Pp, welcome to my world. These are the type of parents I'm so lucky to have to share the sidelines with. One dude actually put a fake cast on his kid to get a second look. I get to hear comments like 'our family has a tradition of red team players"??. I think that's actually called nepotism. These fuckers will take any angle they can to work their kid a top spot. Don't get me started on "offsides dad". He has no idea what it is, but screams it at in opportune times. Of course, those are the parents that know jack-shit about the sport and didn't play beyond JV HS soccer. Fun times. |
| You can't teach raw speed, but you can teach the Maradona. And a kid who shows up at U-9 tryouts knowing a bunch of moves doesn't prove that they love soccer - it usually only proves that their parent(s) loves soccer. The best way to make ASA travel is to be involved in the organization - coach a rec team, volunteer for a board, play in an adult soccer league, chat up the coaches. Sometimes it's not what you know, it's who you know. |
PP, I always love the "this kid would dominate" stories. A lot happens from U9-U14 and many of those athletes simply don't improve much over time because early on they simply don't work on their footskills. Then, later when the speed is neutralized they cant receive a pass or keep a pass on the ground.
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Sure sounds like you're getting worked up. Why else would you be such a jerk about a little kid with natural athletic ability? Yes, the girl is extremely dedicated to her primary sports. She practices many hours per week for those. She is very passionate and dedicated to those sports. Soccer is just for fun with her friends. She might not even play after this season - sounds like she wants to give LAX a try next for fun. She enjoys using her body and is very good at it. Why does that bother you so much? ANYWAY, my own kid is fairly athletic, but not a natural like her so she works hard because she loves soccer and would love to be on travel. We have done pre-academy/academy/festivals/camps. We shall see. |
Got that wrong there, buddy. Our kids have been playing pick up soccer on a patch of turf with kids that barely speak English and they love it and beg me to drive them there every night only practice gets in the way. They not only picked up those moves, they made up a few of their own. 2 of the best players on our rec team live in the apartments behind that field and are out there every night. That's how you learn soccer. Don't assume they were trained that way. We took ours for more training after they learned that in their own and were eager for more. |
So glad that we're not over on the boys side. Sounds like a whole bunch of a-holes. ^^^^^ |
What?!?!!?!?!??!?!?!? "And a kid who shows up at U-9 tryouts knowing a bunch of moves doesn't prove that they love soccer" Let me repeat this one more time: "And a kid who shows up at U-9 tryouts knowing a bunch of moves doesn't prove that they love soccer" It proves that the kid has spent hours upon hours of time developing skills that are relevant to the game. It proves that the kid is ready to learn the game and would benefit most by being around players of similar caliber. It proves that a coach can spend time teaching actual soccer that relies on passing and possession. It proves that with the technical training provided at practice, the kid will likely continue to work on their own away from the game. It proves that the parents are knowledgeable about the game and understand what a good fundamental foundation a player needs to achieve success. Those qualities, like raw speed, are also things that you cannot teach and down the road, when everyone is fast, actual skill is the difference maker. |
BACK-ASSWARD, indeed!!! This is why we are outie. Again, an evaluator was actually chastising kids for doing moves during scrimmages. Why bother scrimmaging? Just take these kids to W-L track and do timed sprints. Tryouts over. Boom. |
So which club are you at or headed to? I need to find sane people. |
Completely opposite for girls. They were encouraging them to do some moves. |
And make sure it doesn't have 'elite' in its name or play in an 'elite league' or all these assholes will follow us over there?. |
LOL! If there was a PM option I would tell you.
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I love you. |
I'm not being a jerk about a little kid, I'm simply laughing at the adult that thinks a kid dominating some seven or eight year olds on a soccer field due to size and speed as being any kind of predictor of how good a soccer player the kid could be. I also think that coaches, who form similar baseless opinions on kids at eight years old are similarily short sighted and laughable. I mean, seriously, barely over a year ago many of those same kids that she is "dominating" could barely tie their shoes. Did it ever occur to you that she is simply older than many of those same kids? That by the good fortune of being up to a year older she simply has the motor skills, size and speed of kid who is nothing more than more mature? Because that is what real coaches do at this age at tryouts, they base kids talent on nothing more than size and speed that has more to do with simple maturity than it has anything to do with "raw athleticism" or future talent. But go ahead, and talk of her as being amazing, and perhaps she is, or perhaps she is nothing more than twelve months older than many of the little girls on the field. |
I'm just telling you my experience with travel soccer. Most of the kids who came into u9 already knowing moves had learned them from overly-involved, soccer-obsessed parents. And, yes, many of these kids made the top teams. But, now, at u14, most of them are no longer playing travel soccer, or are on the lower teams. Why? Lost interest, injuries, pursued other sports, not smart players. And which kids are on the top teams? Some are the fastest, but not necessarily the biggest. Some are quieter kids who over the years have shown themselves to be coachable and smart, and who have developed of a love of the game. Those kids were never the fastest or had the best moves, so they had to learn how to read the game, to anticipate, become smarter to do well on the field. Out of the 16 kids on our top team, only 2 have been on that team since u9 - and, yes, they've always been very skillful players - one's a coach's kid. |