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You son sounds very similar to mine. Mine is in preschool and is more of a "watcher" than an interactor. He is 5 year old, though delayed in all areas including size about a year or a little more so is more like an almost four year old. He is shy, does have a bit of social anxiety (nail biting, etc) but is friendly and outgoing when comfortable. He is also gentle and sweet and loves other children once he feels comfortable with them. He is doing very well in preschool but if not actively engaged by the teacher in the activity, will watch from the outskirts. He has as speech delay, but most children can understand most of what he is saying. I worry that he will end up the receiving end of bullies because he is very gentle and "sweet" but not assertive - similar to how you described your son. I too was looking into social skills playgroups but wonder if we might form our own? If you're in Bethesda or nearby, maybe we might get out guys together for a playdate? Let me know. You can email me at castofcharacters9@yahoo.com |
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good lord greenspan fanatic. . . you have enormous amounts of time to devote to these threads.
and the obsession with Dr. Greenspan is downright spooky. |
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To the woman who speaks in absolutes: Do you even read what you post? Even your own gospel says,
"The results of the chart analysis are impressive, but should be interpreted with caution. Due to sample limitations, the results only apply to the children used in the study. More research needs to be conducted with a larger and more diverse population, and by researchers other than the creators of Floor Time. In addition, a controlled scientific study would provide more definitive information on the efficacy of Floor Time intervention. However, the results of the chart review indicate that some children with autism are capable of symbolic thought, and they can make significant improvements in social relationships and affect... ...The research available supports the effectiveness of the IPG and Floor Time models; however, inadequate samples and other methodological issues limit the utility of the studies." I wish I could believe your promise not to post on the other social skills thread. You've 'mis-written' so many other times before. |
Another poster who read the article. I was struck by the piece in red. . . |
I hope I never get stuck sitting next to you on an airplane. |
that was funny.
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| It's bad enough being subject to her on DCUMs, I can only imagine how horrid it would be to be stuck on an airplane with her! I guess I should be careful what I post. I'll probably get accused of trying to limit her ability to travel! |
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WWSIA (woman who speaks in absolutes) has totally twisted what Dr. Greenspan promotes. His approach in no way contradicts or negates what others have said they've done. His philosophy is that you have to master foundational skills prior to moving to the next and if a child hasn't mastered those, there's no point in moving on no matter what the child's age. Our more mildly afflicted children don't need the same intensive interventions as others who might use Floortime. My child certainly has those foundational skills, he just needs some assistance and an environment to practice - all of which Dr. Greenspan supports and would consider as part of a "transitional" experience or education. Doing Floortime with him would be like getting a backhoe when a garden trowel would be sufficient.
As with many fantatics, she has twisted and misinterepreted a philosophy. |
This post was helpful and provided some necessary context to other posts. Much appreciated and thank you. |
IF I understood your point correctly, what you wrote is actually not true. DC is a perfect case in point. He was dx by Greenspan as being mildly affected. He's not on the autism spectrum. Yet he did require several floortime sessions a day and four OT sessions a day. I have met two other parents who saw Greenspan for their own kids. They, too, were dx with mild non-spectrum disorder but their parents were still asked to do 4 floortime sessions and 6 mini OT sessions per day. So unless you have seen Greenspan for your child or perhaps at least have read his books, you would not know Greenspan's protocol to make your claim. |
Parenting Playgroups owner teaches and talks about Floortime in her own parenting lectures. Kennedy Krieger, the Johns Hopkins autism clinic, also uses Floortime. Many places throughout the country do use floortime. Remember that this writeup says it has not been tested by other than floortime researchers. It does not say Floortime is ineffective. In fact, it says floortime is extremely effective; it just hasn't been rigorously tested. Many treatment modalities for developmental problems have not been tested though. As far as I know, RDI does not have double-blind tests to back up their treatment strategies. Does ABA? Who knows, really. How do you do double-blind studies for psychiatric treatments of developmental problems anyway. I published this not to show that floortime is the ONLY way to treat a child with challenges. I published this to show Floortime is one profoundly effective way for most of them. I have, in fact, used RDI with my own DC and it was wonderful. It was limiting when he got older, but very effective when he was a toddler. I also published this to show that it talks a bit about social skills training and how social skills training focuses on discrete behavior training as opposed to development. Just a reinforcement of Greenspan's own position. |
| You don't need to reinforce Greenspan's protocol or approach anymore. We get it. BELIEVE ME, we get it. |
| If you read widely, you will find that Greenspan's approach is not generally seen as a gift from the gods. He makes some good points, he makes some iffy points, he has limited research to back up his ideas. Some patients are very satisfied, some are quite unsatisfied. Quoting Greenspan is just that, quoting the opinion of one expert among many - it may hold true for your child, or it may not. |
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I've never heard or read anything from Dr. Greenspan that contradicts the approach we're taking. We've not only consulted with Dr. Greenspan, we have also read his books and several of our therapists have attended his workshops and incorporate the Floortime philosophy in therapy and in their social skills group. We also see a large and diverse number of other specialists. None of their approaches have been contradictory, just the opposite, they've been reinforcing. I can't speak to approaches used for ASD kids and their effectiveness but Floortime is just one more tool in our toolbox - not the only tool. You also need to make sure you have the right tools for the job and there is no universal tool. Given the number of professionals we've seen, I know our situation is not unusual.
