I found his burner phone.

[Anonymous]

^ anyone who stays with a man that didn’t show immediate, severe remorse, had completely ended it and cut off all future contact, gotten fully STD tested, a vasectomy and offered to sign a post-nup...and committed to ongoing therapy...

It would be over. Gross. Yes. I could not sleep with someone if they were having sexual with somebody else. My health matters greatly and that is f@cling disgusting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Be thankful that you don't have kids. Fire for divorce and move on.

Separate today. Move toward divorce. You dodged a bullet. You don't have kids. You can start over.

I agree.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Be thankful that you don't have kids. Fire for divorce and move on.

Separate today. Move toward divorce. You dodged a bullet. You don't have kids. You can start over.

I agree.

+1

No kids? I’d be gone in a New York minute

[Anonymous]

He’s a moron for not covering his tracks!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He’s a moron for not covering his tracks!

He’s a moron for other reasons than that. Also, a complete scumbag.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Keep the phone.
Kick him out (unless it is his house, you were a bit unclear), or leave ASAP.
You deserve better.

Keep the phone? For what? Use as evidence? Courts don’t care about that. It’s 50/50 unless stated otherwise.

That’s not true, cheating is considered in alimony for divorces. Depends on where OP lives.

Yes it is... Best friends ex-wife had pages of text messages of his affair. Didn’t increase the dollar amount she received.

Text messages aren’t proof. To prove an affair you have to prove physical affection and opportunity. This is why people hire Private investigators. Get pictures of them kissing and entering a hotel room. It does affect alimony in some states including Virginia.

I would change "does" to "can." A lot depends on the judge. It's still worth a shot though, OP. Any affair expenses (gifts, hotel rooms) can also be deemed something he needs to repay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Keep the phone.
Kick him out (unless it is his house, you were a bit unclear), or leave ASAP.
You deserve better.

Keep the phone? For what? Use as evidence? Courts don’t care about that. It’s 50/50 unless stated otherwise.

That’s not true, cheating is considered in alimony for divorces. Depends on where OP lives.

Most courts don't even consider alimony anymore, accept in extreme cases of wealth, especially for an able bodied spouse.

Only backwards states like Florida still consider cheating when awarding alimony.

Pre-nup is the word I think you were looking for.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Be thankful that you don't have kids. Fire for divorce and move on.

This

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My lovely husband of 5 years has been cheating on me.

I found a burner phone in his toolbox of all places. Nothing was deleted.

There was photos. Trips they’ve taken together that I thought was a guys trip. They’ve met at his house, air bnbs, parking lots, everywhere.

He complained about me. About our vanilla intimate life. He was texting her goodnight last night.

We don’t have kids together. She’s a single mom. I feel sick. I know who she is - just a Facebook friend. They knew eachother before I even met him. He’s said things to her how he’s always had a crush on her.

I feel sick.

No one addressed the “vanilla intimate life?”

Maybe that’s the main contributing factor in this whole thing?

Hasn't anybody noticed that OP has never returned and answered our questions about how they were having an affair at "his" house??

I think this is a BS troll and not a particularly good one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh plz..troll. none has a burner any more. Google voice is the way to go

My ex wife used burner prepaid wireless.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He’s a moron for not covering his tracks!

He’s a moron for other reasons than that. Also, a complete scumbag.

Naaaa, just a moron for not covering his tracks. Other than that, he’s a nice guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He’s a moron for not covering his tracks!

He’s a moron for other reasons than that. Also, a complete scumbag.

Naaaa, just a moron for not covering his tracks. Other than that, he’s a nice guy.

Oh- so you are the one banging him?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He’s a moron for not covering his tracks!

He’s a moron for other reasons than that. Also, a complete scumbag.

Naaaa, just a moron for not covering his tracks. Other than that, he’s a nice guy.

Oh- so you are the one banging him?

Anyone that lies and de wives their spouse and potentially exposes them to STIs is not a good person. Bad moral character and zero integrity. Ok, but nice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He’s a moron for not covering his tracks!

He’s a moron for other reasons than that. Also, a complete scumbag.

Naaaa, just a moron for not covering his tracks. Other than that, he’s a nice guy.

Oh- so you are the one banging him?

Anyone that lies and de wives their spouse and potentially exposes them to STIs is not a good person. Bad moral character and zero integrity. Ok, but nice.

*deceives