What are your deal breaking red flags?

Anonymous
Forgot to mention:

Nobody who thinks Rump’s bullying and lies are remotely OK. If you think that’s OK, then you’ll behave like that in private.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Disses his Ex on the first date, if he’s divorced

Doesn’t see much of his kids or isn’t on good terms with them, if he has kids

Doesn’t read

Trumpster

MRA guy

Can’t clean up after himself - BTDT for 20 years

Talks about himself constantly




Curious where do you find heterosexual democrat men?


Curious why you think you’re witty?


Where do you find heterosexual democrat men?


At my very well-paying job.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Single moms. Especially if they were unmarried and were too stupid to use protection.


too stupid to use protection — how do you tell this? Do you ask? Do they tell? Do you assume?

I’m a single mom, and I’m sure people are making this assumption about me, but it isn’t true. I got pregnant while using birth control. It’s more common than you think. Did you know that half of all abortion patients were actually using contraception? https://www.guttmacher.org/news-release/2018/about-half-us-abortion-patients-report-using-contraception-month-they-became

Do you expect unmarried women just not to have sex at all? Or just the ones that aren’t sleeping with you? Because I was 34 when my contraception failed, and it seems a bit unreasonable to stay a virgin at that age.

Or do you expect all unmarried women who get pregnant to have abortions? That’s definitely not the message society sends these days.

I decided to have my child. That’s a personal decision that came after a lot of thought.

What’s a deal-breaker for me is men like you who assume automatically that being a single mom is a result of some kind of slutty stupidity. Actually, it’s a dealbreaker that you even think it’s your privilege to judge me for becoming a single or unmarried mom, especially without knowing any details.

Anonymous
Summer teeth.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Disses his Ex on the first date, if he’s divorced

Doesn’t see much of his kids or isn’t on good terms with them, if he has kids

Doesn’t read

Trumpster

MRA guy

Can’t clean up after himself - BTDT for 20 years

Talks about himself constantly





What is an “MRA Guy”?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Single moms. Especially if they were unmarried and were too stupid to use protection.


too stupid to use protection — how do you tell this? Do you ask? Do they tell? Do you assume?

I’m a single mom, and I’m sure people are making this assumption about me, but it isn’t true. I got pregnant while using birth control. It’s more common than you think. Did you know that half of all abortion patients were actually using contraception? https://www.guttmacher.org/news-release/2018/about-half-us-abortion-patients-report-using-contraception-month-they-became

Do you expect unmarried women just not to have sex at all? Or just the ones that aren’t sleeping with you? Because I was 34 when my contraception failed, and it seems a bit unreasonable to stay a virgin at that age.

Or do you expect all unmarried women who get pregnant to have abortions? That’s definitely not the message society sends these days.

I decided to have my child. That’s a personal decision that came after a lot of thought.

What’s a deal-breaker for me is men like you who assume automatically that being a single mom is a result of some kind of slutty stupidity. Actually, it’s a dealbreaker that you even think it’s your privilege to judge me for becoming a single or unmarried mom, especially without knowing any details.

Why bother with people like that poster? I am a single mom by choice and i get some of the same comments.

Anonymous
Cellulite
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

What’s a deal-breaker for me is men like you who assume automatically that being a single mom is a result of some kind of slutty stupidity. Actually, it’s a dealbreaker that you even think it’s your privilege to judge me for becoming a single or unmarried mom, especially without knowing any details.



Good, I wouldn’t want to support some deadbeat woman and her random kids anyway. Enjoy raising your kids with no father figure in the household though i’m sure as you can recall dating was much easier before when you were single and not a single mom eh?
Anonymous
Anyone who talks about the patriarchy.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

What’s a deal-breaker for me is men like you who assume automatically that being a single mom is a result of some kind of slutty stupidity. Actually, it’s a dealbreaker that you even think it’s your privilege to judge me for becoming a single or unmarried mom, especially without knowing any details.



Good, I wouldn’t want to support some deadbeat woman and her random kids anyway. Enjoy raising your kids with no father figure in the household though i’m sure as you can recall dating was much easier before when you were single and not a single mom eh?


I’m honestly grateful that my single mom status automatically screens out men like you with your misogynist assumptions....
Anonymous
Not employed but claims to be a gamer, artist, or entrepreneur selling on eBay/online. This is a hobby not a job.

Living in a group home in their 30s.

Uneducated/poor.






Anonymous
Not holding down a single job for more than 2 years ever. Unless high tech industry.
Anonymous
Men that come from sexless marriages that feel that they have to "make up" for all the sex they did not get in their marriage.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Disses his Ex on the first date, if he’s divorced

Doesn’t see much of his kids or isn’t on good terms with them, if he has kids

Doesn’t read

Trumpster

MRA guy

Can’t clean up after himself - BTDT for 20 years

Talks about himself constantly





What is an “MRA Guy”?


Mens’ Rights Activist. See 20:56 and probably some other posts here.
Anonymous
-Men who compare their professional success to mine and try to turn it into a competition. Bye, Felicia.
-Lack of empathy.

A guy told me on the first date that he hated his mother because none of his siblings had the same father. I was stupid enough to go on a second date with him, where I ended up paying the entire bill. Then I ran for the hills.
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