Parents may not realize it but, Floortime is widely studied and therapists incorporate many of those theories into their own sessions. Subsequently, what parents observe in sessions and they reinforce at home. They may not call what they do at home Floortime but once caregivers are made aware of what to focus on, therapy is easily incorporated into daily routines, much like the sessions you're talking about. Your logic is flawed if you're dismissing all other approaches other than Floortime because you consider your DC mildly affected. Compared to other children, your DC may be considered mildly affected but he clearly hadn't mastered some essential skills needed to reach his full developmental potential. You were instructed to engage him in certain ways a certain number of times per day. This isn't any different than the homework we get from our OT. Progress is very dependent upon how often it's done and Dr. Greenspan certainly requests a certain level of interaction. I can guarantee you that not every parent follows the plan diligently. But, that doesn't mean other approaches don't work. Unless you're going to be seeing him soon, I suggest you re-read some of his publications. Children who have empathy, understanding and engage in reciprocal relationships can benefit greatly from transitional activities such as social skills group, gymnastics, karate and any other activity that allows them to build on the strengths and skills they have. You don't always need Floortime. |
Please read what I wrote above. I specifically said that I'm not saying Floortime is the only treatment that may work. What I am saying is that it is one profoundly effective treatment. I mention above that I also used RDI with some success. And I think I did also mention above that Floortime is used throughout the country in many, many programs. Though Greenspan created Floortime, lots of people have incorporated it into their treatment. Greenspan's floortime is a bit different from other floortimes, though any floortime is better than none. But seeing as how you are already a patient of Greenspan you already know what those differences are. You said 'children who have empathy, understanding and engage in reciprocal relationships can benefit greatly from transitional activities such as social skills group...' I'm going to focus on social skills groups only and not address the gymnastics, karate part because that is the subject of this particular thread. If a child is developmentally already quite healthy in terms of his empathy, ability to relate in reciprocal relationships, then why does he need the social skills groups to begin with? Children whose parents seek out social skills groups often do so because their kids are lacking in some foundation skills that is necessary for good social interactions and necessary for friendships. There are some holes in that foundation Greenspan talks about. Mildly affected kids have circles of communication to engage in social reciprocity, but just not enough, or sometimes it is hard for them to have greater circles of communication if it's a subject not of their own choosing. There could be all kinds of reasons why they just are not able to form friendships on their own, but the fact that they can not usually means something is missing in the foundation and those are holes that need to be filled. I didn't quite understand you when you wrote, "unless you're going to see him soon, I suggest you re-read his publications." Please state specifically what part of his program or teaching you think I misunderstood. Is it that some effort, even if not full effort, will result in improvement? That I already knew but the best results are seen if the patient follows Greenspan's treatment as much as is humanly possible. Is it that I think other treatments do not work? Never said that. In fact, Greenspan himself says ABA may be called for but only in some cases. And again, I mention above that I used RDI which is not a Greenspan approach. Did you read the ICDL article Greenspan published that talks about social skills groups relying on rote memorization? He explains their disadvantages. Can you please show me the quote where Greenspan actually suggests social skills programs relying on rote memorization are beneficial? Jake Greenspan runs DIR Support Services where they do in fact have social skills playgroups. DIR is affiliated with Greenspan's office (Jake is his son). It is where they do OT also. Greenspan would not permit social skills groups to take place at any office he's in control of if he thought they were all worthless. It's the rote memorization part that he doesn't think works. It's the learning of discrete behaviors part that he says is not effective in promoting healthy development. So please share with me the quote from Greenspan where he recommends social skills groups that do this. |