Choosing between VDA ECNL and FCV GA

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Anonymous wrote:You don't get it. You get the privilege of playing at VDA and getting the coaching that comes with it. If you don't like it, leave. There will be 10 other players begging to take her place. 99% of these criticisms are from parents whose kids couldn't sniff our teams.

Exactly. We are new to VDA. We see a lot of hard coaching and demanding coaching. That’s what these athletes need. Clearly some of you had your feelings hurt and your daughters were cut. Sorry.

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Anonymous wrote:PWSI and VSA are VDA. There is nothing special about VDA. It’s the same below average coaching your DS or DD has gotten since they were U9. Only difference is the travel and costs. The boys side has lost most the talent due to the decision to go ECNL.

It's amazing how quickly VDA deletes posts. Can't stand the truth. In any case, word of mouth is far more powerful in the business world and that can’t be deleted.

Any coach, any sport, any league in the world is under same scrutiny. Either you win every game, or "something is wrong with you". You can never prove he is the reason a team lost and he can't prove he's the reason they won. His "great team" is winning... therefore, he's doing *literally* his job exactly as he should. He didn't take a super-team and tank them to mid-level, they are dominating. So, as for other teams, what do you expect? Every age group to be #1? I'm sorry... did I miss the ECNL webpage where one club has a #1 team in every age..? Darn. So, it would seem that you're DD is either playing all the time, exactly where she should, or you're gonna cry. There is zero harm to anyone. Girls are going to college. The best team in the area continues to show it. The teams only gained girls and those that left did so at their free will. Children, not pros. The coaches are doing exactly as they should. Sorry you had a bad experience, but watch out for VDA to continue to rise rise rise

You're a complete moron. You are not a good coach just because one team in a club is performing well. And that's the crux of your problem: you believe that having one good team out of a whole club qualifies you as a great coach, it doesn't. That's exactly what happened at BRYC; yes, the 03 were excellent, but all of the other teams were destroyed. Girls were made to feel bad and told they were worthless, leaving us with nothing to rebuild on. Grow up and become a better coach, recognizing the genuine talent you have in the whole team, and stop pushing the girls away and start mentoring them how to play as a team.

Okay, Enough! MW wasn’t to blame for this weekends ass beating. We where missing our goalie which made a huge difference, We only had 2 subs for 2 away games. Our coach did the best he could with what we had and so did the girls. Both teams against us that we played had a total of probably 15 shots on goal the entire weekend, 9 of those goals went in, unfortunately. 5 set piece goals with 2 own goals during those set pieces. The goalies and players played there hearts out but it’s a huge issue when your goalie is out and you only have 2 subs. Stop bashing and trying to make him feel bad for things out of his control. We had our chances we had 25-35 shots on goal for the weekend compared to there 15. It just wasn’t there weekend. It happens, God you people need to get a life.

Okay, Enough! ? Who the He🏒🏒 do you think you are? We are all adults here. This is the problem with youth soccer. Parents finally have a forum where they feel like they can speak their truth and not be bullied to stay quiet. VDA has had a problem for years silencing the parents when they speak. If a parent comes forward they are either silenced with their kid getting playing time or silenced by being forced out of the club.

DCURBAN mom ? More like VDA urban coach. A whole Topic deleted last night because a VDA coach had their feelings hurt. Wonder how many players have had their feelings hurt because a coach yelled and humiliated them in front of their mates? The player seems to have bigger pants than these coaches, because they show up the next day to prove to the coach they were wrong.

Yesssssss, last night’s posts should not have been deleted, this is a forum for parents and players to speak up. VDA is hiding the true. I don’t see other clubs deleting complains and criticizing posts to them.

Every club deletes posts. We get it. MW cut your kid and you hate him. What was the subject of the deleted post?

About how practices suck and how terrible the coaching is at VDA, and how they lost matches this weekend.

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Anonymous wrote:PWSI and VSA are VDA. There is nothing special about VDA. It’s the same below average coaching your DS or DD has gotten since they were U9. Only difference is the travel and costs. The boys side has lost most the talent due to the decision to go ECNL.

It's amazing how quickly VDA deletes posts. Can't stand the truth. In any case, word of mouth is far more powerful in the business world and that can’t be deleted.

