What runs through your mind when you see a very attractive women with an unattractive man?

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[Post New]05/21/2019 00:19
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Sometimes it’s money, but more often it’s a sense of safety and security. Women get a lot of cultural messaging around choosing the nerdy “nice” guy over the sexy “bad” guy. In reality, a lot of those sweet geeks are true assholes and the confident attractive guys have great personalities. Insecure beautiful women often can’t cope with someone on their level, especially if a less attractive man says and does all the right things at the beginning.


Let me guess, in this scenario you're the confident attractive guy with a great personality but the beautiful women won’t go for you. Have you tried being an ass hole? That’s definitely the type of guy I went for when I was younger. Then I realized that going for a nice guy is better. Nerdy or sexy doesn’t necessary correlate with nice or bad (I agree with you on that), there are plenty of sexy guys that are nice (my DH included IMHO). If that’s your profile then you’ll find the right girl soon enough. If not, you might not be as nice and attractive as you thought...
[Post New]05/21/2019 00:33
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Money


+1 - especially if there is an age gap. Sometimes if they are the same age I’ll give the benefit of the doubt and think high school/ college sweethearts if they give off that been together forever vibe,
[Post New]05/21/2019 00:49
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Anonymous
It’s gotta be the size of his.......uh......

Bank account.
Gotta be.
[Post New]05/21/2019 07:44
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:BDE


What is BDE?
[Post New]05/21/2019 07:50
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Anonymous
She loves him.
[Post New]05/21/2019 08:46
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sometimes it’s money, but more often it’s a sense of safety and security. Women get a lot of cultural messaging around choosing the nerdy “nice” guy over the sexy “bad” guy. In reality, a lot of those sweet geeks are true assholes and the confident attractive guys have great personalities. Insecure beautiful women often can’t cope with someone on their level, especially if a less attractive man says and does all the right things at the beginning.


Let me guess, in this scenario you're the confident attractive guy with a great personality but the beautiful women won’t go for you. Have you tried being an ass hole? That’s definitely the type of guy I went for when I was younger. Then I realized that going for a nice guy is better. Nerdy or sexy doesn’t necessary correlate with nice or bad (I agree with you on that), there are plenty of sexy guys that are nice (my DH included IMHO). If that’s your profile then you’ll find the right girl soon enough. If not, you might not be as nice and attractive as you thought...


No, I’m a woman who got burned by sweet-seeming nerdy guys and never gave more attractive men a chance because of my own issues.
[Post New]05/21/2019 09:49
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Anonymous
I think that despite her hotness, she's at least partly crazy, and I feel bad for his having to put up with it. The Universal Hot Crazy Matrix never fails.
https://youtu.be/incSwssUyp4
[Post New]05/21/2019 09:55
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Anonymous
You mean these two:

[Post New]05/21/2019 09:55
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Anonymous
Oops:

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[Post New]05/21/2019 14:52
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Anonymous
When I was young, I was considered "stunning". Old men would hit on me, and very, ugly men. Never good looking (or even average) ones. Because of my looks, and my quiet nature, I was asked many times, "so what is wrong with you?", "how come you aren't taken?", etc...The only way I actually went out on a date was when girlfriends fixed me up. Luckily, my 3rd blind date married me within a year of meeting me. When he shows others our picture, he is always asked, how did you get her?

So if I see an average guy with a beautiful woman, I think:
He may be average looking, but I bet he is kind, doesn't play games, knows a good thing when he sees it, and has the confidence to go after what he wants.
[Post New]05/21/2019 14:56
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Anonymous
I think she may need glasses.
[Post New]05/21/2019 16:09
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:When I was young, I was considered "stunning". Old men would hit on me, and very, ugly men. Never good looking (or even average) ones. Because of my looks, and my quiet nature, I was asked many times, "so what is wrong with you?", "how come you aren't taken?", etc...The only way I actually went out on a date was when girlfriends fixed me up. Luckily, my 3rd blind date married me within a year of meeting me. When he shows others our picture, he is always asked, how did you get her?

So if I see an average guy with a beautiful woman, I think:
He may be average looking, but I bet he is kind, doesn't play games, knows a good thing when he sees it, and has the confidence to go after what he wants.


[Post New]05/21/2019 16:21
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Anonymous
He offers something other than looks; she probably doesn't.

My assumptions: he's rich (or smart, powerful, fantastically funny, irreproachably decent, etc.) and shallow as a cookie sheet.
[Post New]05/21/2019 16:53
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:BDE


+1
[Post New]05/21/2019 17:11
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Is she really going out with him? Is she really going to take him home tonight?


Ha! Perfect!
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