I agree with this. My kid was very average in a good elementary school. She is the rock star in a bad middle school. Her cousin goes to the same grade, but different school. After my daughter came home with straight A's I quizzed her based on the level of work her cousin is doing. She failed miserably. I set up a meeting with her teacher and they couldn't explain why she didn't do well with "my quiz". They were adamant that they were teaching the same curriculum and that she was performing well. I told them I don't want her measured against her peers. I didn't get very far but I now we are forced to consider private school. Seems like there are other kids in the same boat as her. I really wish they would separate the good kids from the bad and actually follow the curriculum. Not to mention, she comes homes EVERYDAY and talks about fights and disruptions. Every single day.
I think the issue here is that most of the kids come from low income housing developments with very unengaged parents. I Have a friend whose child attends a high FARMS school that is mostly Hispanic and things are much better there. Parents may not have a lot of time to help their kids, but they do value education and won't tolerate acting up in school. |
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OP here..
WOW I was not expecting so many replies. I was able to see both the pros and cons by reading your replies...thanks! I can see how being in a high FARMS school can effect students negatively in the lower grades but how about in the upper grades...high school for instance? In high school students at a high FARMS school can take more AP and honors courses. I would assume most of the kids taking AP classes are serious students who are looking forward to going to college. Wouldnt this give them a better classroom environment? How would such a school impact these students negatively? I am looking to take my DC out of their base school (which is a high performing school) and into a low performing high school for the purpose of being around a more diverse group of people. Im afraid that DC will stick out like a sore thumb at their base school and might not be able to find a way to fit in. |
Was this Fairfax county? |
High FARMS does not translate to getting Title 1 resources. I mentioned earlier that my child is getting great grades. Yes, she is outperforming her classmates, but she is NOT learning the curriculum for her grade level. She is being held back because the majority of her classmates son't give a shit about learning and do NOT want to be in class. And reporting at east one fight a day??? I count that as countless episodes of disruptive behavior. Why don't you take a field trip to Briggs Chaney Middle School and come back and report on your experience. |
As long as the school isn't having a problem with gangs and violence it think it is better in HS. AP and honors course work keep the motivated students on track. I think it's harder in an elementary environment for the reasons stated up thread. |
More than FARMS, I think the bolded is very important. If the school was a high FARMS school and predominately white, then if you are white, you wouldn't stick out as much. Children adapt and most will make friends wherever they are. But, some kids do have a lower tolerance for being able to adapt, and in later years, the differences become much more pronounced. My kids are biracial. They used to go to a school that was majority white. My one DC would make comments about how DC wanted yellow hair because all of Dc's BFFs were blond. The few Hispanic kids there were lower SES. I didn't want my kids to associate Hispanic with poverty. We moved to a much more diverse school, both SES and ethnicity. |
I'm not sure I understand your plan, OP. In HS, the students self-segregate, as someone upthread said, a school within a school. So if you want to move from a high performing school to a low performing school purely as a social experiment, it won't work. |
Op here. This is exactly what's going on with my DC.....feeling different because all the kids are lighter and DC claims to have the darkest hair in the school and the darkest skin. |
I want DC to feel comfortable. DC feels different from everyone else. No doubt DC would be able to find a social group at the high performing school but that won't take away from DC feeling different from everyone else. |
My own school experience was not in Virginia. Our experience with a Title 1 school was in Fairfax county. |
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High Schools 50%+ White
Madison Langley McLean Robinson West Springfield Woodson Oakton Marshall Lake Braddock High Schools 40%+ White South County Chantilly South Lakes Westfield Fairfax High Schools 30%+ White Centreville West Potomac Herndon Hayfield High Schools 20%+ White Edison Stuart Falls Church Mount Vernon High Schools <20% White Lee Annandale
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You're citing to Fairfax Underground? An actual cite would include an actual link, not an image. And are you somehow equating White with FARMs? Or is this just a random post? |
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To the poster who thinks the teacher makes the difference:
Thanks so much for joining the ranks of idiots who feel teachers are responsible and accountable for all of society's ills by being the "better teacher." I rather doubt you are a teacher or that you actually teach in a high poverty school. In fact, I will call you out as a liar. Behavior issues everywhere? Yes! However it is the difference between silliness, hyperactivity, and gang fights. Maryland, and all counties and Md have revised their discipline policies to such an extent that few kids are ever disciplined and they can really take over a class. Kids from poverty GENERALLY, but certainly NOT ALL, have low engagement because of issues that are comorbid with poverty- abuse, poor nutrition, negligence, health issues, and lack of parent involvement. This is not always because parents do not want to be involved- they can't- they are working, they are embarrassed,they do not speak the language, they have low literacy, they cannot afford technology, they are depressed, they don't have enough food, they don't have a fucking car, they have poor parental models themselves, they were 14 when they had the child and someone is still raising them and all of the other kids they've had since then, they are in and out of the prison system, they are on drugs, they are fired or lose their jobs frequently, they have a cell phone they cannot pay for all the time, they have to keep moving because they are in HUD housing, they need a cigarette and that will ALWAYS trump breakfast in the house, there is a cadre of " uncles" in and out of the house ( and they are not uncles...). Kids in poverty have been raising themselves since they were able to walk. Life is generally on their terms. Following rules in a school rarely enter their world view- it's all about survival to them..every damn minute of the day. So take your middle class values and find another occupation to trash and blame, but a parent does need to understand that a high poverty school does not always mean that their child will learn to get along with the whole world- the reality is that so many ancillary resources are spent in dealing with emotional and behavioral issues that the curriculum very well takes a back seat. Any teacher in a high FARMS school will tell you this. It is rewarding on many levels, but it is an exhausting and perilous job- and teachers are increasingly held accountable for what they cannot control. |
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Alleluia! Parents are the key to success. Many low income kids have parents that DO care. Those kids will be successful. However, many more parents in low income don't care and those kids, sadly, will not succeed. It's parents, not FARMS and not teachers, that determines success.
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.... Sure but FARMS percentages is one gauge for telling you what kind of parental situation you are dealing with. Somewhat. The above previous post is true probably for some areas. I have to say I live around a very large Ethiopian and el salvadorian immigrant population. Primarily 2 parent homes. The kids are clean and fed ( many using assistance, but I think/hope using it successfully). Language is a definite barrier. Lack of formal parental education is a barrier. There is a fundamental difference though, when the parents are invested. Which seems to be the case with my neighbors. It still makes me nervous sending DC to the local school in a couple of years. I wonder if all of the energy on esol will mean my kid isn't getting what they need. |