| You guys need to find a new club. Not every club thinks/acts this way in regard to skill vs size. |
| With the multiple tryout dates for an age group, is one expected to attend all of them or just 1? |
YES!!! That club is known for not identifying skill. Can somebody name a star that actually came out if that Club? It's been around as long as the other MD, VA clubs. We had the same problem. Go to tryouts at other clubs. It's eye-opening. They aren't scrimmage only formats. |
Yes, you should attend all of them. |
Agree. Our club does love physical speed (and athleticism generally), but skill is first. They could not care less about size. Also, this thread highlights why it is better to do advance research on what sort of club or team you think your child would like and arrange to practice with the team well before tryouts. Keep in mind for next year that winter is a great time to do this. |
| The current Arlington U9 team is tiny, we played them and they are fast and skilled. Don't think they select based on size from what I saw. |
I'm LMAOF about this thread of little boys knocking the crap out of each other. OF COURSE, it's almost 8pm at f-cking night after a full weekend day of other sports. Anybody that is raising all sons know what happens when it is close to bedtime and they are cranky---they are other hyperstimulated or beating the crap out of one another. Just not cool making 7-8 year olds tryout at 6:45-8:15pm. |
This is true for the girls - many of the best players are super fast, a mix of heights. |
I would have rather my kid was punching people ...ha! He was so tired by Sunday night, we contemplated giving him an Espresso before heading over. Got home from tryouts at 8:25pm on a school night...everyone in bed almost an hour after the normal bed time--which is usually 8:20pm. |
I can understand why they might try to push the athletic kids. One girl we know is a super athlete - anything she tries she does really well. She decided to give soccer a try this season just for fun to be with her friends and even though she's never played before she was by far the best player. Just a natural with her body. Anyway, nobody is pushing her into soccer because she has true passions in other sports, but I can see why someone might try. She was amazing without even trying. (my own DD isn't a natural, but LOVES it and works hard to develop skills) |
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LOL amazing without even trying. I just threw up in my mouth a little. Sure at 9 she looks amazing, but the dedication it takes to develop the footskills is where these "super athletic" kids get passed by later on. There is only so much that is "natural" about developing that if athleticism alone is relied upon then they just wasted time and resources. That is the problem, smallish kids with the skills get pushed down and are not given access to the coaching while "athletes" are handed self-filling prophesies because coaches make the same stupid choices every year. |
Thanks for expressing what I was just feeling . Let's be honest too--the girls have about 1/2 the number of players showing up at tryouts as the boys do--but the same number of teams. It's a lot less competitive.
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Well this girl is not doing Academy and definitely not trying out for travel soccer so no need to get worked up. She is great though. If she ever became interested and did ever develop skills she would be one of the best in ASA. She is all-in for another sport though and very invested in another. So save your bile for another day. The kids who are at Academy and going to the festivals *are* getting access. And they are very focused on skills. At least on the girl's side. Are you sure your kid is performing at Academy? Some boys seem very disinterested/disengaged. One of the coaches seems like a a-hole though so maybe that's why. |
Not at your club and not worked up. Claiming if "she did ever develop her skills she would be one of the best in ASA" lol! Well, that dedication to those skills is kinda the key. So since she isn't going to the speculation game is pointless. Dominating some 7 and 8 year old girls with size and speed is adorable though. Did you tell her parents she is throwing away her Women's National Team spot? |