Any coach, any sport, any league in the world is under same scrutiny. Either you win every game, or "something is wrong with you". You can never prove he is the reason a team lost and he can't prove he's the reason they won. His "great team" is winning... therefore, he's doing *literally* his job exactly as he should. He didn't take a super-team and tank them to mid-level, they are dominating. So, as for other teams, what do you expect? Every age group to be #1? I'm sorry... did I miss the ECNL webpage where one club has a #1 team in every age..? Darn. So, it would seem that you're DD is either playing all the time, exactly where she should, or you're gonna cry. There is zero harm to anyone. Girls are going to college. The best team in the area continues to show it. The teams only gained girls and those that left did so at their free will. Children, not pros. The coaches are doing exactly as they should. Sorry you had a bad experience, but watch out for VDA to continue to rise rise rise

You're a complete moron. You are not a good coach just because one team in a club is performing well. And that's the crux of your problem: you believe that having one good team out of a whole club qualifies you as a great coach, it doesn't. That's exactly what happened at BRYC; yes, the 03 were excellent, but all of the other teams were destroyed. Girls were made to feel bad and told they were worthless, leaving us with nothing to rebuild on. Grow up and become a better coach, recognizing the genuine talent you have in the whole team, and stop pushing the girls away and start mentoring them how to play as a team.

Okay, Enough! MW wasn’t to blame for this weekends ass beating. We where missing our goalie which made a huge difference, We only had 2 subs for 2 away games. Our coach did the best he could with what we had and so did the girls. Both teams against us that we played had a total of probably 15 shots on goal the entire weekend, 9 of those goals went in, unfortunately. 5 set piece goals with 2 own goals during those set pieces. The goalies and players played there hearts out but it’s a huge issue when your goalie is out and you only have 2 subs. Stop bashing and trying to make him feel bad for things out of his control. We had our chances we had 25-35 shots on goal for the weekend compared to there 15. It just wasn’t there weekend. It happens, God you people need to get a life.

Okay, Enough! ? Who the He🏒🏒 do you think you are? We are all adults here. This is the problem with youth soccer. Parents finally have a forum where they feel like they can speak their truth and not be bullied to stay quiet. VDA has had a problem for years silencing the parents when they speak. If a parent comes forward they are either silenced with their kid getting playing time or silenced by being forced out of the club.

DCURBAN mom ? More like VDA urban coach. A whole Topic deleted last night because a VDA coach had their feelings hurt. Wonder how many players have had their feelings hurt because a coach yelled and humiliated them in front of their mates? The player seems to have bigger pants than these coaches, because they show up the next day to prove to the coach they were wrong.

Yesssssss, last night’s posts should not have been deleted, this is a forum for parents and players to speak up. VDA is hiding the true. I don’t see other clubs deleting complains and criticizing posts to them.

Every club deletes posts. We get it. MW cut your kid and you hate him. What was the subject of the deleted post?

About how practices suck and how terrible the coaching is at VDA, and how they lost matches this weekend.

The only thing VDA should take away from this is that practices need to improve in order for the team to be successful on game day. They should be reviewing film of their opponents during the week leading up to the game, developing a game plan, and sticking to it for the most part. That’s what us parents want. Everything else is subjective.

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Yesterday’s and today’s complains and critics are clearly made from current team players/parents.

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Anonymous wrote:PWSI and VSA are VDA. There is nothing special about VDA. It’s the same below average coaching your DS or DD has gotten since they were U9. Only difference is the travel and costs. The boys side has lost most the talent due to the decision to go ECNL.

It's amazing how quickly VDA deletes posts. Can't stand the truth. In any case, word of mouth is far more powerful in the business world and that can’t be deleted.

Any coach, any sport, any league in the world is under same scrutiny. Either you win every game, or "something is wrong with you". You can never prove he is the reason a team lost and he can't prove he's the reason they won. His "great team" is winning... therefore, he's doing *literally* his job exactly as he should. He didn't take a super-team and tank them to mid-level, they are dominating. So, as for other teams, what do you expect? Every age group to be #1? I'm sorry... did I miss the ECNL webpage where one club has a #1 team in every age..? Darn. So, it would seem that you're DD is either playing all the time, exactly where she should, or you're gonna cry. There is zero harm to anyone. Girls are going to college. The best team in the area continues to show it. The teams only gained girls and those that left did so at their free will. Children, not pros. The coaches are doing exactly as they should. Sorry you had a bad experience, but watch out for VDA to continue to rise rise rise

You're a complete moron. You are not a good coach just because one team in a club is performing well. And that's the crux of your problem: you believe that having one good team out of a whole club qualifies you as a great coach, it doesn't. That's exactly what happened at BRYC; yes, the 03 were excellent, but all of the other teams were destroyed. Girls were made to feel bad and told they were worthless, leaving us with nothing to rebuild on. Grow up and become a better coach, recognizing the genuine talent you have in the whole team, and stop pushing the girls away and start mentoring them how to play as a team.

