My nephew is a sex worker who lies to his mom about being in college and working. Should I tell?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good chance your nephew was bullshitting your son. Better confirm before you start poking your nose where it doesn't belong.

+ 2 million

Nope. We found his ad. I am forwarding it to his mom via an anonymous email address. She will have to deal with the lies about school/work herself.

Look for some good bible based conversation therapy.

[Anonymous]

I would tell not because he is a sex worker as that is his business, but because he is not in school and is lying about it and letting your sister foot the bill for his lies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good chance your nephew was bullshitting your son. Better confirm before you start poking your nose where it doesn't belong.

+ 2 million

Nope. We found his ad. I am forwarding it to his mom via an anonymous email address. She will have to deal with the lies about school/work herself.

I think that's the best way to go about it. He's 25, his choice. But your sister is sending him money thinking he's in college. She deserves to know he's lying.

[Anonymous]

Op, how old is your son?

Your nephew involved your son in his lies. I would be mad about that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op, how old is your son?

Your nephew involved your son in his lies. I would be mad about that.

Son is an adult. He's old enough and mature enough that I'm not especially concerned about this. He was shocked and disgusted. I think its damaged any future relationship they might have had but that's about it.

[Anonymous]

Of course you say something- it’s your sister and your nephew. What if it was your kid and your sister didn’t tell you? What if your nephew gets hurt or sick?

[Anonymous]

I love all the sjw types bending over backwards they shave no issue with the nephew being a male hustler/ sex worker.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op, how old is your son?

Your nephew involved your son in his lies. I would be mad about that.

Son is an adult. He's old enough and mature enough that I'm not especially concerned about this. He was shocked and disgusted. I think its damaged any future relationship they might have had but that's about it.

Ok. I was hoping he hadn't saddled a minor with that information.
Nothing to be lost then if/when nephew finds out the secret wasn't kept. If he really wanted it kept quiet he should have never said anything.

[Anonymous]

Your nephew will know this information came from your son and will blame him. Even with this whole anonymous email nonsense.

I'd tell your sister her son is not in school. That's where my involvement would end.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your nephew will know this information came from your son and will blame him. Even with this whole anonymous email nonsense.

Too bad. If the idiot didn't want his cousin to blab, he shouldn't have told him about it. Also, if this immoral creature henceforth disdains to associate with the OPs son, GOOD.

[Anonymous]

Why on earth would he make this decision? What led to this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The nephew is 25 years old and has been doing this for awhile. My son wasn't supposed to tell me but was shocked and concerned, so I'm glad he confided in me. I know sister will go ballistic so I'm freaked out.

He is 25 and an adult. Talk to him directly. Tell him you know (don't rat your son out) and are concerned and want his assurance that he is protecting himself against STD's.

This. He doesn't have to be a sex worker to get AIDS. I have a friend who meets up with random guys on Tinder whenever he can (which is often daily). He's not getting paid, but the risks are the same.

[Anonymous]

I'm always amazed at what DCUM chooses to believe.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm always amazed at what DCUM chooses to believe.

You don't believe there are gay hookers or that middle class people sometimes fall prey to this lifestyle? Or that one of them would be deluded enough to brag about his deception to his family regarding his "enlightened" lifestyle?

My nephew's mom was never a sex worker (that I know of) but spent years getting $ out of our parents for school, first lying about obtaining a degree, then getting more for "going back." It never resulted in any kind of degree, so her son is following in her footsteps as regards the whole education thing. That's part of the reason I'm not eager to wade into familial conflict. She's said he throws fits and cites an anxiety disorder anytime she asks him when he will be getting a b.a.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm always amazed at what DCUM chooses to believe.

You don't believe there are gay hookers or that middle class people sometimes fall prey to this lifestyle? Or that one of them would be deluded enough to brag about his deception to his family regarding his "enlightened" lifestyle?

My nephew's mom was never a sex worker (that I know of) but spent years getting $ out of our parents for school, first lying about obtaining a degree, then getting more for "going back." It never resulted in any kind of degree, so her son is following in her footsteps as regards the whole education thing. That's part of the reason I'm not eager to wade into familial conflict. She's said he throws fits and cites an anxiety disorder anytime she asks him when he will be getting a b.a.

Well well well social relational cycle
Repeats itself

Your sister has no one to blame but herself

He learned to
Hustle because she did it first.