I have a sugar daddy. AMA

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This isn't a sugar daddy situation. This is a pretty standard "mistress " situation.

I'd love it if the real sugar daddy could do an AMA. Now THAT I'm curious about.

How is she a mistress if he’s not married?

Also, agreed! It would be super interesting if the sugar daddy would start his own thread - or just take over this one!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op- why do you think he is a sugar daddy?

Yeah, I’m wondering this too...

[Anonymous]

Ageism.

[Anonymous]

What impairment do you have that renders you unable to take care of yourself at 32?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you male? What did you have to do to get the things you like.

I’m a woman. Our situation is a little different because I’ve known him for a long time - it evolved from a FWB to a sugar daddy situation (he does much better than I do financially - I just went back to school for a master’s). He kind of likes the “game” of it. We’ll see each other in a few weeks and he’s giving me a Cartier, cash, and of course nice dinners out.

So a man decided to pay for something he was getting for free? Right.

[Anonymous]

What “extra” things do you do if you were already sleeping with him? Threesomes? An*l?

[Anonymous]

What is the deal you have with him? What do you have to do in exchange? For example, my sugar daddy provided a penthouse condo for me to live in, not to keep unfortunately. He took care of utilities, and paid my credit card and student loan debt, and really nice trips. I worked full time in a 9-5 job. On my side, I went out with him to social/work events.

We were intimate but I didn't do anything I wouldn't have done with any regular boyfriend. He wasn't married, and in have had home through a pretty public divorce so he just wanted something uncomplicated. The big difference was that we both knew it wasn't going to lead to something long-term (marriage and kids) so it had to be worth our time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is the deal you have with him? What do you have to do in exchange? For example, my sugar daddy provided a penthouse condo for me to live in, not to keep unfortunately. He took care of utilities, and paid my credit card and student loan debt, and really nice trips. I worked full time in a 9-5 job. On my side, I went out with him to social/work events.

We were intimate but I didn't do anything I wouldn't have done with any regular boyfriend. He wasn't married, and in have had home through a pretty public divorce so he just wanted something uncomplicated. The big difference was that we both knew it wasn't going to lead to something long-term (marriage and kids) so it had to be worth our time.

So you were a prostitute. Good for you.

[Anonymous]

I am jealous, too bad I am too old to be the sugar baby, and too poor to be the mommy!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am jealous, too bad I am too old to be the sugar baby, and too poor to be the mommy!

Hahaha! Let's end the OP here and rally for sugar daddy (14:18) to continue AMA.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This isn't a sugar daddy situation. This is a pretty standard "mistress " situation.

I'd love it if the real sugar daddy could do an AMA. Now THAT I'm curious about.

How is she a mistress if he’s not married?

Also, agreed! It would be super interesting if the sugar daddy would start his own thread - or just take over this one!

The man doesn't have to be married to have a mistress. Have you never read a few romance novels?

[Anonymous]

it evolved from a FWB to a sugar daddy situation

He traded FWB for paying for it? What an idiot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am jealous, too bad I am too old to be the sugar baby, and too poor to be the mommy!

+1 If only I knew where to find some 70 or 80 y/o oil magnates looking to waste their worthless kids' inheritance around here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a sugar daddy. Did you find him on the website for that sort of thing?

Monthly arrangement? How much?

How does he provide the money? I've always found that was the uncomfortable bit.

I’m much more interested in an AMA with you!

Can you elaborate how you provide support to the girls you date?
How old are you? How old are they? Are you exclusive or DADT?
How do you arrange the money? Do you pay their rent directly?
Are you married?

So many questions!

Sure.. will write later tonight about it. Stay tuned...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:how old are you both

I’m 32, he’s 41

you are too old, he is too young for a "sugar-anything." what you have is a long distance relationship (if he is not married) or an affair if he IS married.

Nailed it.