DCUM DWs -- what is your BMI?

[Anonymous]

25.1

Here is my problem... I just lost 10 lbs and my bra size went from a D to a full C, I am fine with that.

I would like to lose 10 more because it seems a healthier weight, but my boobs don't look good smaller .. They start to sag and my butt gets flatter and I don't like that look.

So I have little incentive to lose weight... Flat boobs and butt, flatter stomach.

Obviously I think about it.

When my H was younger he cared, now he is more evolved and he does not care... Or maybe he just like D boobs... Idk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is your BMI <25? Do the DWs care? Do the DHs care?

27 point something. It's not a huge issue for me so I think it isn't a huge issue for him or vice versa. I gained 6 lbs in the last two weeks and it peeves me a bit, but I can account for every calorie that got me there. I'm having a period of sloth due to an injury, but didn't adjust my eating. Also, my preteen is learning to cook so our diet has been carb heavy the past few weeks. I'll shed the weight soon based on past yo-yoing and it hasn't impacted our intimacy.

[Anonymous]

20. I'm 43 with two kids. DH liked me with more meat on my bones, but I prefer this weight.

[Anonymous]

32

DH is super hot, too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:17.5.

You need a sammich

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:
Wow!! That's some major progress there!! Good for you, I'm seriously impressed.

Thank you. It sucks that I even let it get to a place where that kind of progress is possible, but that's my reality -- and I know there's someone else reading who is there too and needs encouragement. It's painful to be there, and it's also in some ways painful to have success losing weight, because you have so many regrets and beat yourself up about it and worry about keeping it off.

The biggest difference maker for me this time has been actually being kind to myself. I thought I could bully myself into losing weight, I just needed to work harder, and the more shame I heaped upon myself the more I'd want to work harder. Not really. That's probably one of the reasons I made myself post... avoiding shame and hating myself has been key to staying on track. It has really changed my perspective about how motivation works.

Congrats! I'm proud of you and I don't even know you It's a lot of hard work and you should be celebrating your accomplishments. And don't beat yourself up if you have some slip ups along the way. It's hard to do what you're doing. Great job! You've come a long way. I hope your DH is excited about your healthy changes too.

+1

[Anonymous]

19

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

35. DH doesn't care (but is pretty thin himself). I work out and we live our lives. That includes jogging and wine and steaks. I'm very healthy from all other measurements (BP/cholesterol etc).

I'd like to be less but not enough to dramatically reduce the quality of my life. When I get too focused on my weight it takes me to a bad mental place.

[Anonymous]

22 or 23. Prefer 20. Everything just feels better. I carry my weight in my legs and that's the last place it falls off. So I probably look thinner to people until they see my lower
legs

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:25.1

Here is my problem... I just lost 10 lbs and my bra size went from a D to a full C, I am fine with that.

I would like to lose 10 more because it seems a healthier weight, but my boobs don't look good smaller .. They start to sag and my butt gets flatter and I don't like that look.

So I have little incentive to lose weight... Flat boobs and butt, flatter stomach.

Obviously I think about it.

When my H was younger he cared, now he is more evolved and he does not care... Or maybe he just like D boobs... Idk.

You need some squats for that booty.

[Anonymous]

18. always been like this since high school (except when pregnant). don't know if DH cares but I've always been this way so I assume he likes it. don't think he'd care if I gained some weight.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:25.1

Here is my problem... I just lost 10 lbs and my bra size went from a D to a full C, I am fine with that.

I would like to lose 10 more because it seems a healthier weight, but my boobs don't look good smaller .. They start to sag and my butt gets flatter and I don't like that look.

So I have little incentive to lose weight... Flat boobs and butt, flatter stomach.

Obviously I think about it.

When my H was younger he cared, now he is more evolved and he does not care... Or maybe he just like D boobs... Idk.

You need some squats for that booty.

No I don't. I am muscular ... Flat muscles are less attractive.

[Anonymous]

Am between 18-19 most of the time except when I was pregnant and when I was younger I was closer to 15 BMI which was way too thin for my frame. I am small boned and feel good at this number. I have never had boobs or a butt and sometimes wonder if DH would prefer I had a few curves. Considering I have always been right around this, my guess is no.

[Anonymous]

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