Pretty angry. Women I’m supposed to be going out with in 5 hours just texted me this.

[Anonymous]

OP, have you banged her yet or was tonight what you were hoping would be the big night?

[Anonymous]

She did you a favor. Move on. Next

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP you sound scary. Take yourself off the market and get some therapy

Enough already with the man-hating, he must be violent BS! OP is entitled to feel angry and hurt he was seeing this woman for a month she made it seem like things were going somewhere. She made it seem she was interested. She agreed to tonight's date and canceled just a few hours before because she's still in love with her ex. That sucks. That hurts. That feels like you have wasted your time.

This just happened today, he's mad. He's venting. It's allowed.

The idea that being rejected would make you “mad” is a huge red flag. Sad, sure! Annoyed even! But “mad?” Over this? She should RUN.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Be happy you dodged a bullet! She’s still messed up and do you want that?

I think the date "dodged a bullet" to be honest.

What a surprise, another DCUM man hater.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Be happy you dodged a bullet! She’s still messed up and do you want that?

This. The only reason posters are giving OP a hard time is because they assume he is a guy. If a woman had posted the same thing about a guy confirming a date and then canceling just a few hours before the date because he still had feelings for his ex they would be empathetic and not praising the date for being honest.

Doubt it. If she were angry, I'd tell her it was misplaced and she should work on herself, and the guy was being honest and decent.

An angry man, though, is scary in a way that an angry woman generally isn't, so the "dodged a bullet" sentiment might have a slightly different flavor.

[Anonymous]

Woman.

You meant a woman you’re going out with canceled. Women is more than one woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She’s…being honest and forthright. She’s literally not wasting your time.

I can see why you’re single.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Be happy you dodged a bullet! She’s still messed up and do you want that?

This. The only reason posters are giving OP a hard time is because they assume he is a guy. If a woman had posted the same thing about a guy confirming a date and then canceling just a few hours before the date because he still had feelings for his ex they would be empathetic and not praising the date for being honest.

Doubt it. If she were angry, I'd tell her it was misplaced and she should work on herself, and the guy was being honest and decent.

An angry man, though, is scary in a way that an angry woman generally isn't, so the "dodged a bullet" sentiment might have a slightly different flavor.

Just use the search function and you will see you are wrong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP you sound scary. Take yourself off the market and get some therapy

Enough already with the man-hating, he must be violent BS! OP is entitled to feel angry and hurt he was seeing this woman for a month she made it seem like things were going somewhere. She made it seem she was interested. She agreed to tonight's date and canceled just a few hours before because she's still in love with her ex. That sucks. That hurts. That feels like you have wasted your time.

This just happened today, he's mad. He's venting. It's allowed.

The idea that being rejected would make you “mad” is a huge red flag. Sad, sure! Annoyed even! But “mad?” Over this? She should RUN.

Stop playing symantics. OP is not wrong for being upset. Youhowever are wrong for painting him as an abusive man because he dare have feelings..

[Anonymous]

Would not necessarily be angry but disappointed. It's not easy for a man to get things moving with a woman, it's the morning before a scheduled date, and then boom, no date. Who wouldn't feel badly?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Be happy you dodged a bullet! She’s still messed up and do you want that?

I think the date "dodged a bullet" to be honest.

Exactly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would not necessarily be angry but disappointed. It's not easy for a man to get things moving with a woman, it's the morning before a scheduled date, and then boom, no date. Who wouldn't feel badly?

+1

Disappointed, but not angry. The fact that he’s angry is the problem. Not simple annoyed. He’s “pretty angry.” That’s an excessive response to the situation.

I agree that he’s the red flag and she dodged a bullet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We were supposed to be going out tonight at 8 and she confirmed early this morning. She just sent me this text:

“ Hey want be honest with you. My ex keeps contacting me and asked to work on things this morning and honestly it’s screwing with my head. It wouldn’t feel right going out. So sorry but I wanted to be honest.”

I’m pretty angry. Why would she waste my time?

This makes your angry? She dodged a bullet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We were supposed to be going out tonight at 8 and she confirmed early this morning. She just sent me this text:

“ Hey want be honest with you. My ex keeps contacting me and asked to work on things this morning and honestly it’s screwing with my head. It wouldn’t feel right going out. So sorry but I wanted to be honest.”

I’m pretty angry. Why would she waste my time?

Why are you angry? She was honest. Hell, I prefer this over some BS games. You dodged one because she would likely be sleeping with her ex and you at the same time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP you sound scary. Take yourself off the market and get some therapy

Enough already with the man-hating, he must be violent BS! OP is entitled to feel angry and hurt he was seeing this woman for a month she made it seem like things were going somewhere. She made it seem she was interested. She agreed to tonight's date and canceled just a few hours before because she's still in love with her ex. That sucks. That hurts. That feels like you have wasted your time.

This just happened today, he's mad. He's venting. It's allowed.

The idea that being rejected would make you “mad” is a huge red flag. Sad, sure! Annoyed even! But “mad?” Over this? She should RUN.

Stop playing symantics. OP is not wrong for being upset. Youhowever are wrong for painting him as an abusive man because he dare have feelings..

The appropriate feeling would be disappointment not anger. She didn’t wrong him. She was honest so she didn’t drag him along without regard for his feelings. Thank God she got out now.