Would you put your white kid in KIPP or Center City?

[Anonymous]

My white UMC kid was in high poverty mostly Latino school and then got into higher performing mostly white and Asian school. It was ok in both, but I can see that for him it is much easier socially in the new school. Birds of a feather flock together and it is not about skin color. His buddy in the new class is Latino fwiw.
Look at the social and educational (and therefore income) levels of parents.

[Anonymous]

A lot of military families on bolling air force base send their preschool students to majority minority charters.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly, what do white people think? Do you think your child will be harmed by minority children? The fact that you are concerned is fascinating.

Honestly, what would you do as a black parent in say Zimbabwe or Kenya?

Would you truly send your kid to an all-white school, no questions asked?

I doubt so, but hey, feel free to try and report back.

So, that’s a yes? Okay.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, what do white people think? Do you think your child will be harmed by minority children? The fact that you are concerned is fascinating.

Honestly, what would you do as a black parent in say Zimbabwe or Kenya?

Would you truly send your kid to an all-white school, no questions asked?

I doubt so, but hey, feel free to try and report back.

So, that’s a yes? Okay.

I have no idea what I would do as a black parent in Zimbabwe or Kenya....? Truly bizarre question.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, what do white people think? Do you think your child will be harmed by minority children? The fact that you are concerned is fascinating.

Honestly, what would you do as a black parent in say Zimbabwe or Kenya?

Would you truly send your kid to an all-white school, no questions asked?

I doubt so, but hey, feel free to try and report back.

So, that’s a yes? Okay.

I have no idea what I would do as a black parent in Zimbabwe or Kenya....? Truly bizarre question.

Right?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, I would send them to KIPP because I think it's a high-quality curriculum with families that value education. I'd be more worried about whether the teaching approach is a good fit for my particular kid than race. I know there's a lot of skepticism about KIPP but as it turns out my high SES white kid LOVES structure, and absolutely floundered in a more touch-feely "play based" PK. He would likely have loved KIPP.

I feel the same way. Visit both schools and see how the classroom management and m.o. of the school (give homework or not, amount of playtime, outdoor time/space, schedule, etc.) matches or clashes with your preferences. About being "the only" -- I don't think this is an inherent problem, especially not for a white child. I would highly doubt a white three year old will experience any racial discrimination at school (and if so, it could be a good learning experience). Encourage the child to make friends in school. Meet other parents and arrange play dates. We did this when our child was literally the only white child in class and it was great; we made many new friends.

A white child experiencing racial discrimination at school as a three year old could "be a good learning experience". Are you drunk? Crawl back into your hole.

+1.

Signed,

Minority

The idea that a white elementary school child will experience racial discrimination is absolutely absurd! I say this as a mom of a white child who is one of 3 white kids in the grade. The children are children and the only issues they ever have are the same issues that all kids have. The fear of racial discrimination is ridiculous. People fear the unknown but I am telling you there is nothing to fear.

What is going on with people!?!?

[Anonymous]

AA parent here. My child has been the only in many situations...birthday parties, play dates, recreational sports, story time at the library. As a child, he couldn’t care less; As an adult, it can feel awkward and isolating.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, I would send them to KIPP because I think it's a high-quality curriculum with families that value education. I'd be more worried about whether the teaching approach is a good fit for my particular kid than race. I know there's a lot of skepticism about KIPP but as it turns out my high SES white kid LOVES structure, and absolutely floundered in a more touch-feely "play based" PK. He would likely have loved KIPP.

I feel the same way. Visit both schools and see how the classroom management and m.o. of the school (give homework or not, amount of playtime, outdoor time/space, schedule, etc.) matches or clashes with your preferences. About being "the only" -- I don't think this is an inherent problem, especially not for a white child. I would highly doubt a white three year old will experience any racial discrimination at school (and if so, it could be a good learning experience). Encourage the child to make friends in school. Meet other parents and arrange play dates. We did this when our child was literally the only white child in class and it was great; we made many new friends.

A white child experiencing racial discrimination at school as a three year old could "be a good learning experience". Are you drunk? Crawl back into your hole.

+1.

