Would you date a man with three different "baby mamas"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. Not with that close spacing. If the kids were 22, 15, and 8, maybe.

+1. He had 3 mo old babies and was running off with other women. Twice.

But if they were spread out that would be 14 years of bad decisions, bad behavior and unsafe sex. At least with their current ages he could've been acting like an idiot for only a couple years at best/worst.

I wouldn't go for this situation. I'd also be waiting for the fourth fifth sixth et cetera babies and mamas to come out of the woodwork.

[Anonymous]

No way.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't, not at 25. There are wayyyy too many single with no kids dudes out there. And three kids by three different women at 31 is doing too much. Was he married to any of them?

[Anonymous]

It depends on the culture. I would not, though.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't touch that with a 10 foot pole. You can date him, but don't marry him, and don't get empregnated by him. If he says his kids made him a better person, he was a bad person before that. So, no, I wouldn't want a bad person. On the other hand, three women thought he was decent enough to sleep with, so he's got that seal of approval.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So I met a guy recently and we hit it off. I'm 25, no children, and he's 31 and has three children ages 11, 12, and 13 from 3 different moms. I don't necesarily have a problem with it but it's got me thinking. He said he's made a lot of mistakes but he loves his kids and they have made him a better person. I think my parents would be very disappointed. What are your thoughts?

WTF? You can't be serious. Not at 25. You know those women overlap, right? No. No. No. No. No.

[Anonymous]

Hell no you are wayyy too young with too many options!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. Not with that close spacing. If the kids were 22, 15, and 8, maybe.

+1. He had 3 mo old babies and was running off with other women. Twice.

But if they were spread out that would be 14 years of bad decisions, bad behavior and unsafe sex. At least with their current ages he could've been acting like an idiot for only a couple years at best/worst.

I wouldn't go for this situation. I'd also be waiting for the fourth fifth sixth et cetera babies and mamas to come out of the woodwork.

Not necessarily. He could have had a whoops! As a knucklehead 18 year old, then has a ring-hungry gf try to trick him into marriage at 25. The baby at 32 might have been planned with a gf who was worried about her fertility waning.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely not!

Come on! there are plenty of other guys to choose from across the DMV!

DTMFA!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It depends on the culture. I would not, though.

What "culture" that you know of justifies this type of selfish, irresponsible behavior?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. Not with that close spacing. If the kids were 22, 15, and 8, maybe.

+1. He had 3 mo old babies and was running off with other women. Twice.

But if they were spread out that would be 14 years of bad decisions, bad behavior and unsafe sex. At least with their current ages he could've been acting like an idiot for only a couple years at best/worst.

I wouldn't go for this situation. I'd also be waiting for the fourth fifth sixth et cetera babies and mamas to come out of the woodwork.

Not necessarily. He could have had a whoops! As a knucklehead 18 year old, then has a ring-hungry gf try to trick him into marriage at 25. The baby at 32 might have been planned with a gf who was worried about her fertility waning.

Right, that is the most likely scenario.

[Anonymous]

Of course not. WTH is wrong with him? He couldn't learn to wrap it up after baby mama #1??? That man needs a vasectomy. And you need a lobotomy for even considering this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. Not with that close spacing. If the kids were 22, 15, and 8, maybe.

+1. He had 3 mo old babies and was running off with other women. Twice.

But if they were spread out that would be 14 years of bad decisions, bad behavior and unsafe sex. At least with their current ages he could've been acting like an idiot for only a couple years at best/worst.

I wouldn't go for this situation. I'd also be waiting for the fourth fifth sixth et cetera babies and mamas to come out of the woodwork.

Not necessarily. He could have had a whoops! As a knucklehead 18 year old, then has a ring-hungry gf try to trick him into marriage at 25. The baby at 32 might have been planned with a gf who was worried about her fertility waning.

Doesn't matter. He's an idiot for leaving sperm where a baby can grow after it happened the first time.
I wouldn't date a person who bought a house with three different people they weren't married to either. It's not a mistake; you aren't tricked or fooled into it. It's called being dumb, dumb, dumb.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. Not with that close spacing. If the kids were 22, 15, and 8, maybe.

+1. He had 3 mo old babies and was running off with other women. Twice.

But if they were spread out that would be 14 years of bad decisions, bad behavior and unsafe sex. At least with their current ages he could've been acting like an idiot for only a couple years at best/worst.

I wouldn't go for this situation. I'd also be waiting for the fourth fifth sixth et cetera babies and mamas to come out of the woodwork.

Not necessarily. He could have had a whoops! As a knucklehead 18 year old, then has a ring-hungry gf try to trick him into marriage at 25. The baby at 32 might have been planned with a gf who was worried about her fertility waning.

Where are you getting those ages? He knocked up 3 different women when he was 18, 19 and 20. Stay away from him. As others said you are 25 and there are better fish in the sea for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It depends on the culture. I would not, though.

What "culture" that you know of justifies this type of selfish, irresponsible behavior?

+1! That's a culture you want to avoid. Thank god you live here OP and date anyone else!