Boyfriend confronted me about what I wore to meet female friends

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He is insecure. Until HE realizes this and wants to make a change, you will be dealing with more of this shit.

You are your own person. He should control what you wear out.

Has he done anything similar in the past?

I am a guy. I understand his feelings. I am also impartial (I don't know the couple). So, I also understand her side of the story.

But...listen.....first stop adding fuel to the fire. Help her understand you idiot, and not make things worse. Okay?

Let me explain. First, it is natural for him to feel a sense of jealousy. He has a condition that prevents him from going out. He will feel insecure. Second, there are a LOT of cues to the story that you (person I am quoting, not OP) simply weren't able to pick up on for whatever reason. GF found it funny that a 70 year old man was chasing her. She laughed. Laughing is a positive thing. Makes people feel good. He made her feel good. Plus, she somehow was able to distinguish 60 from 70, so they spoke. There was a conversation somewhere. So his feelings are natural, albeit most likely misplaced. For Christ's sake, give him some slack.

Its you bitches like this poster that I am quoting that refuse to give gender equality. If the story was about MILF chasing a dude out of whatever steakhouse, you'd probably say it was the dude's fault.

If a woman was insecure, you woiuldn't blame the woman for insecurity, you'd say that the guy made her that way. Swear to god. Until you decide to be fair, your own problems with men will never be solved. Its that simple. World is filled with idiots no matter what you are.

LOL. This is the craziest shit I have read in my life. i dont even know where to start.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He is insecure. Until HE realizes this and wants to make a change, you will be dealing with more of this shit.

You are your own person. He should control what you wear out.

Has he done anything similar in the past?

I am a guy. I understand his feelings. I am also impartial (I don't know the couple). So, I also understand her side of the story.

But...listen.....first stop adding fuel to the fire. Help her understand you idiot, and not make things worse. Okay?

Let me explain. First, it is natural for him to feel a sense of jealousy. He has a condition that prevents him from going out. He will feel insecure. Second, there are a LOT of cues to the story that you (person I am quoting, not OP) simply weren't able to pick up on for whatever reason. GF found it funny that a 70 year old man was chasing her. She laughed. Laughing is a positive thing. Makes people feel good. He made her feel good. Plus, she somehow was able to distinguish 60 from 70, so they spoke. There was a conversation somewhere. So his feelings are natural, albeit most likely misplaced. For Christ's sake, give him some slack.

Its you bitches like this poster that I am quoting that refuse to give gender equality. If the story was about MILF chasing a dude out of whatever steakhouse, you'd probably say it was the dude's fault.

If a woman was insecure, you woiuldn't blame the woman for insecurity, you'd say that the guy made her that way. Swear to god. Until you decide to be fair, your own problems with men will never be solved. Its that simple. World is filled with idiots no matter what you are.

LOL. This is the craziest shit I have read in my life. i dont even know where to start.

Start by being an empathetic person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He is insecure. Until HE realizes this and wants to make a change, you will be dealing with more of this shit.

You are your own person. He should control what you wear out.

Has he done anything similar in the past?

I am a guy. I understand his feelings. I am also impartial (I don't know the couple). So, I also understand her side of the story.

But...listen.....first stop adding fuel to the fire. Help her understand you idiot, and not make things worse. Okay?

Let me explain. First, it is natural for him to feel a sense of jealousy. He has a condition that prevents him from going out. He will feel insecure. Second, there are a LOT of cues to the story that you (person I am quoting, not OP) simply weren't able to pick up on for whatever reason. GF found it funny that a 70 year old man was chasing her. She laughed. Laughing is a positive thing. Makes people feel good. He made her feel good. Plus, she somehow was able to distinguish 60 from 70, so they spoke. There was a conversation somewhere. So his feelings are natural, albeit most likely misplaced. For Christ's sake, give him some slack.

Its you bitches like this poster that I am quoting that refuse to give gender equality. If the story was about MILF chasing a dude out of whatever steakhouse, you'd probably say it was the dude's fault.

