Kissed someone, not my DH

[Anonymous]

My husband is out of town and last night I went out w an old college friend and for the first time in years, we, like, "went out". Heels, lipstick, etc. I was getting hit on by this guy, we were having all the laughs, and I decided to leave. And out of the blue, obviously fuels by drinks, I leaned over and kissed him on the mouth! And then promptly ran away and into a cab.

In the light of day, I'm half horrified and half sort of find it funny. But mostly horrified. What level of awful is this?

For what it's worth, I'm 30, w DH for eight years, married for four. It's v out of the blue for me, which is why I find it both baffling and funny and upsetting.

[Anonymous]

Don't go out drinking with your friend if you can't keep your act together. You are a train wreck waiting to happen.

[Anonymous]

It's not something I'd be confessing to my spouse (and frankly I wouldn't want my spouse to tell me), but I'd be watching my liquor in the future and not putting myself in a situation for it to happen again.

[Anonymous]

It's a shot across the bow, op. No more going out and boozing it up without your DH. Don't tell him, and next time he's away, go to the movies.

[Anonymous]

Define kiss. Was it a peck, a few seconds, make out session, something else?

[Anonymous]

So were you drunk when you were putting on the lipstick and heels?

You wanted something to happen and a few drinks would help. Be a grown-up and accept responsibility for your actions. You think this is funny???

Grow up.

[Anonymous]

A peck? No tongue? That's nothing. Just keep it to yourself and watch it so you don't really do something next time!

[Anonymous]

It's apparent liquor enables you to act slutty and disrespectful of your husband and friend. I suggest you stick to water and only go out with your husband.

[Anonymous]

You got attached then married too young. It is human nature that you wonder about other guys.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You got attached then married too young. It is human nature that you wonder about other guys.

I'm a PP who agrees with this too. But still, that ship has sailed, so just try to keep yourself in check from here on out OP.

[Anonymous]

I would hate myself for this.

[Anonymous]

Not a big deal. Don't say anything and forget about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not a big deal. Don't say anything and forget about it.

I wouldn't care if my husband did that or if it was done to him. I'm also 30, been with my husband 9 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You got attached then married too young. It is human nature that you wonder about other guys.

I'm a PP who agrees with this too. But still, that ship has sailed, so just try to keep yourself in check from here on out OP.

+2

[Anonymous]

Most women the cheat on their H do it in their early 30's ... So you just a cliche.