Signed,

Minority

The idea that a white elementary school child will experience racial discrimination is absolutely absurd! I say this as a mom of a white child who is one of 3 white kids in the grade. The children are children and the only issues they ever have are the same issues that all kids have. The fear of racial discrimination is ridiculous. People fear the unknown but I am telling you there is nothing to fear.

What is going on with people!?!?

If you say so, Mary Poppins...

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I would send them to KIPP because I think it's a high-quality curriculum with families that value education. I'd be more worried about whether the teaching approach is a good fit for my particular kid than race. I know there's a lot of skepticism about KIPP but as it turns out my high SES white kid LOVES structure, and absolutely floundered in a more touch-feely "play based" PK. He would likely have loved KIPP.

I feel the same way. Visit both schools and see how the classroom management and m.o. of the school (give homework or not, amount of playtime, outdoor time/space, schedule, etc.) matches or clashes with your preferences. About being "the only" -- I don't think this is an inherent problem, especially not for a white child. I would highly doubt a white three year old will experience any racial discrimination at school (and if so, it could be a good learning experience). Encourage the child to make friends in school. Meet other parents and arrange play dates. We did this when our child was literally the only white child in class and it was great; we made many new friends.

A white child experiencing racial discrimination at school as a three year old could "be a good learning experience". Are you drunk? Crawl back into your hole.

+1.

Signed,

Minority

The idea that a white elementary school child will experience racial discrimination is absolutely absurd! I say this as a mom of a white child who is one of 3 white kids in the grade. The children are children and the only issues they ever have are the same issues that all kids have. The fear of racial discrimination is ridiculous. People fear the unknown but I am telling you there is nothing to fear.

What is going on with people!?!?

If you say so, Mary Poppins...

Mary Poppins? Seek help! Your world view is toxic. I can assure you I have not met a black parent in DC who didn't worry and love their kids any less than a white parent. AA parents want a good education and a positive environment for their children, which doesn't not include beating up the 1% of white kids in the school. In fact, all the parents I know would be furious if their kids did this. Get outside your bubble, you might learn something.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, I would send them to KIPP because I think it's a high-quality curriculum with families that value education. I'd be more worried about whether the teaching approach is a good fit for my particular kid than race. I know there's a lot of skepticism about KIPP but as it turns out my high SES white kid LOVES structure, and absolutely floundered in a more touch-feely "play based" PK. He would likely have loved KIPP.

I feel the same way. Visit both schools and see how the classroom management and m.o. of the school (give homework or not, amount of playtime, outdoor time/space, schedule, etc.) matches or clashes with your preferences. About being "the only" -- I don't think this is an inherent problem, especially not for a white child. I would highly doubt a white three year old will experience any racial discrimination at school (and if so, it could be a good learning experience). Encourage the child to make friends in school. Meet other parents and arrange play dates. We did this when our child was literally the only white child in class and it was great; we made many new friends.

A white child experiencing racial discrimination at school as a three year old could "be a good learning experience". Are you drunk? Crawl back into your hole.

+1.

Signed,

Minority

The idea that a white elementary school child will experience racial discrimination is absolutely absurd! I say this as a mom of a white child who is one of 3 white kids in the grade. The children are children and the only issues they ever have are the same issues that all kids have. The fear of racial discrimination is ridiculous. People fear the unknown but I am telling you there is nothing to fear.

What is going on with people!?!?

If you say so, Mary Poppins...

Mary Poppins? Seek help! Your world view is toxic. I can assure you I have not met a black parent in DC who didn't worry and love their kids any less than a white parent. AA parents want a good education and a positive environment for their children, which doesn't not include beating up the 1% of white kids in the school. In fact, all the parents I know would be furious if their kids did this. Get outside your bubble, you might learn something.

Lady, you live in a fantastic bubble

Best luck to your kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I would send them to KIPP because I think it's a high-quality curriculum with families that value education. I'd be more worried about whether the teaching approach is a good fit for my particular kid than race. I know there's a lot of skepticism about KIPP but as it turns out my high SES white kid LOVES structure, and absolutely floundered in a more touch-feely "play based" PK. He would likely have loved KIPP.

I feel the same way. Visit both schools and see how the classroom management and m.o. of the school (give homework or not, amount of playtime, outdoor time/space, schedule, etc.) matches or clashes with your preferences. About being "the only" -- I don't think this is an inherent problem, especially not for a white child. I would highly doubt a white three year old will experience any racial discrimination at school (and if so, it could be a good learning experience). Encourage the child to make friends in school. Meet other parents and arrange play dates. We did this when our child was literally the only white child in class and it was great; we made many new friends.