If a woman was insecure, you woiuldn't blame the woman for insecurity, you'd say that the guy made her that way. Swear to god. Until you decide to be fair, your own problems with men will never be solved. Its that simple. World is filled with idiots no matter what you are.

LOL. This is the craziest shit I have read in my life. i dont even know where to start.

Start by being an empathetic person.

I am. You have my sympathy for being batshit insane.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He is insecure. Until HE realizes this and wants to make a change, you will be dealing with more of this shit.

You are your own person. He should control what you wear out.

Has he done anything similar in the past?

I am a guy. I understand his feelings. I am also impartial (I don't know the couple). So, I also understand her side of the story.

But...listen.....first stop adding fuel to the fire. Help her understand you idiot, and not make things worse. Okay?

Let me explain. First, it is natural for him to feel a sense of jealousy. He has a condition that prevents him from going out. He will feel insecure. Second, there are a LOT of cues to the story that you (person I am quoting, not OP) simply weren't able to pick up on for whatever reason. GF found it funny that a 70 year old man was chasing her. She laughed. Laughing is a positive thing. Makes people feel good. He made her feel good. Plus, she somehow was able to distinguish 60 from 70, so they spoke. There was a conversation somewhere. So his feelings are natural, albeit most likely misplaced. For Christ's sake, give him some slack.

Its you bitches like this poster that I am quoting that refuse to give gender equality. If the story was about MILF chasing a dude out of whatever steakhouse, you'd probably say it was the dude's fault.

If a woman was insecure, you woiuldn't blame the woman for insecurity, you'd say that the guy made her that way. Swear to god. Until you decide to be fair, your own problems with men will never be solved. Its that simple. World is filled with idiots no matter what you are.

LOL. This is the craziest shit I have read in my life. i dont even know where to start.

Start by being an empathetic person.

I am. You have my sympathy for being batshit insane.

First empathy is not sympathy. Empathy means understanding. Second, please elaborate on how my response was "the most insane thing" you have ever read that you didn't know where to start. Please, I would love to hear why the BF of 7 years is somehow wrong he is jealous. Again, the feelings he has are misplaced, but not totally out of the blue, unjustified. I take it you're of the XX variety. If a woman made your SO laugh etc. you might feel the same.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He is insecure. Until HE realizes this and wants to make a change, you will be dealing with more of this shit.

You are your own person. He should control what you wear out.

Has he done anything similar in the past?

I am a guy. I understand his feelings. I am also impartial (I don't know the couple). So, I also understand her side of the story.

But...listen.....first stop adding fuel to the fire. Help her understand you idiot, and not make things worse. Okay?

Let me explain. First, it is natural for him to feel a sense of jealousy. He has a condition that prevents him from going out. He will feel insecure. Second, there are a LOT of cues to the story that you (person I am quoting, not OP) simply weren't able to pick up on for whatever reason. GF found it funny that a 70 year old man was chasing her. She laughed. Laughing is a positive thing. Makes people feel good. He made her feel good. Plus, she somehow was able to distinguish 60 from 70, so they spoke. There was a conversation somewhere. So his feelings are natural, albeit most likely misplaced. For Christ's sake, give him some slack.

Its you bitches like this poster that I am quoting that refuse to give gender equality. If the story was about MILF chasing a dude out of whatever steakhouse, you'd probably say it was the dude's fault.

If a woman was insecure, you woiuldn't blame the woman for insecurity, you'd say that the guy made her that way. Swear to god. Until you decide to be fair, your own problems with men will never be solved. Its that simple. World is filled with idiots no matter what you are.

LOL. This is the craziest shit I have read in my life. i dont even know where to start.

Start by being an empathetic person.

I am. You have my sympathy for being batshit insane.

First empathy is not sympathy. Empathy means understanding. Second, please elaborate on how my response was "the most insane thing" you have ever read that you didn't know where to start. Please, I would love to hear why the BF of 7 years is somehow wrong he is jealous. Again, the feelings he has are misplaced, but not totally out of the blue, unjustified. I take it you're of the XX variety. If a woman made your SO laugh etc. you might feel the same.

