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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sometimes it’s money, but more often it’s a sense of safety and security. Women get a lot of cultural messaging around choosing the nerdy “nice” guy over the sexy “bad” guy. In reality, a lot of those sweet geeks are true assholes and the confident attractive guys have great personalities. Insecure beautiful women often can’t cope with someone on their level, especially if a less attractive man says and does all the right things at the beginning. [/quote]

Let me guess, in this scenario you're the confident attractive guy with a great personality but the beautiful women won’t go for you. Have you tried being an ass hole? That’s definitely the type of guy I went for when I was younger. Then I realized that going for a nice guy is better. Nerdy or sexy doesn’t necessary correlate with nice or bad (I agree with you on that), there are plenty of sexy guys that are nice (my DH included IMHO). If that’s your profile then you’ll find the right girl soon enough. If not, you might not be as nice and attractive as you thought...[/quote]

No, I’m a woman who got burned by sweet-seeming nerdy guys and never gave more attractive men a chance because of my own issues. [/quote]

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