A white child experiencing racial discrimination at school as a three year old could "be a good learning experience". Are you drunk? Crawl back into your hole.

+1.

Signed,

Minority

The idea that a white elementary school child will experience racial discrimination is absolutely absurd! I say this as a mom of a white child who is one of 3 white kids in the grade. The children are children and the only issues they ever have are the same issues that all kids have. The fear of racial discrimination is ridiculous. People fear the unknown but I am telling you there is nothing to fear.

What is going on with people!?!?

If you say so, Mary Poppins...

Mary Poppins? Seek help! Your world view is toxic. I can assure you I have not met a black parent in DC who didn't worry and love their kids any less than a white parent. AA parents want a good education and a positive environment for their children, which doesn't not include beating up the 1% of white kids in the school. In fact, all the parents I know would be furious if their kids did this. Get outside your bubble, you might learn something.

Lady, you live in a fantastic bubble

Best luck to your kids.

what are you talking about? what bubble?

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't. I saw this growing up as the only asian kid in a all white school district from 4th to 12th grade. Let's just say I didn't have any friends until 9th grade. I graduated in the 90s so yes, race relations is better, but the bullying is worse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Both Kipp and Center City use the Appletree model for pk3 and prek4. You’ll be fine at either one for those grades. K and up, I’d choose Kipp over CC.

False. KIPP DC schools use Tools of the Mind. You can read more about it here. https://toolsofthemind.org/learn/tools-for-parents/#parents-of

I'm also curious about the poster who said "KIPP is not the type of environment in which I want my child to spend her schools years." My husband is an early elementary teacher at KIPP and I only hope our kids have access to a school that combines such joy, rigor, and excellent teaching. Have you ever BEEN in a KIPP PreK classroom?

[Anonymous]

I don't know about KIPP specifically. But I can tell you about my experience as the only white kid in my elementary school (from k-4th). I think it was fine through 2nd grade, but it started to get stressful after that. I got teased for it, and there was no way to avoid just generally standing out even though I had friends and was never outright bullied. I just didn't want that much attention all the time.

I was pretty relieved when I switched to a much more diverse school in 5th (as in a little of everthing - some white kids, some Latinos, Asian, African, etc). It let me blend in when I wanted to.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I would send them to KIPP because I think it's a high-quality curriculum with families that value education. I'd be more worried about whether the teaching approach is a good fit for my particular kid than race. I know there's a lot of skepticism about KIPP but as it turns out my high SES white kid LOVES structure, and absolutely floundered in a more touch-feely "play based" PK. He would likely have loved KIPP.

I feel the same way. Visit both schools and see how the classroom management and m.o. of the school (give homework or not, amount of playtime, outdoor time/space, schedule, etc.) matches or clashes with your preferences. About being "the only" -- I don't think this is an inherent problem, especially not for a white child. I would highly doubt a white three year old will experience any racial discrimination at school (and if so, it could be a good learning experience). Encourage the child to make friends in school. Meet other parents and arrange play dates. We did this when our child was literally the only white child in class and it was great; we made many new friends.

A white child experiencing racial discrimination at school as a three year old could "be a good learning experience". Are you drunk? Crawl back into your hole.

+1.

Signed,

Minority

The idea that a white elementary school child will experience racial discrimination is absolutely absurd! I say this as a mom of a white child who is one of 3 white kids in the grade. The children are children and the only issues they ever have are the same issues that all kids have. The fear of racial discrimination is ridiculous. People fear the unknown but I am telling you there is nothing to fear.

What is going on with people!?!?

If you say so, Mary Poppins...

Mary Poppins? Seek help! Your world view is toxic. I can assure you I have not met a black parent in DC who didn't worry and love their kids any less than a white parent. AA parents want a good education and a positive environment for their children, which doesn't not include beating up the 1% of white kids in the school. In fact, all the parents I know would be furious if their kids did this. Get outside your bubble, you might learn something.

Lady, you live in a fantastic bubble

Best luck to your kids.

what are you talking about? what bubble?

You are hopelessly naive, lady.