DH issue, advice please
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Anonymous
| Hey OP. So sorry you are going through this. DH had this issue as well when we were TTC. He never had ED before but he was feeling pressure to perform as he put it. Somehow the speed dud still manage to get in me and I got pregnant. I told him that we need to take a break from trying and have sex for the sake of sex. Since this has lasted for 2.5 years then the pressure is even greater. At the same time though doing an IUI would seem to resolve the issue |
Anonymous
Pressure and stress has this effect on sex performance. Although, I seem to have enjoyed the pressure when DW and I were TTC. E pressure/challenge of getting her prey got me hard and in the mood more often. |
Anonymous
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Op here. I found out that I'm married to someone with a very serious porn addiction and am at a complete loss now.
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Anonymous
Watch it together while you have sex. Problem solved? |
Anonymous
| Please OP, divorce. This will not become better. |
Anonymous
Did this get revealed in the doctor’s office? Did the doctor have any suggestions? |
Anonymous
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So you haven’t had sex for 2.5 yrs and he thinks this is normal? He needs to go talk to someone.
We’re you able to have sex ever? If so, tell him (convince him) that you want to wait awhile before trying. Get ovulation tests and make sure you have no pressure sex during your fertile time. I would be hesitant to do this though bc the way he is acting makes me think he might not want a baby with you after all. |
Anonymous
Can you watch porn with him? Role play? What do you consider a very serious porn addiction? Many men watch porn and masturbate. |
Anonymous
Yeah, what happened here? Did he reveal something during the dr visit? OP, I hope you are not making a diagnosis based on DCUM comments... |
Anonymous
| I think the “porn addiction” is really covering up that he’s gay. |
Anonymous
Just as we suspected. The good news is that this is a treatable condition like other obsessive behaviors -- if he wants help. The fastest route to help would be from a clinical psychologist practicing cognitive behavior therapy, in my opinion. |
Anonymous
Based on what posters said here or on what information? |
Anonymous
None of your business. |
Anonymous
| He’s a porn addict. I would not want to be married to him. Divorce! |
Anonymous
Weird reply based on your first quoted post here. Some people here want to help. |