| I had #2 at 35. It was a harder pregnancy but faster/easier recovery. I had zero desire to have a third kid...it took me a while to come around to having a second! |
| 3rd and last at 37. I’m exhausted. Other 2 were at 19 & 35. 2nd pregnancy kicked my ass. My current pregnancy is similar to first. |
| 39. I was very active during the pregnancy, and I think that helped keep the momentum going. No regrets. |
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38. Had my other two kids ate 30 and 32.
I am 43 now. If I was youbger, I would go for a fourth. Ran out of time. |
| 37. Not planned. One time sex in years. |
My friend had twins (unplanned) at 45. |
| 34 |
| 40, she's now 2, i don't recall ever feeling stronger or more energetic than now. Our older kid is 6. No regrets. That said, I wouldn't got for a third, not enough time in the day. |
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26 for first and last.
DCUM has gotten a lot younger since the last time I read a thread like this! |
Do you feel you have enough time for a fourth? Are your older kids needs not as time consuming anymore? I’ve always wanted 4 but worry about meeting everyone’s needs fully. Seems like someone is bound to get lost. |
| Last year a week after my 42nd birthday. |
| 32. Definitely wouldn’t have wanted to be any older. |
You can travel with your kids, you know. 32 is REALLY young for this area.I would never have made partner, etc. |
Yes, I think I would be able to since there would be such a big age gap. My older 2 are pretty self sufficient and actually help around the house now. Moot point because DH and I both aren’t even considering a fourth. If I was 5 years younger, I would totally go for it. I know a few moms with 3-4 kids very young in age and some or all the kids seem to be lost in the shuffle. I know other large families and they seem like well oiled machines. And then I have some old friends who can’t get their shit together and they are single and childless. |
| 45. #2. |