Okay, Enough! MW wasn’t to blame for this weekends ass beating. We where missing our goalie which made a huge difference, We only had 2 subs for 2 away games. Our coach did the best he could with what we had and so did the girls. Both teams against us that we played had a total of probably 15 shots on goal the entire weekend, 9 of those goals went in, unfortunately. 5 set piece goals with 2 own goals during those set pieces. The goalies and players played there hearts out but it’s a huge issue when your goalie is out and you only have 2 subs. Stop bashing and trying to make him feel bad for things out of his control. We had our chances we had 25-35 shots on goal for the weekend compared to there 15. It just wasn’t there weekend. It happens, God you people need to get a life.

Okay, Enough! ? Who the He🏒🏒 do you think you are? We are all adults here. This is the problem with youth soccer. Parents finally have a forum where they feel like they can speak their truth and not be bullied to stay quiet. VDA has had a problem for years silencing the parents when they speak. If a parent comes forward they are either silenced with their kid getting playing time or silenced by being forced out of the club.

DCURBAN mom ? More like VDA urban coach. A whole Topic deleted last night because a VDA coach had their feelings hurt. Wonder how many players have had their feelings hurt because a coach yelled and humiliated them in front of their mates? The player seems to have bigger pants than these coaches, because they show up the next day to prove to the coach they were wrong.

Yesssssss, last night’s posts should not have been deleted, this is a forum for parents and players to speak up. VDA is hiding the true. I don’t see other clubs deleting complains and criticizing posts to them.

Every club deletes posts. We get it. MW cut your kid and you hate him. What was the subject of the deleted post?

About how practices suck and how terrible the coaching is at VDA, and how they lost matches this weekend.

The only thing VDA should take away from this is that practices need to improve in order for the team to be successful on game day. They should be reviewing film of their opponents during the week leading up to the game, developing a game plan, and sticking to it for the most part. That’s what us parents want. Everything else is subjective.

Not sure which team your daughter plays for. My daughter plays for Vda. Her coach does video review with the girls.

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Anonymous wrote:Yesterday’s and today’s complains and critics are clearly made from current team players/parents.

Which team?

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Anonymous wrote:PWSI and VSA are VDA. There is nothing special about VDA. It’s the same below average coaching your DS or DD has gotten since they were U9. Only difference is the travel and costs. The boys side has lost most the talent due to the decision to go ECNL.

It's amazing how quickly VDA deletes posts. Can't stand the truth. In any case, word of mouth is far more powerful in the business world and that can’t be deleted.

Any coach, any sport, any league in the world is under same scrutiny. Either you win every game, or "something is wrong with you". You can never prove he is the reason a team lost and he can't prove he's the reason they won. His "great team" is winning... therefore, he's doing *literally* his job exactly as he should. He didn't take a super-team and tank them to mid-level, they are dominating. So, as for other teams, what do you expect? Every age group to be #1? I'm sorry... did I miss the ECNL webpage where one club has a #1 team in every age..? Darn. So, it would seem that you're DD is either playing all the time, exactly where she should, or you're gonna cry. There is zero harm to anyone. Girls are going to college. The best team in the area continues to show it. The teams only gained girls and those that left did so at their free will. Children, not pros. The coaches are doing exactly as they should. Sorry you had a bad experience, but watch out for VDA to continue to rise rise rise

You're a complete moron. You are not a good coach just because one team in a club is performing well. And that's the crux of your problem: you believe that having one good team out of a whole club qualifies you as a great coach, it doesn't. That's exactly what happened at BRYC; yes, the 03 were excellent, but all of the other teams were destroyed. Girls were made to feel bad and told they were worthless, leaving us with nothing to rebuild on. Grow up and become a better coach, recognizing the genuine talent you have in the whole team, and stop pushing the girls away and start mentoring them how to play as a team.

Okay, Enough! MW wasn’t to blame for this weekends ass beating. We where missing our goalie which made a huge difference, We only had 2 subs for 2 away games. Our coach did the best he could with what we had and so did the girls. Both teams against us that we played had a total of probably 15 shots on goal the entire weekend, 9 of those goals went in, unfortunately. 5 set piece goals with 2 own goals during those set pieces. The goalies and players played there hearts out but it’s a huge issue when your goalie is out and you only have 2 subs. Stop bashing and trying to make him feel bad for things out of his control. We had our chances we had 25-35 shots on goal for the weekend compared to there 15. It just wasn’t there weekend. It happens, God you people need to get a life.

Okay, Enough! ? Who the He🏒🏒 do you think you are? We are all adults here. This is the problem with youth soccer. Parents finally have a forum where they feel like they can speak their truth and not be bullied to stay quiet. VDA has had a problem for years silencing the parents when they speak. If a parent comes forward they are either silenced with their kid getting playing time or silenced by being forced out of the club.

