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Anonymous wrote:DD says she will be fine at TJ and fine at her base school. And she will. But underneath I can tell she wants it so badly. Her brother attends, so she knows exactly what she would be signing up for.
Speaking of which, her brother is also profoundly gifted but lazy. I would not push it. TJ cannot be done on just be smart. You need to put in the hours and hours and hours each week. And be self-motivated enough to teach yourself. There are definitely times I regret letting him attend, because I knew it would be an issue. And it is. His grades are just not where they would be if he got the “low hanging fruit”— test corrections, test retakes, extra credit. We spend way too much time arguing about effort and grades, and AP hate that this is the last 4 years before college. He love the schools and is happy there. He really wanted to go. He will not consider dropping back to the base school. I would never, ever, send a kid to TJ who was not enthusiastic about going. And certainly not one who is being honest with you about not wanting the work load.
In the same way, I don’t worry at all about DD if she is accepted. She is very smart, but not super fast intelligence/brilliant like her brother. But she will work, and work and work some more if she goes, and has been fixated for years in an areas of STEM unique to TJ.
Her brother says that TJ admissions is fatally flawed if he gets in and she does not, because she is exactly the kid who would thrive at TJ.
Good luck to every kid with fingers crossed today.
Hope she made it in. My DS is still saying no way and for some of the reasons you outlined above, we may not try and push Him to go. Although, I think he is the type of kid TJ was intended for. Profoundly gifted with a real science and math aptitude. No test prep at all and still did very well on entrance exam.