+one-orbation. (I just +1 one'd myself)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

First empathy is not sympathy. Empathy means understanding. Second, please elaborate on how my response was "the most insane thing" you have ever read that you didn't know where to start. Please, I would love to hear why the BF of 7 years is somehow wrong he is jealous. Again, the feelings he has are misplaced, but not totally out of the blue, unjustified. I take it you're of the XX variety. If a woman made your SO laugh etc. you might feel the same.

Mystery and the other bros lied to you. Making a woman laugh doesn't mean *that* much. And most certainly not a 70 year old. Nice try though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

First empathy is not sympathy. Empathy means understanding. Second, please elaborate on how my response was "the most insane thing" you have ever read that you didn't know where to start. Please, I would love to hear why the BF of 7 years is somehow wrong he is jealous. Again, the feelings he has are misplaced, but not totally out of the blue, unjustified. I take it you're of the XX variety. If a woman made your SO laugh etc. you might feel the same.

Mystery and the other bros lied to you. Making a woman laugh doesn't mean *that* much. And most certainly not a 70 year old. Nice try though.

right, so many women told me that a man who can make them laugh turns them on. The issue is that he got a positive response from her. She was flattered, regardless of the age. Wouldn't you?

"Mystery and the other bros lied to me?" Please. Explain what the mystery is. Who the bros are. and what the lies are. I cant read your mind, so please take some time to write with more clarity. And stick to the goddamn topic. From the OP, no one is at fault. They just need to sit down and talk this through. When my SO feels jealous, my first instinct is to realize that maybe I did something unintentional. I make the assumption that she is not crazy. She perceived something and misunderstood it. It then becomes my job to clarify. Same here.

And you're still an idiot. Bam.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

First empathy is not sympathy. Empathy means understanding. Second, please elaborate on how my response was "the most insane thing" you have ever read that you didn't know where to start. Please, I would love to hear why the BF of 7 years is somehow wrong he is jealous. Again, the feelings he has are misplaced, but not totally out of the blue, unjustified. I take it you're of the XX variety. If a woman made your SO laugh etc. you might feel the same.

Mystery and the other bros lied to you. Making a woman laugh doesn't mean *that* much. And most certainly not a 70 year old. Nice try though.

x2. It's very sad seeing these men who have bought into what PUA's and MRA's have tried to sell them. All with the promise that it will attract women. It's so insane.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He is insecure. Until HE realizes this and wants to make a change, you will be dealing with more of this shit.

You are your own person. He should control what you wear out.

Has he done anything similar in the past?

I am a guy. I understand his feelings. I am also impartial (I don't know the couple). So, I also understand her side of the story.

But...listen.....first stop adding fuel to the fire. Help her understand you idiot, and not make things worse. Okay?

Let me explain. First, it is natural for him to feel a sense of jealousy. He has a condition that prevents him from going out. He will feel insecure. Second, there are a LOT of cues to the story that you (person I am quoting, not OP) simply weren't able to pick up on for whatever reason. GF found it funny that a 70 year old man was chasing her. She laughed. Laughing is a positive thing. Makes people feel good. He made her feel good. Plus, she somehow was able to distinguish 60 from 70, so they spoke. There was a conversation somewhere. So his feelings are natural, albeit most likely misplaced. For Christ's sake, give him some slack.

Its you bitches like this poster that I am quoting that refuse to give gender equality. If the story was about MILF chasing a dude out of whatever steakhouse, you'd probably say it was the dude's fault.

If a woman was insecure, you woiuldn't blame the woman for insecurity, you'd say that the guy made her that way. Swear to god. Until you decide to be fair, your own problems with men will never be solved. Its that simple. World is filled with idiots no matter what you are.

LOL. This is the craziest shit I have read in my life. i dont even know where to start.

Start by being an empathetic person.

I am. You have my sympathy for being batshit insane.