DCURBAN mom ? More like VDA urban coach. A whole Topic deleted last night because a VDA coach had their feelings hurt. Wonder how many players have had their feelings hurt because a coach yelled and humiliated them in front of their mates? The player seems to have bigger pants than these coaches, because they show up the next day to prove to the coach they were wrong.

Yesssssss, last night’s posts should not have been deleted, this is a forum for parents and players to speak up. VDA is hiding the true. I don’t see other clubs deleting complains and criticizing posts to them.

Every club deletes posts. We get it. MW cut your kid and you hate him. What was the subject of the deleted post?

About how practices suck and how terrible the coaching is at VDA, and how they lost matches this weekend.

The only thing VDA should take away from this is that practices need to improve in order for the team to be successful on game day. They should be reviewing film of their opponents during the week leading up to the game, developing a game plan, and sticking to it for the most part. That’s what us parents want. Everything else is subjective.

06s watch film? If they don’t it’s clear coach has because there is adjustments on how to press and how to build from the goalie depending on who we play?

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Anonymous wrote:PWSI and VSA are VDA. There is nothing special about VDA. It’s the same below average coaching your DS or DD has gotten since they were U9. Only difference is the travel and costs. The boys side has lost most the talent due to the decision to go ECNL.

It's amazing how quickly VDA deletes posts. Can't stand the truth. In any case, word of mouth is far more powerful in the business world and that can’t be deleted.

Any coach, any sport, any league in the world is under same scrutiny. Either you win every game, or "something is wrong with you". You can never prove he is the reason a team lost and he can't prove he's the reason they won. His "great team" is winning... therefore, he's doing *literally* his job exactly as he should. He didn't take a super-team and tank them to mid-level, they are dominating. So, as for other teams, what do you expect? Every age group to be #1? I'm sorry... did I miss the ECNL webpage where one club has a #1 team in every age..? Darn. So, it would seem that you're DD is either playing all the time, exactly where she should, or you're gonna cry. There is zero harm to anyone. Girls are going to college. The best team in the area continues to show it. The teams only gained girls and those that left did so at their free will. Children, not pros. The coaches are doing exactly as they should. Sorry you had a bad experience, but watch out for VDA to continue to rise rise rise

You're a complete moron. You are not a good coach just because one team in a club is performing well. And that's the crux of your problem: you believe that having one good team out of a whole club qualifies you as a great coach, it doesn't. That's exactly what happened at BRYC; yes, the 03 were excellent, but all of the other teams were destroyed. Girls were made to feel bad and told they were worthless, leaving us with nothing to rebuild on. Grow up and become a better coach, recognizing the genuine talent you have in the whole team, and stop pushing the girls away and start mentoring them how to play as a team.

Okay, Enough! MW wasn’t to blame for this weekends ass beating. We where missing our goalie which made a huge difference, We only had 2 subs for 2 away games. Our coach did the best he could with what we had and so did the girls. Both teams against us that we played had a total of probably 15 shots on goal the entire weekend, 9 of those goals went in, unfortunately. 5 set piece goals with 2 own goals during those set pieces. The goalies and players played there hearts out but it’s a huge issue when your goalie is out and you only have 2 subs. Stop bashing and trying to make him feel bad for things out of his control. We had our chances we had 25-35 shots on goal for the weekend compared to there 15. It just wasn’t there weekend. It happens, God you people need to get a life.

Okay, Enough! ? Who the He🏒🏒 do you think you are? We are all adults here. This is the problem with youth soccer. Parents finally have a forum where they feel like they can speak their truth and not be bullied to stay quiet. VDA has had a problem for years silencing the parents when they speak. If a parent comes forward they are either silenced with their kid getting playing time or silenced by being forced out of the club.

DCURBAN mom ? More like VDA urban coach. A whole Topic deleted last night because a VDA coach had their feelings hurt. Wonder how many players have had their feelings hurt because a coach yelled and humiliated them in front of their mates? The player seems to have bigger pants than these coaches, because they show up the next day to prove to the coach they were wrong.

Yesssssss, last night’s posts should not have been deleted, this is a forum for parents and players to speak up. VDA is hiding the true. I don’t see other clubs deleting complains and criticizing posts to them.

FCV posts are deleted all the time.
Online defamation will always be removed, won’t be long until coaches get lawyers for some of these posts

LOL, you do realize your comment says. “I’m a VDA coach going on here and criticizing FCV?”

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Anonymous wrote:PWSI and VSA are VDA. There is nothing special about VDA. It’s the same below average coaching your DS or DD has gotten since they were U9. Only difference is the travel and costs. The boys side has lost most the talent due to the decision to go ECNL.

It's amazing how quickly VDA deletes posts. Can't stand the truth. In any case, word of mouth is far more powerful in the business world and that can’t be deleted.

