What are your deal breaking red flags?

Anonymous
Mine are:

• No permanent or stable home
• No vehicle
• Never finished high school
• No job or a lousy one (due to his own mistakes in the past)
• Smokes cigarettes
• Does any illicit drugs currently (including marijuana)
• Can socially drink w/out getting out-of-control
• Lack of integrity
• Hates cats
• Is immature + insecure
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Mine are:

• No permanent or stable home
• No vehicle
• Never finished high school
• No job or a lousy one (due to his own mistakes in the past)
• Smokes cigarettes
• Does any illicit drugs currently (including marijuana)
• Can socially drink w/out getting out-of-control
• Lack of integrity
• Hates cats
• Is immature + insecure


Hating cats is a sign of secure maturity.
Anonymous
Spanking me too hard. Playfully is fine. Aggressively, no.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Cellulite


Lol! Well that rules out about 90%+ of women, even model-thin ones. Hopefully you’re into Dudes.


???
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Cellulite


Lol! Well that rules out about 90%+ of women, even model-thin ones. Hopefully you’re into Dudes.


???


My bad. I meant LMAO
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Liberals
Smokers
Lives with mom and dad
Not into sports or fitness
No stable job
Plus all the obvious things like drug use or a criminal record beyond like, a DUI or a bar fight in the distant past.


All of those. I would add no cheating in their past, no promiscuous behavior, responsible with their finances, no involvement with exes, and easy going type.


Just out of curiosity, did you two support Kavanaugh’s nomination to the Supreme Court?
Anonymous
Cheek doesn’t have a pinkish hue.

If put hand in her hair, it’s hard to get it out.
Anonymous
She won’t take it in the back door...
Anonymous
Gym junkie, weird looking hands and a certain type of shoes really turns me off.

It’s conpletely ridiculous and superficial, but if their shoes don’t look right I can’t look at them the same.

And I realize there is plenty about me, men would hate as well. You can’t help what turns you off!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:For me if she has used cocaine more than once that means it is overwhelmingly likely she was having sex with her dealer for drugs


Same thing with lots of tattoos. Women with lots of tattoos are screwing the tattoo artists because it's easier than working for them.
Anonymous
Woman here.

1. A guy who treats waitstaff poorly
2. A guy who is emotionally distant
3. A guy who comes on heavy and leans back playing games

Basically, dating boys who think they are men.
Anonymous
Lying.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Disses his Ex on the first date, if he’s divorced

Doesn’t see much of his kids or isn’t on good terms with them, if he has kids

Doesn’t read

Trumpster

MRA guy

Can’t clean up after himself - BTDT for 20 years

Talks about himself constantly




Curious where do you find heterosexual democrat men?


Usually where educated and decent people congregate is a good place to find heterosexual and homosexual democrat men. They are absent where non-college educated NRA men are gangbanging their underage cousins and daughters...so you will not find them there, that's for sure.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you have a habit of saying the word "like" practically every other word...

So, like, my friend Julie and I, like, we were like at this fundraising event for, like, dogs and, like, animals that, like, were rescued from the hurricane in Florida and, like, there were sooooo many people there and they raised, like, so much money and it was so good to, like, be able to be a part of that because, like, these poor dogs, like, they, like, really need help finding new homes."

Yeah, if that's your everyday speech pattern...



If I was dating you and found out you made this post it would be a deal breaker for me. Not because I am a fan of the word 'like' but because of your over the top obnoxious method of criticizing someone.


Hey PP, I can see you removed all the "like" from your post. It is easy to do this in the written work, but when speaking I get it that people cannot edit it out. Nonetheless, it is very irritating for people who have to hear it.
-DP
Anonymous
Divorced parents or siblings. Divorce is contagious.
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