Cousin won't come to my wedding because it's a "sin"

[Anonymous]

I think you should not go to her wedding and send a card that says you wish her the best but no gift.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Normally I wouldn't support you not going just because she's not going to yours. But given her reasoning, you have every right to not give it a second thought. You don't need to celebrate someone who thinks their love is more real or important or valid than yours.

It's not OP's "love" the cousin is disputing. It's the marriage. Big difference.

No there isn't. The cousin is saying that her love is worthy of being sanctioned by God and the state, while the OP's isn't. Really, these people aren't Christians; that's a religion of love. People like the OP's cousin are about control, judgment, and exclusion. They feel superior by deciding that certain types of people are inferior.

And how, exactly, do you know how these people "feel?" Are you now in charge of their feelings, too, along with their thoughts and their word choice that is acceptable?

Christianity may be -- and is -- a religion of love, but it is also a religion that commands adherence to the Word of God. That Word is very clear that gay marriage is a sin.

[Anonymous]

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Christianity may be -- and is -- a religion of love, but it is also a religion that commands adherence to the Word of God. That Word is very clear that gay marriage is a sin.

I'm a Christian and my religion allows gay marriage. It also allows female leadership and abhors slavery. Your SECT may believe that homosexuality is a sin and doesn't allow women to hold leadership positions but Christianity certainly allows it.

[Anonymous]

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Christianity may be -- and is -- a religion of love, but it is also a religion that commands adherence to the Word of God. That Word is very clear that gay marriage is a sin.

I'm a Christian and my religion allows gay marriage. It also allows female leadership and abhors slavery. Your SECT may believe that homosexuality is a sin and doesn't allow women to hold leadership positions but Christianity certainly allows it.

True Christianity follows the Bible and the Bible forbids homosexual marriage. That your church or your "sect" allows it, and still calls itself Christian, is problematic. You have deviated from the word of God.

[Anonymous]

Don't go to her wedding. If it was me, if probably drop her from my life.

[Anonymous]

True Christianity follows the Bible and the Bible forbids homosexual marriage. That your church or your "sect" allows it, and still calls itself Christian, is problematic. You have deviated from the word of God.

Problematic for whom? And, why would it be problematic? Does it diminish your faith?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She doesn't go to yours, and you don't go to hers. Problem solved. No drama. You just don't go.

+1

[Anonymous]

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Christianity may be -- and is -- a religion of love, but it is also a religion that commands adherence to the Word of God. That Word is very clear that gay marriage is a sin.

I'm a Christian and my religion allows gay marriage. It also allows female leadership and abhors slavery. Your SECT may believe that homosexuality is a sin and doesn't allow women to hold leadership positions but Christianity certainly allows it.

True Christianity follows the Bible and the Bible forbids homosexual marriage. That your church or your "sect" allows it, and still calls itself Christian, is problematic. You have deviated from the word of God.

OMG. Since when does your religion have the monopoly on the truth??? Who the heck are you to think that you are "more Christian" than another? That, my friend, is passing judgement. Maybe your Christ is ok with that, but the true Christians' Chirst is not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Suck it up and go to her wedding with your partner. Have long slow dances on the dance floor. Don't be too obnoxious with the PDA but you can photo bomb a few shots with the happy couple.

This is childish and obnoxious. Don't do this.

[Anonymous]

I would want to go to her wedding and gay it up with my partner. But if she didn't invite your partner I wouldn't bother with her wedding at all.

[Anonymous]

As least you asked . My brother married his husband and only invited gays to his wedding, I bought a dress in anticipation!

Talk about discrimination and our family was supportive!

[Anonymous]

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Christianity may be -- and is -- a religion of love, but it is also a religion that commands adherence to the Word of God. That Word is very clear that gay marriage is a sin.

I'm a Christian and my religion allows gay marriage. It also allows female leadership and abhors slavery. Your SECT may believe that homosexuality is a sin and doesn't allow women to hold leadership positions but Christianity certainly allows it.

True Christianity follows the Bible and the Bible forbids homosexual marriage. That your church or your "sect" allows it, and still calls itself Christian, is problematic. You have deviated from the word of God.

OMG. Since when does your religion have the monopoly on the truth??? Who the heck are you to think that you are "more Christian" than another? That, my friend, is passing judgement. Maybe your Christ is ok with that, but the true Christians' Chirst is not.

I can read. If you can too, read the Bible. It's all there. That you don't like what it says, I can't help.

[Anonymous]

Her wedding will probably be totally boring anyway.

[Anonymous]

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Christianity may be -- and is -- a religion of love, but it is also a religion that commands adherence to the Word of God. That Word is very clear that gay marriage is a sin.

I'm a Christian and my religion allows gay marriage. It also allows female leadership and abhors slavery. Your SECT may believe that homosexuality is a sin and doesn't allow women to hold leadership positions but Christianity certainly allows it.

True Christianity follows the Bible and the Bible forbids homosexual marriage. That your church or your "sect" allows it, and still calls itself Christian, is problematic. You have deviated from the word of God.

OMG. Since when does your religion have the monopoly on the truth??? Who the heck are you to think that you are "more Christian" than another? That, my friend, is passing judgement. Maybe your Christ is ok with that, but the true Christians' Chirst is not.

I can read. If you can too, read the Bible. It's all there. That you don't like what it says, I can't help.

Do you eat shellfish? Cut your hair? Wear mixed fibers? Ever thrown around a football?

[Anonymous]

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Christianity may be -- and is -- a religion of love, but it is also a religion that commands adherence to the Word of God. That Word is very clear that gay marriage is a sin.

I'm a Christian and my religion allows gay marriage. It also allows female leadership and abhors slavery. Your SECT may believe that homosexuality is a sin and doesn't allow women to hold leadership positions but Christianity certainly allows it.

True Christianity follows the Bible and the Bible forbids homosexual marriage. That your church or your "sect" allows it, and still calls itself Christian, is problematic. You have deviated from the word of God.

OMG. Since when does your religion have the monopoly on the truth??? Who the heck are you to think that you are "more Christian" than another? That, my friend, is passing judgement. Maybe your Christ is ok with that, but the true Christians' Chirst is not.

I can read. If you can too, read the Bible. It's all there. That you don't like what it says, I can't help.

Do you eat shellfish? Cut your hair? Wear mixed fibers? Ever thrown around a football?

Please, not that argument again. Yes, I do, but I am not Jewish.