Any coach, any sport, any league in the world is under same scrutiny. Either you win every game, or "something is wrong with you". You can never prove he is the reason a team lost and he can't prove he's the reason they won. His "great team" is winning... therefore, he's doing *literally* his job exactly as he should. He didn't take a super-team and tank them to mid-level, they are dominating. So, as for other teams, what do you expect? Every age group to be #1? I'm sorry... did I miss the ECNL webpage where one club has a #1 team in every age..? Darn. So, it would seem that you're DD is either playing all the time, exactly where she should, or you're gonna cry. There is zero harm to anyone. Girls are going to college. The best team in the area continues to show it. The teams only gained girls and those that left did so at their free will. Children, not pros. The coaches are doing exactly as they should. Sorry you had a bad experience, but watch out for VDA to continue to rise rise rise

You're a complete moron. You are not a good coach just because one team in a club is performing well. And that's the crux of your problem: you believe that having one good team out of a whole club qualifies you as a great coach, it doesn't. That's exactly what happened at BRYC; yes, the 03 were excellent, but all of the other teams were destroyed. Girls were made to feel bad and told they were worthless, leaving us with nothing to rebuild on. Grow up and become a better coach, recognizing the genuine talent you have in the whole team, and stop pushing the girls away and start mentoring them how to play as a team.

Okay, Enough! MW wasn’t to blame for this weekends ass beating. We where missing our goalie which made a huge difference, We only had 2 subs for 2 away games. Our coach did the best he could with what we had and so did the girls. Both teams against us that we played had a total of probably 15 shots on goal the entire weekend, 9 of those goals went in, unfortunately. 5 set piece goals with 2 own goals during those set pieces. The goalies and players played there hearts out but it’s a huge issue when your goalie is out and you only have 2 subs. Stop bashing and trying to make him feel bad for things out of his control. We had our chances we had 25-35 shots on goal for the weekend compared to there 15. It just wasn’t there weekend. It happens, God you people need to get a life.

Okay, Enough! ? Who the He🏒🏒 do you think you are? We are all adults here. This is the problem with youth soccer. Parents finally have a forum where they feel like they can speak their truth and not be bullied to stay quiet. VDA has had a problem for years silencing the parents when they speak. If a parent comes forward they are either silenced with their kid getting playing time or silenced by being forced out of the club.

DCURBAN mom ? More like VDA urban coach. A whole Topic deleted last night because a VDA coach had their feelings hurt. Wonder how many players have had their feelings hurt because a coach yelled and humiliated them in front of their mates? The player seems to have bigger pants than these coaches, because they show up the next day to prove to the coach they were wrong.

Yesssssss, last night’s posts should not have been deleted, this is a forum for parents and players to speak up. VDA is hiding the true. I don’t see other clubs deleting complains and criticizing posts to them.

Every club deletes posts. We get it. MW cut your kid and you hate him. What was the subject of the deleted post?

About how practices suck and how terrible the coaching is at VDA, and how they lost matches this weekend.

The only thing VDA should take away from this is that practices need to improve in order for the team to be successful on game day. They should be reviewing film of their opponents during the week leading up to the game, developing a game plan, and sticking to it for the most part. That’s what us parents want. Everything else is subjective.

06s watch film? If they don’t it’s clear coach has because there is adjustments on how to press and how to build from the goalie depending on who we play?

VDA 09’s watch film…

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Anonymous wrote:PWSI and VSA are VDA. There is nothing special about VDA. It’s the same below average coaching your DS or DD has gotten since they were U9. Only difference is the travel and costs. The boys side has lost most the talent due to the decision to go ECNL.

It's amazing how quickly VDA deletes posts. Can't stand the truth. In any case, word of mouth is far more powerful in the business world and that can’t be deleted.

Any coach, any sport, any league in the world is under same scrutiny. Either you win every game, or "something is wrong with you". You can never prove he is the reason a team lost and he can't prove he's the reason they won. His "great team" is winning... therefore, he's doing *literally* his job exactly as he should. He didn't take a super-team and tank them to mid-level, they are dominating. So, as for other teams, what do you expect? Every age group to be #1? I'm sorry... did I miss the ECNL webpage where one club has a #1 team in every age..? Darn. So, it would seem that you're DD is either playing all the time, exactly where she should, or you're gonna cry. There is zero harm to anyone. Girls are going to college. The best team in the area continues to show it. The teams only gained girls and those that left did so at their free will. Children, not pros. The coaches are doing exactly as they should. Sorry you had a bad experience, but watch out for VDA to continue to rise rise rise

You're a complete moron. You are not a good coach just because one team in a club is performing well. And that's the crux of your problem: you believe that having one good team out of a whole club qualifies you as a great coach, it doesn't. That's exactly what happened at BRYC; yes, the 03 were excellent, but all of the other teams were destroyed. Girls were made to feel bad and told they were worthless, leaving us with nothing to rebuild on. Grow up and become a better coach, recognizing the genuine talent you have in the whole team, and stop pushing the girls away and start mentoring them how to play as a team.

