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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Single moms. Especially if they were unmarried and were too stupid to use protection. [/quote]

too stupid to use protection — how do you tell this?  Do you ask? Do they tell?  Do you assume?

I’m a single mom, and I’m sure people are making this assumption about me, but it isn’t true.  I got pregnant while using birth control.  It’s more common than you think.  Did you know that half of all abortion patients were actually using contraception? https://www.guttmacher.org/news-release/2018/about-half-us-abortion-patients-report-using-contraception-month-they-became

Do you expect unmarried women just not to have sex at all?  Or just the ones that aren’t sleeping with you?  Because I was 34 when my contraception failed, and it seems a bit unreasonable to stay a virgin at that age.

Or do you expect all unmarried women who get pregnant to have abortions?  That’s definitely not the message society sends these days.

I decided to have my child.  That’s a personal decision that came after a lot of thought.

What’s a deal-breaker for me is men like you who assume automatically that being a single mom is a result of some kind of slutty stupidity. Actually, it’s a dealbreaker that you even think it’s your privilege to judge me for becoming a single or unmarried mom, especially without knowing any details.

Why bother with people like that poster? I am a single mom by choice and i get some of the same comments.

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