How did a plain chubby girl snag a hottie?

Anonymous
This acquaintance of mine is...cute. She’s chubby and not exactly what I’d imagine would turn heads. She does have a fun light adventurous personality though. I saw on social media that she is engaged to this absolute stud. He is tall dark and very handsome with an great body. Like...she’s a 5 and he’s a 10.

My jaw dropped!

Is this a thing?
Anonymous
Why, yes. Some people get engaged for reasons other than looks.
Anonymous
She did black magic on her?
Anonymous
She has what he's looking for, simple as that. Could be her great personality, her ability to accept him, or he prefers her body type.
Is people choosing who they want based on their own personal criteria a thing? Yes, yes it is.
Anonymous
Hmm, light, adventurous, good personality.

Some of my tall and stunning model-looking friends are the WORST dates. Always criticizing. Amazing to think someone would want something different.

Besides have you seen Hugh Jackman's wife? Get ready you're going to keel over in jealousy. They've been married for 20+ years.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Hmm, light, adventurous, good personality.

Some of my tall and stunning model-looking friends are the WORST dates. Always criticizing. Amazing to think someone would want something different.

Besides have you seen Hugh Jackman's wife? Get ready you're going to keel over in jealousy. They've been married for 20+ years.



Op here. The disparity in their looks is definitely similar.

I’m just surprised because every other couple I know the woman is either way more or just as attractive as the man.

Men very rarely date women less physically attractive.But it does happen!
Anonymous
I've found that people who are most concerned about this sort of thing often feel they haven't gotten the type of partner they "deserve". Is that your issue OP?
Anonymous
perhaps he is not vapid and shallow?
Anonymous
She's better than you.
Anonymous
You are not a very good friend; hopefully you don’t pretend to be.
Anonymous
Unusually good looking men care less about looks (their own and their partners') than average looking men.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Hmm, light, adventurous, good personality.

Some of my tall and stunning model-looking friends are the WORST dates. Always criticizing. Amazing to think someone would want something different.

Besides have you seen Hugh Jackman's wife? Get ready you're going to keel over in jealousy. They've been married for 20+ years.



She was young and pretty when they met. She is years older than him though.

https://www.sheknows.com/entertainment/slideshow/6689/things-to-know-about-hugh-jackmans-wife/6
Anonymous
Look at Pierce Brosnan and his wife. Not all men want stick insects.
Anonymous
Some dudes like the curves
Anonymous
My fiance is smart, beautiful, tall, and kind.
I am fat, not as smart, ugly, but I'm told I am very sweet.
We have been together several years and he treats me like a princess.
Some men don't care about looks. He tells me I'm sexy often.
We have a nice life together. He makes a lot of money and I love his family. I'm close with his mother and have a group chat with his family. Some people just click op. Be happy for them.
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