Okay, Enough! MW wasn’t to blame for this weekends ass beating. We where missing our goalie which made a huge difference, We only had 2 subs for 2 away games. Our coach did the best he could with what we had and so did the girls. Both teams against us that we played had a total of probably 15 shots on goal the entire weekend, 9 of those goals went in, unfortunately. 5 set piece goals with 2 own goals during those set pieces. The goalies and players played there hearts out but it’s a huge issue when your goalie is out and you only have 2 subs. Stop bashing and trying to make him feel bad for things out of his control. We had our chances we had 25-35 shots on goal for the weekend compared to there 15. It just wasn’t there weekend. It happens, God you people need to get a life.

Okay, Enough! ? Who the He🏒🏒 do you think you are? We are all adults here. This is the problem with youth soccer. Parents finally have a forum where they feel like they can speak their truth and not be bullied to stay quiet. VDA has had a problem for years silencing the parents when they speak. If a parent comes forward they are either silenced with their kid getting playing time or silenced by being forced out of the club.

DCURBAN mom ? More like VDA urban coach. A whole Topic deleted last night because a VDA coach had their feelings hurt. Wonder how many players have had their feelings hurt because a coach yelled and humiliated them in front of their mates? The player seems to have bigger pants than these coaches, because they show up the next day to prove to the coach they were wrong.

Yesssssss, last night’s posts should not have been deleted, this is a forum for parents and players to speak up. VDA is hiding the true. I don’t see other clubs deleting complains and criticizing posts to them.

FCV posts are deleted all the time.
Online defamation will always be removed, won’t be long until coaches get lawyers for some of these posts

LOL, you do realize your comment says. “I’m a VDA coach going on here and criticizing FCV?”

LOL you do realize not everyone that responds to your BS is a coach

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Anonymous wrote:PWSI and VSA are VDA. There is nothing special about VDA. It’s the same below average coaching your DS or DD has gotten since they were U9. Only difference is the travel and costs. The boys side has lost most the talent due to the decision to go ECNL.

It's amazing how quickly VDA deletes posts. Can't stand the truth. In any case, word of mouth is far more powerful in the business world and that can’t be deleted.

Any coach, any sport, any league in the world is under same scrutiny. Either you win every game, or "something is wrong with you". You can never prove he is the reason a team lost and he can't prove he's the reason they won. His "great team" is winning... therefore, he's doing *literally* his job exactly as he should. He didn't take a super-team and tank them to mid-level, they are dominating. So, as for other teams, what do you expect? Every age group to be #1? I'm sorry... did I miss the ECNL webpage where one club has a #1 team in every age..? Darn. So, it would seem that you're DD is either playing all the time, exactly where she should, or you're gonna cry. There is zero harm to anyone. Girls are going to college. The best team in the area continues to show it. The teams only gained girls and those that left did so at their free will. Children, not pros. The coaches are doing exactly as they should. Sorry you had a bad experience, but watch out for VDA to continue to rise rise rise

You're a complete moron. You are not a good coach just because one team in a club is performing well. And that's the crux of your problem: you believe that having one good team out of a whole club qualifies you as a great coach, it doesn't. That's exactly what happened at BRYC; yes, the 03 were excellent, but all of the other teams were destroyed. Girls were made to feel bad and told they were worthless, leaving us with nothing to rebuild on. Grow up and become a better coach, recognizing the genuine talent you have in the whole team, and stop pushing the girls away and start mentoring them how to play as a team.

Okay, Enough! MW wasn’t to blame for this weekends ass beating. We where missing our goalie which made a huge difference, We only had 2 subs for 2 away games. Our coach did the best he could with what we had and so did the girls. Both teams against us that we played had a total of probably 15 shots on goal the entire weekend, 9 of those goals went in, unfortunately. 5 set piece goals with 2 own goals during those set pieces. The goalies and players played there hearts out but it’s a huge issue when your goalie is out and you only have 2 subs. Stop bashing and trying to make him feel bad for things out of his control. We had our chances we had 25-35 shots on goal for the weekend compared to there 15. It just wasn’t there weekend. It happens, God you people need to get a life.

Okay, Enough! ? Who the He🏒🏒 do you think you are? We are all adults here. This is the problem with youth soccer. Parents finally have a forum where they feel like they can speak their truth and not be bullied to stay quiet. VDA has had a problem for years silencing the parents when they speak. If a parent comes forward they are either silenced with their kid getting playing time or silenced by being forced out of the club.

