A thread for ugly women

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Anonymous wrote:What do you feel makes you ugly, pp?

Cut the crap. This isn't rocket science; we all know what is ugly and what is pretty. This thread doesn't have to turn into some condescending counseling session so the pretties can pretend to feel good about themselves.

I'm pretty average looking. I think very few people are truly ugly and am wondering what makes people define themselves that way.

Freckles

No way. My mom is a pale freckled redhead with blue green eyes. A stunner. My daughter looks like she will be the same.

Wait, not to derail, but I thought everyone knows Gingers are nuts (not in a good way)?

Only in the UK. Here they are celebrated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am ugly, too tall and too heavy. I married at age 35 to the only man who ever asked me out and who is even uglier than I am. We have had a great life, and I can almost read people's minds when they see us together: thank God they found each other.

Typical Walmart couple.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What do you feel makes you ugly, pp?

Cut the crap. This isn't rocket science; we all know what is ugly and what is pretty. This thread doesn't have to turn into some condescending counseling session so the pretties can pretend to feel good about themselves.

I'm pretty average looking. I think very few people are truly ugly and am wondering what makes people define themselves that way.

Freckles

No way. My mom is a pale freckled redhead with blue green eyes. A stunner. My daughter looks like she will be the same.

Wait, not to derail, but I thought everyone knows Gingers are nuts (not in a good way)?

Nope. Smart, sane, great mom and great grandma now

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What do you feel makes you ugly, pp?

Cut the crap. This isn't rocket science; we all know what is ugly and what is pretty. This thread doesn't have to turn into some condescending counseling session so the pretties can pretend to feel good about themselves.

I'm pretty average looking. I think very few people are truly ugly and am wondering what makes people define themselves that way.

Freckles

No way. My mom is a pale freckled redhead with blue green eyes. A stunner. My daughter looks like she will be the same.

Wait, not to derail, but I thought everyone knows Gingers are nuts (not in a good way)?

Now that's offensive.

[Anonymous]

I used to feel quite ok about being plain, chubby and average because I was smart, funny, warm, kind, humble and professionally successful.

It's kind of unnerving when you meet other women who have all the great personality traits that you basically developed out of your ugliness-pain, but those awesome women manage to be really beautiful while having everything that you have.

[Anonymous]

Oh please, stop making this into a Pollyana "everyone can be pretty" thread. While it's true that confidence matters, some people are ugly, or disabled, or old, or very obese. I probably have some pretty privilege but I recently suffered a disfiguring facial condition that really made me change my point of view. There are some people who get stared at, and not for a good reason. That is a completely different universe that you may not be able to understand.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I used to feel quite ok about being plain, chubby and average because I was smart, funny, warm, kind, humble and professionally successful.

It's kind of unnerving when you meet other women who have all the great personality traits that you basically developed out of your ugliness-pain, but those awesome women manage to be really beautiful while having everything that you have.

Amen, sister. Nobody talks about this, but I swear it's the most common thought in an ugly woman's mind. And the worst part is you can't even hate those beautiful women because they're cool and what did they do to you? etc

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh please, stop making this into a Pollyana "everyone can be pretty" thread. While it's true that confidence matters, some people are ugly, or disabled, or old, or very obese. I probably have some pretty privilege but I recently suffered a disfiguring facial condition that really made me change my point of view. There are some people who get stared at, and not for a good reason. That is a completely different universe that you may not be able to understand.

Being disfigured is not what most people are referring to when they call someone ugly.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am ugly, too tall and too heavy. I married at age 35 to the only man who ever asked me out and who is even uglier than I am. We have had a great life, and I can almost read people's minds when they see us together: thank God they found each other.

You say you have a great life, but do you wish you had a more attractive husband? Did you just settle because you didn't want to be alone? Would you pick him now if you had your pick of men? Just wondering. I have a few friends who have had a rough time in the looks and attracting men categories, but I didn't have that problem, so I would feel funny asking them directly. Sure everyone has their own answer, but I just wants to finally ask it!

Why, to gloat over your comparative good fortune? Why don't you fuck off? NP here.

Not PP, you can be ugly without being bitter about it, can't you? What else is a thread like this on an anonymous forum for if not to ask questions?

[Anonymous]

I have PCOS. I'm ugly.

[Anonymous]

I am racking my brain to think of someone, anyone, in my work, school, neighborhood, kids school, husbands job, family, stores I frequent, anyone and anywhere who I think is ugly and I can't think of anyone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have PCOS. I'm ugly.

I don't want to debate you but want to offer that I know a women with PCOS. She is hairer than she would like, but she's definitely not ugly.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What do you feel makes you ugly, pp?

Cut the crap. This isn't rocket science; we all know what is ugly and what is pretty. This thread doesn't have to turn into some condescending counseling session so the pretties can pretend to feel good about themselves.

I'm pretty average looking. I think very few people are truly ugly and am wondering what makes people define themselves that way.

Freckles

No way. My mom is a pale freckled redhead with blue green eyes. A stunner. My daughter looks like she will be the same.

Wait, not to derail, but I thought everyone knows Gingers are nuts (not in a good way)?

Only in the UK. Here they are celebrated.

Speak for yourself.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am ugly, too tall and too heavy. I married at age 35 to the only man who ever asked me out and who is even uglier than I am. We have had a great life, and I can almost read people's minds when they see us together: thank God they found each other.

You say you have a great life, but do you wish you had a more attractive husband? Did you just settle because you didn't want to be alone? Would you pick him now if you had your pick of men? Just wondering. I have a few friends who have had a rough time in the looks and attracting men categories, but I didn't have that problem, so I would feel funny asking them directly. Sure everyone has their own answer, but I just wants to finally ask it!

1. I don't wish I had a more attractive husband.
2. I was alone for 35 years and never felt alone because I had a good job, friends, and large family.
3. I would pick my husband because I know how he is a good husband, lover, father, professionally respected and well liked by friends and neighbors

Those are my answers and om response to your doubting that I have a great life, everything is subjective, but I do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What do you feel makes you ugly, pp?

Cut the crap. This isn't rocket science; we all know what is ugly and what is pretty. This thread doesn't have to turn into some condescending counseling session so the pretties can pretend to feel good about themselves.

I'm pretty average looking. I think very few people are truly ugly and am wondering what makes people define themselves that way.

Freckles

Freckles mean the angles kissed you. Like dimples, they are a sign of beauty