6 adults in middle of small enclosed playground having unmasked conversation

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I can never understand adults refusing to wear a mask.


I can't see if I where a mask because my glasses fog up. It's particularly bad if it's cold outside. I will wear masks if I'm close to others, but I don't wear them if I don't have to.


I wear glasses too. Pull the mask up your nose, put the glasses on top of the mask. This usually works for me.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It is none of your business, Karen!



It’s a highly contagious pandemic, Karen, so it is most definitely my business. It’s not about you - I don’t give a crap if you get it - it’s about you giving it to my kids or others.

Seriously, how often does this need to be explained to you?


Then stay home and keep your kids locked up. If you're worried about yourself and your kids, then understand that that is under your control.


The prime example of why we are still in pandemic.ugh
Anonymous
Op here, thanks for the range of responses, very interesting! Definitely confirms my decision NOT to post something on the neighborhood email listserv, lest it start a culture war there.

One thing that I was thinking was that perhaps if I had asked them to mask up they would have done it (at least a few of them were masked to start with, then took them off). It’s possible they were thinking “nobody here minds that we’re not masked because nobody had asked us to put them on”. Either way, we left and went to a different playground with no issues.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I can never understand adults refusing to wear a mask.


I can't see if I where a mask because my glasses fog up. It's particularly bad if it's cold outside. I will wear masks if I'm close to others, but I don't wear them if I don't have to.


I wear glasses too. Pull the mask up your nose, put the glasses on top of the mask. This usually works for me.


Have your been outside in cold weather? That doesn't work. Yes, it blocks the air from coming up by your nose, but not by your cheek bones. The colder weather is much less forgiving because the water vapor condenses so much more easily.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Op here, thanks for the range of responses, very interesting! Definitely confirms my decision NOT to post something on the neighborhood email listserv, lest it start a culture war there.

One thing that I was thinking was that perhaps if I had asked them to mask up they would have done it (at least a few of them were masked to start with, then took them off). It’s possible they were thinking “nobody here minds that we’re not masked because nobody had asked us to put them on”. Either way, we left and went to a different playground with no issues.


There's probably a decent chance of that. I seek out empty playgrounds with my kids. For a variety of reasons, we don't wear masks. If someone else comes without a mask, I'm not going to put one on, but I will maintain some space.

If someone asked me to wear one, I would (I always carry one). Though, admittedly, I'd probably just decide to leave if we had been there a while, particularly since one of my kids won't wear them.
Anonymous
You say nothing. You worry about yourself & your kids. If there is nowhere safe for you & your kids to play, you leave.
I very cautious about Covid but the outdoor mask citizen policing is just ridiculous.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You say nothing. You worry about yourself & your kids. If there is nowhere safe for you & your kids to play, you leave.
I very cautious about Covid but the outdoor mask citizen policing is just ridiculous.


It's not ridiculous. Wearing masks in public is about civic responsibility just as not littering or vandalizing.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I can never understand adults refusing to wear a mask.

There’s no science to suggest that wearing a mask outdoors makes any difference.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I can never understand adults refusing to wear a mask.

There’s no science to suggest that wearing a mask outdoors makes any difference.


First, am I supposed to trust your anonymous unsupported statement?


Second, there are different kinds of “outside” scenarios, just as the indoor ones.

If you are in the woods by yourself or on an empty street - by all means, I don’t see how a mask is necessary.

If you are in a crowd but outside, on a full playground blocking the way - it’s just reasonable to wear a mask to protect others from your spit.
Anonymous
I think your bigger problem is that you are two parents taking kids to the playground. This is prime way for one parent to get a break, grasshopper. You will learn.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I can never understand adults refusing to wear a mask.

There’s no science to suggest that wearing a mask outdoors makes any difference.


First, am I supposed to trust your anonymous unsupported statement?


Second, there are different kinds of “outside” scenarios, just as the indoor ones.

If you are in the woods by yourself or on an empty street - by all means, I don’t see how a mask is necessary.

If you are in a crowd but outside, on a full playground blocking the way - it’s just reasonable to wear a mask to protect others from your spit.


DP than you responded to, where are your sources that COVID spreads outdoors? You can’t because there aren’t any! I am a medical professional and a mask wearer. I find it very disingenuous when randoms get online and spew unsubstantiated claims. With that said, wear a mask.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I think your bigger problem is that you are two parents taking kids to the playground. This is prime way for one parent to get a break, grasshopper. You will learn.




Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Where is there an enclosed playground?


Yeah, what the heck is an enclosed playground?
Anonymous
OP, if enclosed means fenced off and it's an open air place - they are not legally required to wear a mask.

If this is an indoor place you complain to owner/manager and if they don't take action then to DC department of health by phone or in writing.

My guess it's outdoors, so they didn't break any law. At the end of the day, it's not your job to manage other adults. If their behavior is not to your liking - go someplace else or wait out for them to leave (if your kid is very committed to that specific playground).

I wear a double mask and gloves on playground and carry wipes just in case, but the truth is, the only way to control exposure is to stay home, and outside of that, you take a risk, however small.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP, if enclosed means fenced off and it's an open air place - they are not legally required to wear a mask.

If this is an indoor place you complain to owner/manager and if they don't take action then to DC department of health by phone or in writing.

My guess it's outdoors, so they didn't break any law. At the end of the day, it's not your job to manage other adults. If their behavior is not to your liking - go someplace else or wait out for them to leave (if your kid is very committed to that specific playground).

I wear a double mask and gloves on playground and carry wipes just in case, but the truth is, the only way to control exposure is to stay home, and outside of that, you take a risk, however small.


Ding ding ding. You cannot control anyone else's behavior. If you don't like it leave. It's not your job to be the mask police.
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