DCURBAN mom ? More like VDA urban coach. A whole Topic deleted last night because a VDA coach had their feelings hurt. Wonder how many players have had their feelings hurt because a coach yelled and humiliated them in front of their mates? The player seems to have bigger pants than these coaches, because they show up the next day to prove to the coach they were wrong.

Yesssssss, last night’s posts should not have been deleted, this is a forum for parents and players to speak up. VDA is hiding the true. I don’t see other clubs deleting complains and criticizing posts to them.

Every club deletes posts. We get it. MW cut your kid and you hate him. What was the subject of the deleted post?

About how practices suck and how terrible the coaching is at VDA, and how they lost matches this weekend.

The only thing VDA should take away from this is that practices need to improve in order for the team to be successful on game day. They should be reviewing film of their opponents during the week leading up to the game, developing a game plan, and sticking to it for the most part. That’s what us parents want. Everything else is subjective.

06s watch film? If they don’t it’s clear coach has because there is adjustments on how to press and how to build from the goalie depending on who we play?

VDA 09’s watch film…

U19 don’t.

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Anonymous wrote:PWSI and VSA are VDA. There is nothing special about VDA. It’s the same below average coaching your DS or DD has gotten since they were U9. Only difference is the travel and costs. The boys side has lost most the talent due to the decision to go ECNL.

It's amazing how quickly VDA deletes posts. Can't stand the truth. In any case, word of mouth is far more powerful in the business world and that can’t be deleted.

Any coach, any sport, any league in the world is under same scrutiny. Either you win every game, or "something is wrong with you". You can never prove he is the reason a team lost and he can't prove he's the reason they won. His "great team" is winning... therefore, he's doing *literally* his job exactly as he should. He didn't take a super-team and tank them to mid-level, they are dominating. So, as for other teams, what do you expect? Every age group to be #1? I'm sorry... did I miss the ECNL webpage where one club has a #1 team in every age..? Darn. So, it would seem that you're DD is either playing all the time, exactly where she should, or you're gonna cry. There is zero harm to anyone. Girls are going to college. The best team in the area continues to show it. The teams only gained girls and those that left did so at their free will. Children, not pros. The coaches are doing exactly as they should. Sorry you had a bad experience, but watch out for VDA to continue to rise rise rise

You're a complete moron. You are not a good coach just because one team in a club is performing well. And that's the crux of your problem: you believe that having one good team out of a whole club qualifies you as a great coach, it doesn't. That's exactly what happened at BRYC; yes, the 03 were excellent, but all of the other teams were destroyed. Girls were made to feel bad and told they were worthless, leaving us with nothing to rebuild on. Grow up and become a better coach, recognizing the genuine talent you have in the whole team, and stop pushing the girls away and start mentoring them how to play as a team.

Okay, Enough! MW wasn’t to blame for this weekends ass beating. We where missing our goalie which made a huge difference, We only had 2 subs for 2 away games. Our coach did the best he could with what we had and so did the girls. Both teams against us that we played had a total of probably 15 shots on goal the entire weekend, 9 of those goals went in, unfortunately. 5 set piece goals with 2 own goals during those set pieces. The goalies and players played there hearts out but it’s a huge issue when your goalie is out and you only have 2 subs. Stop bashing and trying to make him feel bad for things out of his control. We had our chances we had 25-35 shots on goal for the weekend compared to there 15. It just wasn’t there weekend. It happens, God you people need to get a life.

Okay, Enough! ? Who the He🏒🏒 do you think you are? We are all adults here. This is the problem with youth soccer. Parents finally have a forum where they feel like they can speak their truth and not be bullied to stay quiet. VDA has had a problem for years silencing the parents when they speak. If a parent comes forward they are either silenced with their kid getting playing time or silenced by being forced out of the club.

DCURBAN mom ? More like VDA urban coach. A whole Topic deleted last night because a VDA coach had their feelings hurt. Wonder how many players have had their feelings hurt because a coach yelled and humiliated them in front of their mates? The player seems to have bigger pants than these coaches, because they show up the next day to prove to the coach they were wrong.

Yesssssss, last night’s posts should not have been deleted, this is a forum for parents and players to speak up. VDA is hiding the true. I don’t see other clubs deleting complains and criticizing posts to them.

Every club deletes posts. We get it. MW cut your kid and you hate him. What was the subject of the deleted post?

About how practices suck and how terrible the coaching is at VDA, and how they lost matches this weekend.

The only thing VDA should take away from this is that practices need to improve in order for the team to be successful on game day. They should be reviewing film of their opponents during the week leading up to the game, developing a game plan, and sticking to it for the most part. That’s what us parents want. Everything else is subjective.

