married women can read these whines and see how pathetic some of you get when your husbands chase other women. Well…. 🤷


Did you sleep the last 3 days? Are you in a manic phase of your bipolar illness?
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^ Self reflection can help with those delusions actually. I held up a mirror for these people in those "10 pages". They will close their eyes and fight looking at it, but they got a glimpse, and they notice that the image is not as high and mighty as they built it in their heads.

Again, they are welcome.


Projection


Anything to avoid admitting she was humiliated and betrayed. By the husband she chose and stuck with, waiting for the other shoes to drop.


Could you please bump up the PP you are referring to? This conversation is really confusing otherwise.


The entire conversation is a mess.

I am a happily married woman and I agree with the other woman daring to point out that betrayed wives who scream insults at their husband’s girlfriends-affair partners-side pieces etc are totally and completely delusional, where they don’t direct that same fire to the husband. Cue the insults and a million lying replies about how of course they blame the men equally. It’s all lies.


But why can't you have a conversation that includes nuance and thoughtfulness? If you've been cheated on you're not allowed to have an opinion on the rando woman who slept with your husband? Doing so is some kind of failure of feminism, or self-esteem, or intelligence? That is just silly.

Frankly it's super weird to be this passionate about not allowing people to have opinions of the woman who slept with their husband. And therefore I suspect you are the same poster just pretending to be someone else to give yourself a +1.


You are free to ask a mod - your assumption is wrong, and I’m just entertained that someone has finally brought perspective to these idiotic threads. You all don’t want to believe actually happily married women can read these whines and see how pathetic some of you get when your husbands chase other women. Well…. 🤷


Did you sleep the last 3 days? Are you in a manic phase of your bipolar illness?


I haven’t posted in the last 3: ask Jeff!

You and your fellow harridan should get your STD panels with a quickness, just to try and mop up whatever your phone and password protocols haven’t yet found.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^ Self reflection can help with those delusions actually. I held up a mirror for these people in those "10 pages". They will close their eyes and fight looking at it, but they got a glimpse, and they notice that the image is not as high and mighty as they built it in their heads.

Again, they are welcome.


Projection


Anything to avoid admitting she was humiliated and betrayed. By the husband she chose and stuck with, waiting for the other shoes to drop.


Could you please bump up the PP you are referring to? This conversation is really confusing otherwise.


The entire conversation is a mess.

I am a happily married woman and I agree with the other woman daring to point out that betrayed wives who scream insults at their husband’s girlfriends-affair partners-side pieces etc are totally and completely delusional, where they don’t direct that same fire to the husband. Cue the insults and a million lying replies about how of course they blame the men equally. It’s all lies.


But why can't you have a conversation that includes nuance and thoughtfulness? If you've been cheated on you're not allowed to have an opinion on the rando woman who slept with your husband? Doing so is some kind of failure of feminism, or self-esteem, or intelligence? That is just silly.

Frankly it's super weird to be this passionate about not allowing people to have opinions of the woman who slept with their husband. And therefore I suspect you are the same poster just pretending to be someone else to give yourself a +1.


You are free to ask a mod - your assumption is wrong, and I’m just entertained that someone has finally brought perspective to these idiotic threads. You all don’t want to believe actually happily married women can read these whines and see how pathetic some of you get when your husbands chase other women. Well…. 🤷


Did you sleep the last 3 days? Are you in a manic phase of your bipolar illness?


I haven’t posted in the last 3: ask Jeff!

You and your fellow harridan should get your STD panels with a quickness, just to try and mop up whatever your phone and password protocols haven’t yet found.


+1

With women out there like this ^ , that’s an excellent idea.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^ Self reflection can help with those delusions actually. I held up a mirror for these people in those "10 pages". They will close their eyes and fight looking at it, but they got a glimpse, and they notice that the image is not as high and mighty as they built it in their heads.

Again, they are welcome.


Projection


Anything to avoid admitting she was humiliated and betrayed. By the husband she chose and stuck with, waiting for the other shoes to drop.


Could you please bump up the PP you are referring to? This conversation is really confusing otherwise.


The entire conversation is a mess.

I am a happily married woman and I agree with the other woman daring to point out that betrayed wives who scream insults at their husband’s girlfriends-affair partners-side pieces etc are totally and completely delusional, where they don’t direct that same fire to the husband. Cue the insults and a million lying replies about how of course they blame the men equally. It’s all lies.


But why can't you have a conversation that includes nuance and thoughtfulness? If you've been cheated on you're not allowed to have an opinion on the rando woman who slept with your husband? Doing so is some kind of failure of feminism, or self-esteem, or intelligence? That is just silly.

