I found his burner phone.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Keep the phone.
Kick him out (unless it is his house, you were a bit unclear), or leave ASAP.
You deserve better.

Keep the phone? For what? Use as evidence? Courts don’t care about that. It’s 50/50 unless stated otherwise.


That’s not true, cheating is considered in alimony for divorces. Depends on where OP lives.

Yes it is... Best friends ex-wife had pages of text messages of his affair. Didn’t increase the dollar amount she received.


Text messages aren’t proof. To prove an affair you have to prove physical affection and opportunity. This is why people hire Private investigators. Get pictures of them kissing and entering a hotel room. It does affect alimony in some states including Virginia.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Keep the phone.
Kick him out (unless it is his house, you were a bit unclear), or leave ASAP.
You deserve better.

Keep the phone? For what? Use as evidence? Courts don’t care about that. It’s 50/50 unless stated otherwise.


Not true. VA cares about adultery. It’s not a no fault state.


And adultery can affect alimony even in no-fault cases
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some scorned women in this world. Keeping the phone or a PP
said, “When you go, leave the phone someplace awesome.”
We don’t give a rats azz about being exposed as a cheater. Like it’s some dirty little secret? BFD, it happens all the time.


Really? You don’t care if friends, neighbors, families get sent copies of your dirty pics and texts?

Okay


What would be the point of that? Why would anyone subject these people to such a thing?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some scorned women in this world. Keeping the phone or a PP
said, “When you go, leave the phone someplace awesome.”
We don’t give a rats azz about being exposed as a cheater. Like it’s some dirty little secret? BFD, it happens all the time.


Really? You don’t care if friends, neighbors, families get sent copies of your dirty pics and texts?

Okay


What would be the point of that? Why would anyone subject these people to such a thing?


To humiliate the cheater. I sent it to his mom.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some scorned women in this world. Keeping the phone or a PP
said, “When you go, leave the phone someplace awesome.”
We don’t give a rats azz about being exposed as a cheater. Like it’s some dirty little secret? BFD, it happens all the time.


Really? You don’t care if friends, neighbors, families get sent copies of your dirty pics and texts?

Okay


What would be the point of that? Why would anyone subject these people to such a thing?


To humiliate the cheater. I sent it to his mom.


That isn’t humiliation. It’s being vindictive and dragging others into your shit. All you did was succeed in making yourself look cray and justifying his actions in stepping out.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some scorned women in this world. Keeping the phone or a PP
said, “When you go, leave the phone someplace awesome.”
We don’t give a rats azz about being exposed as a cheater. Like it’s some dirty little secret? BFD, it happens all the time.


Really? You don’t care if friends, neighbors, families get sent copies of your dirty pics and texts?

Okay


What would be the point of that? Why would anyone subject these people to such a thing?


To humiliate the cheater. I sent it to his mom.


That isn’t humiliation. It’s being vindictive and dragging others into your shit. All you did was succeed in making yourself look cray and justifying his actions in stepping out.


Whatever, cheater. Players suffer the consequences.

I love how lying and exposing your spouse to STIS/STDs is fine though...
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some scorned women in this world. Keeping the phone or a PP
said, “When you go, leave the phone someplace awesome.”
We don’t give a rats azz about being exposed as a cheater. Like it’s some dirty little secret? BFD, it happens all the time.


Really? You don’t care if friends, neighbors, families get sent copies of your dirty pics and texts?

Okay


What would be the point of that? Why would anyone subject these people to such a thing?


To humiliate the cheater. I sent it to his mom.


That isn’t humiliation. It’s being vindictive and dragging others into your shit. All you did was succeed in making yourself look cray and justifying his actions in stepping out.

Thank you! Some else agrees with me that all it does is make the woman look coo-coo for cocoa nuts.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some scorned women in this world. Keeping the phone or a PP
said, “When you go, leave the phone someplace awesome.”
We don’t give a rats azz about being exposed as a cheater. Like it’s some dirty little secret? BFD, it happens all the time.


Really? You don’t care if friends, neighbors, families get sent copies of your dirty pics and texts?

Okay

Yes, really. I could care less.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some scorned women in this world. Keeping the phone or a PP
said, “When you go, leave the phone someplace awesome.”
We don’t give a rats azz about being exposed as a cheater. Like it’s some dirty little secret? BFD, it happens all the time.


Really? You don’t care if friends, neighbors, families get sent copies of your dirty pics and texts?

Okay


What would be the point of that? Why would anyone subject these people to such a thing?


To humiliate the cheater. I sent it to his mom.


That isn’t humiliation. It’s being vindictive and dragging others into your shit. All you did was succeed in making yourself look cray and justifying his actions in stepping out.


Whatever, cheater. Players suffer the consequences.

I love how lying and exposing your spouse to STIS/STDs is fine though...

Explain how players suffer consequences. I’m dying to know...
Anonymous
^ for women no alimony in VA/MD got infidelity. Kids 1/2 time

For men- bye to 3/4s your retirement, your house and alimony and child support.

Your kids knowing you are whites that caused their family to blow up.
Anonymous
*whores not whites
Anonymous
Social pariahs in the neighborhood. Lose many friends too
Anonymous
Yes, really. I could care less.


That’s because you have a massive character defect and are probably a narcissist.

But if you are cheating with a co-worker, your employer may care and I would make sure to find out. You saying the victimized spouse Is the crazy one is called blame-shifting and gaslighting, and its wrong. The average person would understand a spouse exposing a chester’s affair, whether you want to believe it or not.
Anonymous
You’re brave and can leave his ass. Do it now. Be thankful you don’t have kids with him.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Yes, really. I could care less.


That’s because you have a massive character defect and are probably a narcissist.

But if you are cheating with a co-worker, your employer may care and I would make sure to find out. You saying the victimized spouse Is the crazy one is called blame-shifting and gaslighting, and its wrong. The average person would understand a spouse exposing a chester’s affair, whether you want to believe it or not.

You don’t know me and I don’t give a F about you. What people do in their personal lives should have no bearing on their work performance. You’re telling me, you never fudged the numbers in your tax return? “I donated to such and such.” Well, that makes you a cheater and I need to notify your employer.

BTW, I own up to my flaws and produce a crap ton of money for my employer. They could care less, what I do outside of work thank you...
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