06s watch film? If they don’t it’s clear coach has because there is adjustments on how to press and how to build from the goalie depending on who we play?

VDA 09’s watch film…

U19 don’t.

U19s do film? What are you getting from making this up.

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Anonymous wrote:PWSI and VSA are VDA. There is nothing special about VDA. It’s the same below average coaching your DS or DD has gotten since they were U9. Only difference is the travel and costs. The boys side has lost most the talent due to the decision to go ECNL.

It's amazing how quickly VDA deletes posts. Can't stand the truth. In any case, word of mouth is far more powerful in the business world and that can’t be deleted.

Any coach, any sport, any league in the world is under same scrutiny. Either you win every game, or "something is wrong with you". You can never prove he is the reason a team lost and he can't prove he's the reason they won. His "great team" is winning... therefore, he's doing *literally* his job exactly as he should. He didn't take a super-team and tank them to mid-level, they are dominating. So, as for other teams, what do you expect? Every age group to be #1? I'm sorry... did I miss the ECNL webpage where one club has a #1 team in every age..? Darn. So, it would seem that you're DD is either playing all the time, exactly where she should, or you're gonna cry. There is zero harm to anyone. Girls are going to college. The best team in the area continues to show it. The teams only gained girls and those that left did so at their free will. Children, not pros. The coaches are doing exactly as they should. Sorry you had a bad experience, but watch out for VDA to continue to rise rise rise

You're a complete moron. You are not a good coach just because one team in a club is performing well. And that's the crux of your problem: you believe that having one good team out of a whole club qualifies you as a great coach, it doesn't. That's exactly what happened at BRYC; yes, the 03 were excellent, but all of the other teams were destroyed. Girls were made to feel bad and told they were worthless, leaving us with nothing to rebuild on. Grow up and become a better coach, recognizing the genuine talent you have in the whole team, and stop pushing the girls away and start mentoring them how to play as a team.

Okay, Enough! MW wasn’t to blame for this weekends ass beating. We where missing our goalie which made a huge difference, We only had 2 subs for 2 away games. Our coach did the best he could with what we had and so did the girls. Both teams against us that we played had a total of probably 15 shots on goal the entire weekend, 9 of those goals went in, unfortunately. 5 set piece goals with 2 own goals during those set pieces. The goalies and players played there hearts out but it’s a huge issue when your goalie is out and you only have 2 subs. Stop bashing and trying to make him feel bad for things out of his control. We had our chances we had 25-35 shots on goal for the weekend compared to there 15. It just wasn’t there weekend. It happens, God you people need to get a life.

Okay, Enough! ? Who the He🏒🏒 do you think you are? We are all adults here. This is the problem with youth soccer. Parents finally have a forum where they feel like they can speak their truth and not be bullied to stay quiet. VDA has had a problem for years silencing the parents when they speak. If a parent comes forward they are either silenced with their kid getting playing time or silenced by being forced out of the club.

DCURBAN mom ? More like VDA urban coach. A whole Topic deleted last night because a VDA coach had their feelings hurt. Wonder how many players have had their feelings hurt because a coach yelled and humiliated them in front of their mates? The player seems to have bigger pants than these coaches, because they show up the next day to prove to the coach they were wrong.

Yesssssss, last night’s posts should not have been deleted, this is a forum for parents and players to speak up. VDA is hiding the true. I don’t see other clubs deleting complains and criticizing posts to them.

FCV posts are deleted all the time.
Online defamation will always be removed, won’t be long until coaches get lawyers for some of these posts

LOL, you do realize your comment says. “I’m a VDA coach going on here and criticizing FCV?”

LOL you do realize not everyone that responds to your BS is a coach

Lol, good one VDA coach. When should we start hearing from those lawyers?

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Anonymous wrote:You don't get it. You get the privilege of playing at VDA and getting the coaching that comes with it. If you don't like it, leave. There will be 10 other players begging to take her place. 99% of these criticisms are from parents whose kids couldn't sniff our teams.

Exactly. We are new to VDA. We see a lot of hard coaching and demanding coaching. That’s what these athletes need. Clearly some of you had your feelings hurt and your daughters were cut. Sorry.

What is hard and demanding coaching?

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Anonymous wrote:You don't get it. You get the privilege of playing at VDA and getting the coaching that comes with it. If you don't like it, leave. There will be 10 other players begging to take her place. 99% of these criticisms are from parents whose kids couldn't sniff our teams.

Exactly. We are new to VDA. We see a lot of hard coaching and demanding coaching. That’s what these athletes need. Clearly some of you had your feelings hurt and your daughters were cut. Sorry.

What is hard and demanding coaching?

Emphasis on details, encouraging DD and teammates to do more away from the field