What runs through your mind when you see a very attractive women with an unattractive man?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My thought is: Damn, all those years I spent envious of pretty women like her, and what did it get her? Nothing."

lol

I think this too. I had a very beautiful roommate in college. We’re still Facebook friends and she looks very similar as she did 15 years ago - maybe a 9 instead of 10. Whenever I see a photo of her with her husband it’s hard not to do a double take. He’s very overweight and unattractive. They’re the same age but he looks 20 years older. It just looks very strange.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My thought is: Damn, all those years I spent envious of pretty women like her, and what did it get her? Nothing."

lol

I think this too. I had a very beautiful roommate in college. We’re still Facebook friends and she looks very similar as she did 15 years ago - maybe a 9 instead of 10. Whenever I see a photo of her with her husband it’s hard not to do a double take. He’s very overweight and unattractive. They’re the same age but he looks 20 years older. It just looks very strange.

So what you’re saying is all that matters is looks in a man?

[Anonymous]

Money and a small penis. She wants one but will accept the other.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd say it's something at least 9" long, with some girth to it as well.

Is this a serious answer?

Yeah

[Anonymous]

He’s a good person and she’s not shallow.

[Anonymous]

It's all about the money, money, money. Or the fame, or power.

Actually I think none of those things. I am not one the judge someone based on their looks as what makes a person attractive is based on so much more than their beauty. So I just assume there are important compatabilities that that make these two persons well suited for one another.

There is an older, middle-aged couple at my gym. One partner is still so youthful and very attractive, the other not so much. But importantly, they appear to have been together for many years and look very comfortable together. Looks fade, but compatability based on other traits endures.

[Anonymous]

Nothing, because I never notice those things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think the assumption is that he is successful, or that he has something about himself that makes himself appealing (e.g. ready to settle down).

When I was training at the gym, and a beautiful woman walked in with an unattractive husband, all the male trainers would always joke that he was probably rich. It was just a group of trainers at my gym, so not sure if that's what most men or people would say.

I did have a close male friend who told me that when he saw a great looking woman with an average guy, that his view of the man improved. I asked him why that was and he told me that it was because the man was able to "sell himself" well enough to the woman to lock her down. I guess another term for that would be 'game.'

Since this thread is already shallow as can be, I'll add that I've noticed an uptick of very average (but not necessarily ugly) looking young women (age 25-35) who are dating great looking men. This is in my industry, which is very profitable. I tend to think that the woman's salary and her generally having her shit together is probably particularly appealing to these men young men, who have strong economic pressures on them (student loans, high cost of housing, etc). The women in my industry generally out earn their partners.

+1. I've noticed this as well.

[Anonymous]

What goes through my mind is that his daughter is lucky that she looks like her mother!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm not meaning to be judgemental, but I see this all pretty frequently here in DC: the women is stunning, and the guys is, well, not at all. What goes through your mind?

In DC??? You really do not see stunning women or men. Maybe you just prefer women?

[Anonymous]

Is she really going out with him? Is she really going to take him home tonight?

[Anonymous]

Good sense of humor and very good in bed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think the assumption is that he is successful, or that he has something about himself that makes himself appealing (e.g. ready to settle down).

When I was training at the gym, and a beautiful woman walked in with an unattractive husband, all the male trainers would always joke that he was probably rich. It was just a group of trainers at my gym, so not sure if that's what most men or people would say.

I did have a close male friend who told me that when he saw a great looking woman with an average guy, that his view of the man improved. I asked him why that was and he told me that it was because the man was able to "sell himself" well enough to the woman to lock her down. I guess another term for that would be 'game.'

Since this thread is already shallow as can be, I'll add that I've noticed an uptick of very average (but not necessarily ugly) looking young women (age 25-35) who are dating great looking men. This is in my industry, which is very profitable. I tend to think that the woman's salary and her generally having her shit together is probably particularly appealing to these men young men, who have strong economic pressures on them (student loans, high cost of housing, etc). The women in my industry generally out earn their partners.

+1. I've noticed this as well.

What industry is this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is she really going out with him? Is she really going to take him home tonight?

[Anonymous]

seeking arrangement