There really are women out there who go after other people's husbands

[Anonymous]

it takes two to tango. why focus only on women? married DHs hooking up with other women are not any better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not proud of it but I have seduced married men. It's a rush. Truth be told, by the time you hit your 30s and 40s, all the attractive, successful and passionate men are married.

The remaining attractive single men in your 40s have their run of the dating market and are indifferent to you. The married ones undress you like its the greatest gift they are unwrapping.

You are vile.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some treacherous women consider married men the biggest prize and ultimate boost to their self-esteem. Who's more powerful than a woman who can get a man to cheat on his wife? Married men are responsible for their infidelities. Women who target married men also are targeting the wives and kids. The goal is total destruction of a family, not just 'an affair'. Very sick and very destructive behavior.

My friend was left in the lurch with two toddlers. Her older toddler took it very, very, very hard and fell apart completely. How do these women live with themselves?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some treacherous women consider married men the biggest prize and ultimate boost to their self-esteem. Who's more powerful than a woman who can get a man to cheat on his wife? Married men are responsible for their infidelities. Women who target married men also are targeting the wives and kids. The goal is total destruction of a family, not just 'an affair'. Very sick and very destructive behavior.

My friend was left in the lurch with two toddlers. Her older toddler took it very, very, very hard and fell apart completely. How do these women live with themselves?

They don’t have a conscience. They blame it solely on the man and don’t see their 50% part in it. What I don’t get is who the hell would want a cheater? What kind of prize do they think they are getting? Karma will get them.

[Anonymous]

Guy here. I see this mostly in young single women or young and unhappily married women. Both types seem to have high sex drives because they’re young, not much to lose and they just seem to care less.

[Anonymous]

There are some who think that affairs with married men are safer. Others find men who are "taken" to be more attractive -- it's like another woman has approved of him, so he's got some kind of stamp of approval. And some like the thrill or sense of power that comes from taking a guy away from someone else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guy here. I see this mostly in young single women or young and unhappily married women. Both types seem to have high sex drives because they’re young, not much to lose and they just seem to care less.

It happens a lot in middle aged unhappily married women 40s/50s. Who do you think is on Ashley Madison? They are looking for exit affairs whether they admit that to themselves or not.

[Anonymous]

It's definitely a thrill and power move. They like to know they can have anyone they want. And of course guys don't usually leave their wife, the OW just wants to knowledge she could have him if she wanted him.

The three women I know like this have issues from childhood. They are successful professionally, but get bored easily in committed relationships.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are some who think that affairs with married men are safer. Others find men who are "taken" to be more attractive -- it's like another woman has approved of him, so he's got some kind of stamp of approval. And some like the thrill or sense of power that comes from taking a guy away from someone else.

Also, they probably assume that its going to be high quality sex. Married guys are often starved in that area so they’re likely to take them like they just got out of prison.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's definitely a thrill and power move. They like to know they can have anyone they want. And of course guys don't usually leave their wife, the OW just wants to knowledge she could have him if she wanted him.

The three women I know like this have issues from childhood. They are successful professionally, but get bored easily in committed relationships.

She can’t have him if she wants him if he has zero plans to leave the wife and just use her for cheap, easy sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
In my experience, affairs just happen when two people are attracted to each other. It's unfortunate (and terribly short-sighted) when people such as the woman you describe act on their impulses in their own social circle, but I don't think she nor anyone is purposefully targeting your husband just because he's married to YOU.

Married people get on the Internet to find affair partners. So, no, in 2020 affairs just don’t happen. People actively look for a willing party.

That's not attraction. That's transactional, much like prostitution. Another willing body...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
In my experience, affairs just happen when two people are attracted to each other. It's unfortunate (and terribly short-sighted) when people such as the woman you describe act on their impulses in their own social circle, but I don't think she nor anyone is purposefully targeting your husband just because he's married to YOU.

Married people get on the Internet to find affair partners. So, no, in 2020 affairs just don’t happen. People actively look for a willing party.

That's not attraction. That's transactional, much like prostitution. Another willing body...

He always only loves you, no matter who his balls are slapping against. You’re number one! Even when he repeatedly regards you as number two, in fact, especially then!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some treacherous women consider married men the biggest prize and ultimate boost to their self-esteem. Who's more powerful than a woman who can get a man to cheat on his wife? Married men are responsible for their infidelities. Women who target married men also are targeting the wives and kids. The goal is total destruction of a family, not just 'an affair'. Very sick and very destructive behavior.

My friend was left in the lurch with two toddlers. Her older toddler took it very, very, very hard and fell apart completely. How do these women live with themselves?

Probably easier than the men who are the children’s fathers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some treacherous women consider married men the biggest prize and ultimate boost to their self-esteem. Who's more powerful than a woman who can get a man to cheat on his wife? Married men are responsible for their infidelities. Women who target married men also are targeting the wives and kids. The goal is total destruction of a family, not just 'an affair'. Very sick and very destructive behavior.

My friend was left in the lurch with two toddlers. Her older toddler took it very, very, very hard and fell apart completely. How do these women live with themselves?

Probably the same way your friend's husband lives with himself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some treacherous women consider married men the biggest prize and ultimate boost to their self-esteem. Who's more powerful than a woman who can get a man to cheat on his wife? Married men are responsible for their infidelities. Women who target married men also are targeting the wives and kids. The goal is total destruction of a family, not just 'an affair'. Very sick and very destructive behavior.

My friend was left in the lurch with two toddlers. Her older toddler took it very, very, very hard and fell apart completely. How do these women live with themselves?

Probably the same way your friend's husband lives with himself.

None of these women ever leave; the divorces are when he does, and the blame is never given to the husband.