How did a plain chubby girl snag a hottie?

[Anonymous]

There have been awesome replies. Where is OP? I hear crickets.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There have been awesome replies. Where is OP? I hear crickets.

Off somewhere trying to update Jessie's Girl as a way to work through the unfairness of it all.

[Anonymous]

I almost married a 10, and I am a 6. DEcided I wanted a more responsible dad for my kids.

Why did he date me? Not sure -- his last girl friend was a 3. But she and I are both genius level mathematicians, so maybe that was his thing. We also had great sexual chemistry.

Guys are a lot of about looks, but some good looking guys have their pick and choose something that would surprise you.

[Anonymous]

OP-you are a bad friend. Perhaps it is her confidence and true sense of self that found true love.

[Anonymous]

How do plain chubby guys snag beautiful women?

[Anonymous]

OP, maybe instead of of focusing on your friends ( though I will use that term lightly since you aren’t much of one) engagement, why not docus on your own life? Maybe then you will get a guy and stop being a bitter b*tch because you don’t have a man.

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Anonymous wrote:Cause she’s a awesome girl
Not a messed up one

+1

Unlike OP!

[Anonymous]

Most guys are overly shallow and hung up on looks. Some guys are not.

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Anonymous wrote:Most guys are overly shallow and hung up on looks. Some guys are not.

There’s a thread on here titled “I get why she’s single”. Women write about their hot single friends who are absolute pain in the asses. This girl wasn’t and she is pretty. Simple.

[Anonymous]

Men to care about looks, it’s number one for most men. What they think I looks good is different. Some
May like a curvier woman and others like the yoga body type. It’s what he thinks is attractive

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Anonymous wrote:Most guys are overly shallow and hung up on looks. Some guys are not.

No matter how hot she or, some guy is tired of putting up with her crap

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know a woman who tricked a man 10 years her junior by getting pregnant (she told everyone that she could never get pregnant).. She looks like an uglier version of Barbara Streisand while he is a 6'2 blond version of younger Enrique Iglesias. No one thought it would develop into a relationship, but it did and they married. He is very charismatic, highly educated and earns about 4 times she does. He is not gay, does not need a green card and definitely not gay.
Things happen in life that do not make sense.

He is also a gigantic azz and a babyman if he is the one telling the world that she "tricked" him into getting her pregnant and made him get married to her. Does he have a brain in that beautiful head of his?

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Anonymous wrote:Hmm, light, adventurous, good personality.

Some of my tall and stunning model-looking friends are the WORST dates. Always criticizing. Amazing to think someone would want something different.

Besides have you seen Hugh Jackman's wife? Get ready you're going to keel over in jealousy. They've been married for 20+ years.

She actually looks pretty good in this picture. Her skin looks better. Or maybe the sunglasses obscure her age.

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Anonymous wrote:This acquaintance of mine is...cute. She’s chubby and not exactly what I’d imagine would turn heads. She does have a fun light adventurous personality though. I saw on social media that she is engaged to this absolute stud. He is tall dark and very handsome with an great body. Like...she’s a 5 and he’s a 10.

My jaw dropped!

Is this a thing?

I think when you first start out in the dating world, physical attraction is THE most powerful influence in who you will consider dating. That goes for both men and women. Ever dated a person that you thought was hot as hell only to stop being attracted to them after you get to know them a little better? It happens.

After you get a little experience under your belt, you begin to truly value personal traits like humor, personal responsibility, reliability, consideration, compatibility. There is something about this pairing that works well for this couple. It goes beyond skin deep.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most guys are overly shallow and hung up on looks. Some guys are not.

No matter how hot she or, some guy is tired of putting up with her crap

+1 I subjected myself to that for way too long. She was just mean, terrible in bed and ruined everything that could have been fun.