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No, they don't. Not all may agree with Dem policies, but they are not characterized by arguing in bad faith |
It takes a village to raise a child, and modern day people now laugh at this phrase. People say, my child can do no wrong, and blame the other children, no one wants to take responsibility or accountability. My child, my rules… One major reason why there were virtually no mass shootings during the 20th century was because kids had a supportive village. The neighborhood kids in the suburbs, the city, wherever. We had each other’s backs, our moms or dads would help out other parents when needed. We had involved extended families close by who listened to us, had conversations with us, told us their life stories and experiences, taught us life skills, we had amazing involved teachers/mentors/coaches who weren’t afraid to develop close relationships with students. We had people who we KNEW loved us or at least cared about us. My kids are missing much of this now, neighbors barely know each other, everyone seems so afraid of everything now. No one wants so venture outside of their little bubble. |
There is a difference between internet trolls of either political persuasion and political leaders. Every single damn time Trump says something stupid and outrageous, we hear about how this is how LWNJs think and point to some random person or celebrity. They never point to democratic politicians because they are not behaving that way. |
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People, mentally “well” young men are being radicalized online. They don’t have to be clinically depressed or anxious or bipolar. This boy was raised in a gun filled household, but no child is safe from these influences online.
Pay attention. Several of us have shared links and informative posts. Stop arguing and read them. YOUR boys are at risk too. Learn about Gamer Gate. Learn about Nick Fuentes. Understand Pepe the Frog memes. Learn about the other hate groups. Educate your boys to stay away from this garbage. Boys are being radicalized and desensitized. They are becoming racist, misogynistic, and violent even if you think you raised them differently. Talk to them about what they see online . https://gnet-research.org/2022/10/24/extreme-right-radicalisation-of-children-via-online-gaming-platforms/ https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-07-15/alt-right-groups-video-games-radicalising-young-men-extremism/101212494 https://www.theguardian.com/games/2025/mar/24/video-games-cant-escape-their-role-in-the-radicalisation-of-young-men |
Agree 100% we need to do better for ALL KIDS. Be an example, be a good listener. Be there for them. |
An even more relevant reason was the comparative lack of access to semi-automatic (or functionally so) guns. |
Collectivism did work back when there was such a thing as community where everyone knew the grocer, the butcher, the paperboy, the hairstylist, the cop, the banker, the doctor that still did house calls. We have neighborhoods now. We no longer have community |
There's a lot of artificial stress being pushed on kids with all of the divisive rhetoric. It's no surprise that some of them might crack. But of course the right wing is going to keep on with the divisive rhetoric just like they've done every time before and will clutch their pearls when someone cracks, but still refuse to do anything about it. They've refused to address gun violence in America, deflecting to mental health, but then refused to address mental health in America other than to use it as a scapegoat. Rinse and repeat. This bullshit is getting people killed, and Charlie Kirk is just the latest victim. And ironically Charlie Kirk literally said "acceptable loss" when it was other people getting killed. |
There’s nothing you do can do as a parent. I think some men are naturally drawn to either religious fanaticism or extremist political violence. It’s certainly not something that just happens in America. It’s a tale as old as time. Men are drawn to violence |
It’s so scary. Back in the day, we saw Muslim youth being radicalized in this way. Middle class kids with seemingly stable home lives would up and join Isis. You would see those stories and wonder what the heck happened. These were not your typical suicide bombers with nothing left to lose. They had bright future ahead of them. And now we are seeing this same type of radicalization across races. The ideology is irrelevant. The isolation, the hate, the cycling into despair- those are the common themes. Apparently our young men are susceptible. |
| The fact that he appeared to be such a high achiever but ended up dropping out after one semester and pursuing a trade signals to me a mental illness issue. I went to a top 20 school and I remember distinctly two guys that I think had psychotic breaks. One was during his freshman year, he violated the student conduct code somehow and was kicked out of school, not sure what happened to him after aside from some slightly insane social media posting. Another happened in med school, probably in early 20s. Super smart guy, ended up dropping out and I saw some really insane social media rambling. This is exactly the age where schizophrenia pops up and I wouldn’t be surprised if something to that effect plus the toxicity of the internet is what happened |
Mike Lee and Charlie Kirk both joked about Mr. Pelosi's beating. Neither are randos like the people who are supposedly celebrating Charlie Kirk's assassination. |
That seems rather fatalistic / anti-men. |
Before women's liberation a woman was obligated to get married to have a place in society. They couldn't own property or get a credit card. Once women entered the workforce and were able to own their own houses they began to see marriage as a raw deal, which studies show it mostly is. Married women are the least happy demographic because most have to work outside of the home and do almost all of the housework and child rearing. They are opting out because they see how miserable most married women are. This has created an entire generation of unmarried men who are not only single but being passed by in higher ed and the workplace. They sad and angry, but rather than turn inward and fix themselves they take their anger out on women. Why? Because American society is set up to tell both sexes that a man is a prize, that a woman is nothing without a man. That men should have their pick of women despite brining nothing to the table. The entitlement of the American male is woven into our dna. This anger is starting to bubble up in these shootings and we're only going to see more and more of them because our entire society is set up to perpetuate the status quo. |
It has a lot to do with feeling othered or having others guilt or resentment pushed on to you. I think some white men feel othered or out of place in the dominant society due to messages of demonization or white privilege/straight white males being colonizers or evil/the patriarchy. Muslim males also have a similar issue where they certainly are othered and demonized. Same with black men. Even with trans. When you’re thought to be “the problem”, you tend to internalize that and act out. Women/girls are not demonized the way men are |