I have a sugar daddy. AMA

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Anonymous wrote:This isn't a sugar daddy situation. This is a pretty standard "mistress " situation.

I'd love it if the real sugar daddy could do an AMA. Now THAT I'm curious about.

How is she a mistress if he’s not married?

Also, agreed! It would be super interesting if the sugar daddy would start his own thread - or just take over this one!

The man doesn't have to be married to have a mistress. Have you never read a few romance novels?

I guess I don’t read romance novels, but it seems rather impossible to have an affair when you are single.

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Anonymous wrote:how old are you both

I’m 32, he’s 41

Your ages aren’t that far apart.
You’re just too lazy to get a nice paying job

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For those saying that she is too old to be a sugar baby, exactly what is the cut off age?

I wasn't aware that there was a time limit or required age difference to this. In fact, I don't believe that there is. Anyone can be a sugar baby, regardless of age. That said, I do understand that we generally only hear about younger women and old men engaging in this.

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Anonymous wrote:For those saying that she is too old to be a sugar baby, exactly what is the cut off age?

I wasn't aware that there was a time limit or required age difference to this. In fact, I don't believe that there is. Anyone can be a sugar baby, regardless of age. That said, I do understand that we generally only hear about younger women and old men engaging in this.

It depends on his age. Sugar daddy over 50 is probably fine with 32.

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Anonymous wrote:I am jealous, too bad I am too old to be the sugar baby, and too poor to be the mommy!

+1 If only I knew where to find some 70 or 80 y/o oil magnates looking to waste their worthless kids' inheritance around here.

Some like it hot!! Lol

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Anonymous wrote:For those saying that she is too old to be a sugar baby, exactly what is the cut off age?

I wasn't aware that there was a time limit or required age difference to this. In fact, I don't believe that there is. Anyone can be a sugar baby, regardless of age. That said, I do understand that we generally only hear about younger women and old men engaging in this.

You’ve given me hope! I am 43, maybe an 80 yo will be ok with me as his sugar babe?

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Anonymous wrote:For those saying that she is too old to be a sugar baby, exactly what is the cut off age?

I wasn't aware that there was a time limit or required age difference to this. In fact, I don't believe that there is. Anyone can be a sugar baby, regardless of age. That said, I do understand that we generally only hear about younger women and old men engaging in this.

when sugar is not sweet, like 25.

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Op, don't let the haters get to you

Personally I'm always interested to hear women talk about their decisions to have sex for money

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Anonymous wrote:Op, don't let the haters get to you

Personally I'm always interested to hear women talk about their decisions to have sex for money

Uh... Why?

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I’d love to be a sugar mommy! No idea how I’d find a baby, though.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm a sugar daddy. Did you find him on the website for that sort of thing?

Monthly arrangement? How much?

How does he provide the money? I've always found that was the uncomfortable bit.

I’m much more interested in an AMA with you!

Can you elaborate how you provide support to the girls you date?
How old are you? How old are they? Are you exclusive or DADT?
How do you arrange the money? Do you pay their rent directly?
Are you married?

So many questions!

In my circle of friends who are entrepreneurs (all in 40s and 50s), I'd say about half are into "sugaring." Some of them have someone local and long-term, like one friend who pays for his SB's (sugarbaby's) apartment and I imagine they go out to dinner and shopping. Her apartment is near his office, not by coincidence. It's easy to come up with excuses to be working late I guess.

I do PPM (pay per meet) where you pay each time you meet. (Feel free to call it prostitution, I don't care.) In my case, I only meet SBs when I'm traveling, so there is no opportunity to set up anything long-term anyway and that's because I don't do any of this where I live. We usually meet up for a drink and see if there's a click and continue on or not. I don't mind if we don't continue -- my libido has gone down as I age anyway, and I just enjoy meeting new people. I'll pay just for meeting me (they usually don't expect it at that stage; and then more if we continue).

One thing I'm super-careful about is as an SD (sugardaddy) you can be a target for extortion. They know you have money, and typically a high-profile job, so why not threaten to reveal all that unless you pay up? For that reason, I have my profile set up so that it doesn't appear in searches and no random SBs can contact me. Instead, only those I contact can even see it. Then, I use photos that I've already checked on Google Image Search that it isn't able to link to me, and usually the photos have my face partially obscured. Normally the people who fall prey to this are cases where the scammer contacts them first, and if you have your marital status (married, of course!) listed in your profile. I even use a throwaway email, and fake name and address on the website when paying, so that if they ever had a data breach, I'm not at risk. After that affair site (I'll avoid writing the name so no one gets ads for it) hack that exposed all the names/emails of customers to the world, I'm not taking any risks like that. I also pay for the subscription using a prepaid credit card.

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Anonymous wrote:For those saying that she is too old to be a sugar baby, exactly what is the cut off age?

I wasn't aware that there was a time limit or required age difference to this. In fact, I don't believe that there is. Anyone can be a sugar baby, regardless of age. That said, I do understand that we generally only hear about younger women and old men engaging in this.

Sugardaddy here. Since I meet people when I travel, it depends a lot where you go. If I'm in Tucson (university town) then most of the people listed are going to be college-aged. I won't go below 21 just so I can go have a drink with them. In other cities, you'll find a broader range. I don't mind someone in their 30s at all, and would prefer if they are married (then they understand the importance of discretion), but there's not always that much out there in that demographic.

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Anonymous wrote:Are you male? What did you have to do to get the things you like.

I’m a woman. Our situation is a little different because I’ve known him for a long time - it evolved from a FWB to a sugar daddy situation (he does much better than I do financially - I just went back to school for a master’s). He kind of likes the “game” of it. We’ll see each other in a few weeks and he’s giving me a Cartier, cash, and of course nice dinners out.

So, are you his girlfriend?

No.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm a sugar daddy. Did you find him on the website for that sort of thing?

Monthly arrangement? How much?

How does he provide the money? I've always found that was the uncomfortable bit.

No, we met through friends.

He pays my bills: rent, utilities, groceries, phone, cable/internet, car note/insurance/gas/upkeep. He also gives me money for shopping, hair, nails, etc. And if I just want money to spend.

PayPal. I ask him and he gives.

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Anonymous wrote:How old were you when you lost your dignity?

This.