Frankly it's super weird to be this passionate about not allowing people to have opinions of the woman who slept with their husband. And therefore I suspect you are the same poster just pretending to be someone else to give yourself a +1.


You are free to ask a mod - your assumption is wrong, and I’m just entertained that someone has finally brought perspective to these idiotic threads. You all don’t want to believe actually happily married women can read these whines and see how pathetic some of you get when your husbands chase other women. Well…. 🤷


LOL
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^ Self reflection can help with those delusions actually. I held up a mirror for these people in those "10 pages". They will close their eyes and fight looking at it, but they got a glimpse, and they notice that the image is not as high and mighty as they built it in their heads.

Again, they are welcome.


Projection


Anything to avoid admitting she was humiliated and betrayed. By the husband she chose and stuck with, waiting for the other shoes to drop.


Could you please bump up the PP you are referring to? This conversation is really confusing otherwise.


The entire conversation is a mess.

I am a happily married woman and I agree with the other woman daring to point out that betrayed wives who scream insults at their husband’s girlfriends-affair partners-side pieces etc are totally and completely delusional, where they don’t direct that same fire to the husband. Cue the insults and a million lying replies about how of course they blame the men equally. It’s all lies.


But why can't you have a conversation that includes nuance and thoughtfulness? If you've been cheated on you're not allowed to have an opinion on the rando woman who slept with your husband? Doing so is some kind of failure of feminism, or self-esteem, or intelligence? That is just silly.

Frankly it's super weird to be this passionate about not allowing people to have opinions of the woman who slept with their husband. And therefore I suspect you are the same poster just pretending to be someone else to give yourself a +1.


You are free to ask a mod - your assumption is wrong, and I’m just entertained that someone has finally brought perspective to these idiotic threads. You all don’t want to believe actually happily married women can read these whines and see how pathetic some of you get when your husbands chase other women. Well…. 🤷


Did you sleep the last 3 days? Are you in a manic phase of your bipolar illness?


I haven’t posted in the last 3: ask Jeff!

You and your fellow harridan should get your STD panels with a quickness, just to try and mop up whatever your phone and password protocols haven’t yet found.


+1

With women out there like this ^ , that’s an excellent idea.


Poor DH! Always getting railed against his will, even with you on your knees nightly! Ma’am, it’s a golldarned shame but remember, it wasn’t his fault because of his childhood, you are extremely #empowered, and all other women (his mother, his ho, the bortches here who don’t feel sorry for you or OP, his conspiring executive assistant, and the future women who seduce him with trashy witchcraft) are all the guilty parties.
Anonymous
Knock it off!!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Knock it off!!


Hell, no! Don’t fire off crap at people, accuse them of posting repeatedly or as someone where they haven’t, insult them for a different opinion, name call, and then whine. Be a woman.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Knock it off!!


Hell, no! Don’t fire off crap at people, accuse them of posting repeatedly or as someone where they haven’t, insult them for a different opinion, name call, and then whine. Be a woman.


Again responding in the singular. As if everyone that disagrees is the same poster. Time to put the iPhone down and go enjoy the sunshine. Deep breaths.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^ Self reflection can help with those delusions actually. I held up a mirror for these people in those "10 pages". They will close their eyes and fight looking at it, but they got a glimpse, and they notice that the image is not as high and mighty as they built it in their heads.

Again, they are welcome.


Projection


Anything to avoid admitting she was humiliated and betrayed. By the husband she chose and stuck with, waiting for the other shoes to drop.


Could you please bump up the PP you are referring to? This conversation is really confusing otherwise.


The entire conversation is a mess.

I am a happily married woman and I agree with the other woman daring to point out that betrayed wives who scream insults at their husband’s girlfriends-affair partners-side pieces etc are totally and completely delusional, where they don’t direct that same fire to the husband. Cue the insults and a million lying replies about how of course they blame the men equally. It’s all lies.


Finally!

Somebody who shares my opinion! Refreshing!

Please read all "10 pages" to appreciate how truly ridiculous these women can be.These women are something else. From calling the APs dumb, to calling me an AP, to accusing me of lacking empathy, to calling me bipolar. It's been something!


I will type it again: it makes no sense at all to insult a woman for sleeping with a man you are STILL sleeping with. You are just insulting yourself.



Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:The first thing I said when I discovered it was : what a bunch of losers. See the “s”. I thought both of them were disgusting immature pieces of crap to do this to their spouses/kids, for nothing. Just couldn’t cope with life/themselves. Really stunted arrested development.



Did you leave though?

If you didn't, it would mean you are sleeping with somebody you think is disgusting and has arrested development. He cannot have changed that much? How? How many years before you started sleeping with him again?

