How did a plain chubby girl snag a hottie?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Something is off. Maybe a 1% chance that it's an amazing love story. Usually when things don't make sense or are completely contrary to human nature then there is a not so uplifting reason. He may be gay and she may be desperate. He may have a fetish. She may have access to money and he's lazy.

I hate to say it, but this. I work with couples (not as a therapist!) and I can literally count on one hand how many couples I’ve seen over the years where a wealthy, gorgeous guy is married to a significantly less attractive woman. The handful of cases I’ve seen usually fall into one of a few categories: the woman has rich parents and guy is a gold digger, or the woman became ill and/or significantly out of shape after the wedding, or the husband kept his hair and aged very well and the wife didn’t keep up (divorces seem more common in this set)... The few cases that can’t be explained I usually assume are due to a fetish or something.

glad you're not a therapist

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This acquaintance of mine is...cute. She’s chubby and not exactly what I’d imagine would turn heads. She does have a fun light adventurous personality though. I saw on social media that she is engaged to this absolute stud. He is tall dark and very handsome with an great body. Like...she’s a 5 and he’s a 10.

My jaw dropped!

Is this a thing?

You’re shallow!

[Anonymous]

Sounds like me and my ex-wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like me and my ex-wife.

Why’d you get together with her? Did you get hot later in life?

[Anonymous]

You've just described the plot of "I Feel Pretty" the new Amy Schumer movie. You don't have to be drop dead model gorgeous, you just need to be confident to snag a hot guy. Looks may come and go, but personality is there even when you're looking your worst.

[Anonymous]

Someone in my family is in an "interfacial" relationship. It's certainly confusing when you see the two of them together, but if you got to know and understand their personalities then you'd see that it evens the odds.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. For what it’s worth, she’s not ugky by any means. She definitely has issues with her weight and probably will not age well but she has a really cute face and a bright smile. Think Melissa McCartney’s face.

Fat girls age way better

[Anonymous]

Who says "stud"?

[Anonymous]

You are so rude. Maybe he loves her? I am a woman, and I don't think that looks matter that much, personality does. Maybe he feels the same. They have great conversations. That's what will last in the long term.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. For what it’s worth, she’s not ugky by any means. She definitely has issues with her weight and probably will not age well but she has a really cute face and a bright smile. Think Melissa McCartney’s face.

Chubby women tend to look younger for longer and age well.

[Anonymous]

Maybe she is a sex kitten in bed. Some women actually do not flaunt their sexy side in public. For example, if you saw me at the park, you would have no idea how much I turn on in private.

[Anonymous]

Chubby girls are like mopeds. Fun to ride but don't want to be seen on one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've found that people who are most concerned about this sort of thing often feel they haven't gotten the type of partner they "deserve". Is that your issue OP?

x100000

Nailed it.

[Anonymous]

Cause she’s a awesome girl
Not a messed up one

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Let's be honest, OP. You're jealous. I have an entire group of friends that basically dropped me once I married a guy who was, they thought, way out of my league. We've married ten years, have two children, and are very happy. Your friend is better than you, and you should just go ahead and drop her now so she doesn't have to deal with you in the future.

+1

You are no friend, OP. You are probably that sketchy type who is scoping out the neighbor's husbands. Guess what? He's not interested. Work on your own life. Does it bother you that your "friend" and her husband are happy? With friends like you, who needs enemies.