Anyone Have a Teenaged Son Unhappy He's Not Circumcised?

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Uncircumcised...

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I have three adults son. I am positive this is a troll trying to start a fight. What teenage boy is having a detailed conversation with him mom about his penis? Didn't happen.

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No, both are fine as is.

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Anonymous wrote:Nope. Sixteen year old son is perfectly fine being uncircumcised.

Mine was too at 16.

I have a teanage boy and I HIGHLY doubt he is discussing his contentment with his penis with you, his mom.

In fact, I am going to go out on a limb and say there is no way in hell your teenage boy has told you he is glad he is not circumcised.

OP here-You're wrong. The end.

Was not questioning you OP.

I can see your scenario "Mommmm! Why didn't you xyz?!? I look like a freak!" (Stomp off, slam door)

There is no way anyone's teen boy is going around telling mom "I've been looking at my buddies' man parts and I am so happy that you did not circumcize me. I really think it looks and feels better. Thanks mom!"

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Anonymous wrote:Tell him sex will feel even better because he's uncircumcised. That ought to do it.

Yes, but good luck getting sex. Circ guys get more sex and BJs.

I think that if a mom told her teen boy this, he would be grossed out for a very long time.

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I had it done when I was 17. Even though it was medically necessary, I wanted it done anyway. And, yes, I had no problems talking to my mom about it.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes. If all their friends are cut (or more importantly, if their girlfriend is squicked out). DH told his teenaged son "we can go and get it done. The scalpels are sharp and waiting for you". he didn't do anything. He's in his late 20s now and judging by the tiny bit I know about his dating life he's not having any problems.

Like any body thing that might be different (like a big birthmark) kids are going to feel weird about it. No one wants to be different.

I'd explain to him that it used to be standard operating procedure in the US only but it's going out of favor. (Show him statistics). So their are plenty of other guys out there. Also may want to mention that when erect it's very difficult if not impossible to tell the difference between circumcised and not.

Thanks; I've gone over all the stats and why we made that decision. I also told him that any girl who won't have sex with him because of that isn't worth his time, but of course at 17, his main mission in life since he's committed to a college is losing his virginity. I think it will also help when he goes away to college where he may not be one of the only young men not cut.

Wow. This is how you discuss sexual morals with your son?

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Anonymous wrote:Nope. Sixteen year old son is perfectly fine being uncircumcised.

Mine was too at 16.

I have a teanage boy and I HIGHLY doubt he is discussing his contentment with his penis with you, his mom.

In fact, I am going to go out on a limb and say there is no way in hell your teenage boy has told you he is glad he is not circumcised.

I have 2 teenage boys, one circ'ed and one not. Neither of them has ever complained to me about how his penis looks.

Did they care that their penises were different from each others?

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Anonymous wrote:My 17 year old son is unhappy because we didn't have him circumcised as an infant and thinks his genitalia is ugly." Anyone else deal with this?

Easy peasy.

Castrate hum.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes. If all their friends are cut (or more importantly, if their girlfriend is squicked out). DH told his teenaged son "we can go and get it done. The scalpels are sharp and waiting for you". he didn't do anything. He's in his late 20s now and judging by the tiny bit I know about his dating life he's not having any problems.

Like any body thing that might be different (like a big birthmark) kids are going to feel weird about it. No one wants to be different.

I'd explain to him that it used to be standard operating procedure in the US only but it's going out of favor. (Show him statistics). So their are plenty of other guys out there. Also may want to mention that when erect it's very difficult if not impossible to tell the difference between circumcised and not.

Thanks; I've gone over all the stats and why we made that decision. I also told him that any girl who won't have sex with him because of that isn't worth his time, but of course at 17, his main mission in life since he's committed to a college is losing his virginity. I think it will also help when he goes away to college where he may not be one of the only young men not cut.

Wow. This is how you discuss sexual morals with your son?

Wow, do you always make judgments when you have very little information?

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Anonymous wrote:Uncircumcised...

Unhelpful...

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My son who is a Type 1 Diabetic wishes that I had had him circumcised, because he gets yeast infections. He's an adult, but he was diagnosed when he was 12. I could not have known that he would be diagnosed with diabetes, because we have none in our family history on either side.

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Anonymous wrote:No, mine thank me all the time for not circumsizing. The are appalled at the friends who are circumsized.
We live in Canada and over half of kids are not circ.

Yeah, but...Canada.

Canada has one year mat leaves and free Health care. We just don't spend a single much on military. We don't need to.....we get along with the world.
Canada is amazing. Did I mention going to the ER, doctor, surgery with no regard to any craziness like copays....

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Anonymous wrote:No, mine thank me all the time for not circumsizing. The are appalled at the friends who are circumsized.
We live in Canada and over half of kids are not circ.

Your sons do not thank you all the time for this. What a dumb thing to say.

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Anonymous wrote:No, mine thank me all the time for not circumsizing. The are appalled at the friends who are circumsized.
We live in Canada and over half of kids are not circ.

Your sons do not thank you all the time for this. What a dumb thing to say.

I promise they do. When the saw found out their cousins were circumcised, they were horrified. They did thank us for not doing that to them.
I'm not vehemently against it, my DH is circumcised. But we didn't care that much either way so we didn't do it.