If you left, then he and AP really are the trash you thought they were. If you did not leave and keep insulting them, the "10 pages" are for you.



Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^ Self reflection can help with those delusions actually. I held up a mirror for these people in those "10 pages". They will close their eyes and fight looking at it, but they got a glimpse, and they notice that the image is not as high and mighty as they built it in their heads.

Again, they are welcome.


Projection


Anything to avoid admitting she was humiliated and betrayed. By the husband she chose and stuck with, waiting for the other shoes to drop.


Could you please bump up the PP you are referring to? This conversation is really confusing otherwise.


The entire conversation is a mess.

I am a happily married woman and I agree with the other woman daring to point out that betrayed wives who scream insults at their husband’s girlfriends-affair partners-side pieces etc are totally and completely delusional, where they don’t direct that same fire to the husband. Cue the insults and a million lying replies about how of course they blame the men equally. It’s all lies.


Finally!

Somebody who shares my opinion! Refreshing!

Please read all "10 pages" to appreciate how truly ridiculous these women can be.These women are something else. From calling the APs dumb, to calling me an AP, to accusing me of lacking empathy, to calling me bipolar. It's been something!


I will type it again: it makes no sense at all to insult a woman for sleeping with a man you are STILL sleeping with. You are just insulting yourself.





Translation:

Anger at someone who slept with your husband . . . absurd!

Anger at people who post about being angry that someone slept with their husbands . . . totally rational!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^ Self reflection can help with those delusions actually. I held up a mirror for these people in those "10 pages". They will close their eyes and fight looking at it, but they got a glimpse, and they notice that the image is not as high and mighty as they built it in their heads.

Again, they are welcome.


Projection


Anything to avoid admitting she was humiliated and betrayed. By the husband she chose and stuck with, waiting for the other shoes to drop.


Could you please bump up the PP you are referring to? This conversation is really confusing otherwise.


The entire conversation is a mess.

I am a happily married woman and I agree with the other woman daring to point out that betrayed wives who scream insults at their husband’s girlfriends-affair partners-side pieces etc are totally and completely delusional, where they don’t direct that same fire to the husband. Cue the insults and a million lying replies about how of course they blame the men equally. It’s all lies.


Finally!

Somebody who shares my opinion! Refreshing!

Please read all "10 pages" to appreciate how truly ridiculous these women can be.These women are something else. From calling the APs dumb, to calling me an AP, to accusing me of lacking empathy, to calling me bipolar. It's been something!


I will type it again: it makes no sense at all to insult a woman for sleeping with a man you are STILL sleeping with. You are just insulting yourself.





Translation:

Anger at someone who slept with your husband . . . absurd!

Anger at people who post about being angry that someone slept with their husbands . . . totally rational!


You should divert that anger at your husband. That is who " betrayed" you( not you in particular, but you get what I mean).

So you would rub excrement on your body because you are angry at someone for sleeping with your husband? That's exactly what you are doing. It does not make sense.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^ Self reflection can help with those delusions actually. I held up a mirror for these people in those "10 pages". They will close their eyes and fight looking at it, but they got a glimpse, and they notice that the image is not as high and mighty as they built it in their heads.

Again, they are welcome.


Projection


Anything to avoid admitting she was humiliated and betrayed. By the husband she chose and stuck with, waiting for the other shoes to drop.


Could you please bump up the PP you are referring to? This conversation is really confusing otherwise.


The entire conversation is a mess.

I am a happily married woman and I agree with the other woman daring to point out that betrayed wives who scream insults at their husband’s girlfriends-affair partners-side pieces etc are totally and completely delusional, where they don’t direct that same fire to the husband. Cue the insults and a million lying replies about how of course they blame the men equally. It’s all lies.


Finally!

Somebody who shares my opinion! Refreshing!

Please read all "10 pages" to appreciate how truly ridiculous these women can be.These women are something else. From calling the APs dumb, to calling me an AP, to accusing me of lacking empathy, to calling me bipolar. It's been something!


I will type it again: it makes no sense at all to insult a woman for sleeping with a man you are STILL sleeping with. You are just insulting yourself.





Translation:

Anger at someone who slept with your husband . . . absurd!

Anger at people who post about being angry that someone slept with their husbands . . . totally rational!


You should divert that anger at your husband. That is who " betrayed" you( not you in particular, but you get what I mean).

So you would rub excrement on your body because you are angry at someone for sleeping with your husband? That's exactly what you are doing. It does not make sense.



So you would rub excrement on your body because you are angry at someone for having an opinion you think is dumb? That's exactly what you are doing. It does not make sense.
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