What are your deal breaking red flags?
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Anonymous
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deal-breakers and red flags are different for me.
Red flags: lying lack of boundaries immaturity snobbery drug/alcohol as a crutch People who look down on people who use anti-depressants or call people who are depressed or have mental health issues "crazies" Deal-breakers: Cruelty to others Lying/cheating Abuse hard drug use Lack of empathy and decency |
Anonymous
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Deal breaker:
Someone who wanted arm candy not a partner Someone uneducated or not interested in things outside of work, home, and anything on any screen Anyone who supports Trump in any way shape or form |
Anonymous
| Untreated ADHD |
Anonymous
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poor communication skills
untruthful, not a straight shooter talker lack of career and financial stability |
Anonymous
| Getting too serious too quickly. |
Anonymous
+1. My XDH is on the market in this area, watch out for this. |
Anonymous
| A dirty house/apartment. I can take messy if its "re set" every once in awhile but dirty is a deal breaker. I remember dating a guy who made good money and worked 45 hours a week (so had time to either clean or had money to get a cleaner) and his house was SO SO gross. He always looked on point and presentable and clean. I couldn't get how different his presentation was compared to his home. Crazy, I thought they usually correlated. |
Anonymous
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Wants me to support him so he can retire early and pursue his dream of making it big in jazz. Wish I were making this up.
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Anonymous
But if he wouldn’t do that for you he’s be horrible right? |
Anonymous
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If you have a habit of saying the word "like" practically every other word...
So, like, my friend Julie and I, like, we were like at this fundraising event for, like, dogs and, like, animals that, like, were rescued from the hurricane in Florida and, like, there were sooooo many people there and they raised, like, so much money and it was so good to, like, be able to be a part of that because, like, these poor dogs, like, they, like, really need help finding new homes." Yeah, if that's your everyday speech pattern... |
Anonymous
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Disses his Ex on the first date, if he’s divorced
Doesn’t see much of his kids or isn’t on good terms with them, if he has kids Doesn’t read Trumpster MRA guy Can’t clean up after himself - BTDT for 20 years Talks about himself constantly |
Anonymous
Curious where do you find heterosexual democrat men? |
Anonymous
Uh, no. I earn six figures, I kept the house without any help from XDH (who even weaseled out of child support and DC’s college tuition) and I plan to keep working. But you keep doing that stupid MRA thing.... |
Anonymous
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Lies about wanting a purely sexual relationship--grow up, learn to communicate what you really want, get fit, develop a few muscles in the right places, and then get back on the market with a NSA online dating profile.
refers to African American women as "ebony"--please stop with the porn addiction. |
Anonymous
Curious why you think you’re witty? |