Agree to disagree. |
He started out as an "actual believer" then had doubts, which eventually became disbelief. To you this means "not willing to learn" implying that there is only one thing about Christianity to learn and that is that it's real. Any other conclusion is not only incorrect, it's also heartless. There are many fine people in this world who are not Christian and not religious at all. |
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For some people, doubts make their faith grow stronger. For others, doubts lead to lack of faith.
In a way, it's like many other things in life. e.g. - doubting your profession or your spouse. Sometimes it's possible to work through the doubts and maintain the status quo. Other times, it's better to make a change. |
This. |
How do you know that he "never had a spiritual practice"? Let's say that he got into this work because he had both musical talent and faith. Do you think he should have quit his job with his first doubts? If so, then perhaps people should cut off their church membership if they have doubts and not start back up until the doubts fade. There would be a lot of bouncing in and out of church if that were the case. |
Please read his post and come back when you know what’s going on. |
I’m a dp who did read his entire relevant post, and I agree with the pp before you. He didn’t say that he never had a spiritual practice; quite the opposite. |
iow, you have no logical response, so are deflecting in the form of insulting pp |
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If he had quit the band the minute he had a singular doubt, so you not think of how that would also harm his band members and fan base? And the many other people under their employment?
He was very brave to continue on singing about something that he had doubts about and then disbelieved. That’s not easy. His music helped many people, especially young people, of faith even though he knew it was not true for him. |
+1, besides, Christians are discouraged from being unduly influenced by their doubts about their faith -- taught instead that doubt is "normal" and should be worked through, with the assumption that faith will come back stronger than ever. Sometimes it doesn't work that way. |
| Some people get tired of the social circles in church. If you are an idealist, it gets too much. Churches do not live up to what they preach. Skipping church gives you a lot of free time |
| Why are people so triggered by this? I was raised evangelical and so was my husband. We got married young and waited until marriage. We were both having doubts but we were too afraid to tell each other. One day he just looked at me and said I don’t believe it because of this, this and this and I was so relieved because I felt the same way. We stopped going to church and we don’t miss it. I could care less if people debate whether we ever were Christians. Once you stop believing, you don’t really care about the Christian mindset. Also, it is very easy to “perform” Christianity when you are raised with it and to say all the right things and pray the right prayers. Our parents would have a literal heart attack if we did what this man did so we go through the motions and never mention church. We are having a baby and would 100% raise her atheist but we would get such blow back from our parents so we haven’t decided yet what to do. I commend his bravery. |
Starting out in Christian rock bands is the easiest way by far to get into the music biz and then transition over to country or rock or rap. |
| People don't seem to realize that as recently as the year 2000, 86% of Americans self-identified as belonging to a judeo-christian faith (most recently it is 72%). MOST non-believers were born and raised in a religious household and spent a significant portion of their life indoctrinated into their parents' religion. It shouldn't be surprising that many non-believers result from a conversion as an adult. That's how it basically has to work. |
Exactly |