Confessions

[Anonymous]

I confess that I am fat prejudice. When I have to walk by a really fat person, I hold my breath because I think they are going to stink.

[Anonymous]

I confess that I am a holster sniffer. I totally have a thing for guys in uniform.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you dread inane playground chitchat just be black like me. All the other moms assume you're a nanny and don't talk to you.

that also works if you are young and your kids are mixed

LOL - So true. I am young, black and my kids are mixed.

[Anonymous]

I confess that I don't believe thinness makes anyone a better person. No less lazy, no less greedy, no less stinky, no less <insert insulting generalization here>.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I confess that I don't believe thinness makes anyone a better person. No less lazy, no less greedy, no less stinky, no less <insert insulting generalization here>.

YEah. esp those vain, pointy, tight-faced thin little moms out there. So obsessed with being thin that their minds are numb. Of course, being very overweight is NOT a good option. But, like with most things, here's to the middle ground!

Oh, and my mom always said: you have to choose between your face and your body. What she meant was that in her crowd of 60-70 yr olds the thin ones look SO much older because no fat to fill out their wrinkles! A silly point but something the vain thin chicks should consider!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't like having sex with my husband. He's too big, and it usually hurts. Then I get a UTI.

Let's get together-maybe I could help you with your problem-is your husband hot?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I confess that I am fat prejudice. When I have to walk by a really fat person, I hold my breath because I think they are going to stink.

Really curious and not trying to be snarky here but why would you think a fat person would stink? Do you think they sweat more than thin people? Do you think they bathe less than thin people? I'm fat and I'm really curious about this. Most people don't treat me like I stink, they treat me like I'm invisible.

[Anonymous]

We've had so many events- Dh loss of job, TTC issues, 2 under 3, we haven't sex since we had to to try to get DC2 (which was IVF so 2 years ago). I know it's 2+ years of not sex but I am fine with this.. screwed up? I just have no energy- kids drain us (this young) - I have nightmares of cheating sometimes but i'm too tired to follow up on all that i want to change- i really mean it that we have no help and are tired/ new work situation etc. but it just keep going! we're very close (talk about everytjing) but no sex- just another language..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I confess that I am fat prejudice. When I have to walk by a really fat person, I hold my breath because I think they are going to stink.

this is what they said about Jews in Nazi Germany. Nice

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We've had so many events- Dh loss of job, TTC issues, 2 under 3, we haven't sex since we had to to try to get DC2 (which was IVF so 2 years ago). I know it's 2+ years of not sex but I am fine with this.. screwed up? I just have no energy- kids drain us (this young) - I have nightmares of cheating sometimes but i'm too tired to follow up on all that i want to change- i really mean it that we have no help and are tired/ new work situation etc. but it just keep going! we're very close (talk about everytjing) but no sex- just another language..

This reminds me of that married couple on the (cancelled) HBO show, "Tell Me You Love Me".

[Anonymous]

"they treat me like I'm invisible."

That is sad. And wrong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"they treat me like I'm invisible."

That is sad. And wrong.

It is sad and I'm sorry to the poster who said this. I've heard that fat is the only "acceptable" prejudice. Meaning people don't judge fat prejudice like they would prejudice about skin/race etc.

[Anonymous]

I confess that I am secretly envious of women who have tons of friends and were/are in the "in" crowd. I still feel like the big dork I was in high school.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I confess that I am fat prejudice. When I have to walk by a really fat person, I hold my breath because I think they are going to stink.

Really curious and not trying to be snarky here but why would you think a fat person would stink? Do you think they sweat more than thin people? Do you think they bathe less than thin people? I'm fat and I'm really curious about this. Most people don't treat me like I stink, they treat me like I'm invisible.

I am really sorry you feel that way and I'm sure I would make you feel somewhat similar should our paths cross. May I ask if you are you happy with your weight and if not, why are you still heavy? Does feeling invisible and slighted motivate you to want to lose weight in anyway?

As for my hangup, I guess I am thinking about the cleanliness of creases and rolls, an perceived inability to properly fit or move around in a standard shower, and extra sweat from skin on skin and/or from the sheer exertion of moving around.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I confess that I am fat prejudice. When I have to walk by a really fat person, I hold my breath because I think they are going to stink.

Really curious and not trying to be snarky here but why would you think a fat person would stink? Do you think they sweat more than thin people? Do you think they bathe less than thin people? I'm fat and I'm really curious about this. Most people don't treat me like I stink, they treat me like I'm invisible.

I am really sorry you feel that way and I'm sure I would make you feel somewhat similar should our paths cross. May I ask if you are you happy with your weight and if not, why are you still heavy? Does feeling invisible and slighted motivate you to want to lose weight in anyway?

As for my hangup, I guess I am thinking about the cleanliness of creases and rolls, an perceived inability to properly fit or move around in a standard shower, and extra sweat from skin on skin and/or from the sheer exertion of moving around.

. o O (I wonder if she realizes how insensitive and condescending that sounds...)