Early 30s Woman Dating Late 40s Man

[Anonymous]

I’m 31. I can’t see myself dating someone 40 and above but never say never. My SO is two yrs younger. I could go maybe 3 yrs young and 7 yrs older, but that’s it... no more than that. Just my personal preference.

My SO is in his late 20s, however I have enjoyed my dating experiences with guys in their mid-30s... have never ventured older than that though.

You like what you like OP. Nothing wrong with that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is stomach turning. Why are 30s women desperate enough to date grandpas who think they look good, nasty! All the extra hair, greys and wrinkles.

in ears and noses

Mid-50s man here. I shave or trim all the extra hair. I don't have a single wrinkle on my body or face. I am also blond, 6'4", PhD, $3 million NW.

[Anonymous]

No one cares dude. Can we stipulate that mere mortal men tend to get more bald on their head and more hairy in the ears and ...other areas as they age?


Sheesh you special little aged white male anowflakes. If I ever listed my net worth and body hair statusnin in some oddly defensive response to general statements- id know I had hit bottom.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m 31. I can’t see myself dating someone 40 and above but never say never. My SO is two yrs younger. I could go maybe 3 yrs young and 7 yrs older, but that’s it... no more than that. Just my personal preference.

My SO is in his late 20s, however I have enjoyed my dating experiences with guys in their mid-30s... have never ventured older than that though.

You like what you like OP. Nothing wrong with that.

After 30 women fall apart

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is stomach turning. Why are 30s women desperate enough to date grandpas who think they look good, nasty! All the extra hair, greys and wrinkles.

Don’t forget saggy balls

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is stomach turning. Why are 30s women desperate enough to date grandpas who think they look good, nasty! All the extra hair, greys and wrinkles.

Don’t forget saggy balls

Who even cares about the balls when they have ED. Of course the well oiled not ONE wrinkle 3 mil geriatric set suffers with ED. I imagine it would be terribly stressful if I imagined myself a 60 year old out playin the game and trying to shag women half your age knowing that it was statistically likely my male member would fail to delight.

[Anonymous]

When you're divorced with kids, the reality is you either have to be flexible or willing to be alone. If you're not comfortable dating older men, don't. But realize most men in their 30s would prefer dating women without kids.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Most childless men under 40 don't want to date a divorced women who already has kids. There is just a biological inconvenience that if you want kids, you basically have to do it with a women who is under 35-40, at the latest.

I acknowledged this in my OP, and I don’t disagree with you. If someone is dating with marriage and kids in mind then we already aren’t compatible regardless of age.

The under age 40 men are looking for kids and marriage. The over 45 do not want (more) children. It is more of where they are in their life stage.

If you are just looking to date- go for the older men and keep dating in that age range until you get there.

[Anonymous]

I wouldnt want to deal with all the ED issues that start around that age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No one cares dude. Can we stipulate that mere mortal men tend to get more bald on their head and more hairy in the ears and ...other areas as they age?

Sheesh you special little aged white male anowflakes. If I ever listed my net worth and body hair statusnin in some oddly defensive response to general statements- id know I had hit bottom.

Personally I am more amused at all the butthurt when an older guy talks about dating younger women. Apparently this strongly triggers the special little aging white female snowflakes. Sad!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is stomach turning. Why are 30s women desperate enough to date grandpas who think they look good, nasty! All the extra hair, greys and wrinkles.

Don’t forget saggy balls

Who even cares about the balls when they have ED. Of course the well oiled not ONE wrinkle 3 mil geriatric set suffers with ED. I imagine it would be terribly stressful if I imagined myself a 60 year old out playin the game and trying to shag women half your age knowing that it was statistically likely my male member would fail to delight.

Just imagine how you, a woman, are going to feel at age 60 when your sagging boobs and belly fail to interest any man of any age whatsoever.

ED is easily fixed with magic pills. There ain't no magic pill to cure you from being an old woman. Too bad!

[Anonymous]

I’m very comfortable with my body at 43 and I’m sure I will at 63 as well. Age has been very kind to me so far but I embrace my body as it is and as it will be. You can’t go have mind blowing erotic sex if you aren’t comfortable with your body-

I won’t mind saggy balls and hairy ears as they will nicely compliment my own saggy parts as I tend to date within my age range. Seeing my wrinkled sac next to a 30 year olds body would make me feel the opposite of confident. Maybe money and your height can overcome that, but that’s a personal thing. I don’t worry if someone wouldn’t like me because I look my own actual age. That’s so weird I can’t comprehend it.

[Anonymous]

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I'm the 62 year old man in that other thread. That was about my age range for looking when I was your age. I've adjusted it higher as I got older and am being called all kinds of nasty names for saying it's 35-48 but 50s is still a wall for women in the dating pool, no matter how old I get. Indeed, I'd have to wonder what is wrong with a 35 year old who wants me, but I'm not turning it down and I've had much younger although not for a relationship.

Don't you ever apologize for anything, you're doing nothing wrong! This is nature's tables turning against women. Who's picky now?

You're right and I love it.

It's harsh, but the reality is that men tend to retain higher sex drives, especially after middle-age, than women. Lots of post-menopausal women are basically over sex and just want a "companion." There just aren't a whole lot of attractive options after a certain age. Call it shallow if you like, but if you are a decent looking older guy with money, a younger women is a better option than being alone or being with someone that you are not at all attracted to. In a way, it's easier for women because they aren't as hardwired to be attracted to youth (fertility) and aren't as visually focused as men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m very comfortable with my body at 43 and I’m sure I will at 63 as well. Age has been very kind to me so far but I embrace my body as it is and as it will be. You can’t go have mind blowing erotic sex if you aren’t comfortable with your body-

I won’t mind saggy balls and hairy ears as they will nicely compliment my own saggy parts as I tend to date within my age range. Seeing my wrinkled sac next to a 30 year olds body would make me feel the opposite of confident. Maybe money and your height can overcome that, but that’s a personal thing. I don’t worry if someone wouldn’t like me because I look my own actual age. That’s so weird I can’t comprehend it.

For what it's worth, all sacks are wrinkled.

[Anonymous]

I can only imagine the DCUM reaction if a 62 year old woman said she preferred to date 30 and 40-something men (reversing the genders of the scenario above).

What DCUM women would not say to her: "Ewww gross, that's so immature, date your age, no man wants your saggy boobs and bone-dry post-menopausal vagina, no young man is that desperate, they just want your money!"

Instead it would be all, "You go, girl! You are still beautiful! There are plenty of young men out there who would be happy to date you!"