First empathy is not sympathy. Empathy means understanding. Second, please elaborate on how my response was "the most insane thing" you have ever read that you didn't know where to start. Please, I would love to hear why the BF of 7 years is somehow wrong he is jealous. Again, the feelings he has are misplaced, but not totally out of the blue, unjustified. I take it you're of the XX variety. If a woman made your SO laugh etc. you might feel the same.

If a 70 year old woman had made my SO laugh? LOL!!!



Yes, I would be immediately jealous and know that DH was planning to cheat on me and run off with this woman. I would immediately text him and accuse him of wearing cologne for the sole purpose of attracting hot babes like said 70 year old, and wear a formfitting button down to try to show his body off to attract all the senior citizens around.

Yes, you are SO RIGHT. You caught me in my lie. Totally.

[Anonymous]

You've been dating for seven years and haven't married? That's ridiculous. You're having or wanting to have these conversations via text? That's ridiculous.

You sound very immature and need to grow up. See a counselor.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You've been dating for seven years and haven't married? That's ridiculous. You're having or wanting to have these conversations via text? That's ridiculous.

You sound very immature and need to grow up. See a counselor.

Your post is ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You've been dating for seven years and haven't married? That's ridiculous. You're having or wanting to have these conversations via text? That's ridiculous.

You sound very immature and need to grow up. See a counselor.

Your post is ridiculous.

The OP sounds like a teenager. The whole thing is ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You've been dating for seven years and haven't married? That's ridiculous. You're having or wanting to have these conversations via text? That's ridiculous.

You sound very immature and need to grow up. See a counselor.

Your post is ridiculous.

+ 1

[Anonymous]

OP, if he's not usually like this, and has been sick lately, be kind. Don't get all huffy. Sometimes an old wound (like from his experiences in the past with others) will flare up, and a little insecurity will come out. At that time, people just need a little reassurance and love. Don't take it personally or negatively. Don't change what you do, but think of how you'd like to be reassured if you were having an insecure or hormonal moment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He is insecure. Until HE realizes this and wants to make a change, you will be dealing with more of this shit.

You are your own person. He should control what you wear out.

Has he done anything similar in the past?

I am a guy. I understand his feelings. I am also impartial (I don't know the couple). So, I also understand her side of the story.

But...listen.....first stop adding fuel to the fire. Help her understand you idiot, and not make things worse. Okay?

Let me explain. First, it is natural for him to feel a sense of jealousy. He has a condition that prevents him from going out. He will feel insecure. Second, there are a LOT of cues to the story that you (person I am quoting, not OP) simply weren't able to pick up on for whatever reason. GF found it funny that a 70 year old man was chasing her. She laughed. Laughing is a positive thing. Makes people feel good. He made her feel good. Plus, she somehow was able to distinguish 60 from 70, so they spoke. There was a conversation somewhere. So his feelings are natural, albeit most likely misplaced. For Christ's sake, give him some slack.

Its you bitches like this poster that I am quoting that refuse to give gender equality. If the story was about MILF chasing a dude out of whatever steakhouse, you'd probably say it was the dude's fault.

If a woman was insecure, you woiuldn't blame the woman for insecurity, you'd say that the guy made her that way. Swear to god. Until you decide to be fair, your own problems with men will never be solved. Its that simple. World is filled with idiots no matter what you are.

LOL. This is the craziest shit I have read in my life. i dont even know where to start.

Start by being an empathetic person.

I am. You have my sympathy for being batshit insane.

First empathy is not sympathy. Empathy means understanding. Second, please elaborate on how my response was "the most insane thing" you have ever read that you didn't know where to start. Please, I would love to hear why the BF of 7 years is somehow wrong he is jealous. Again, the feelings he has are misplaced, but not totally out of the blue, unjustified. I take it you're of the XX variety. If a woman made your SO laugh etc. you might feel the same.

If a 70 year old woman had made my SO laugh? LOL!!!



Yes, I would be immediately jealous and know that DH was planning to cheat on me and run off with this woman. I would immediately text him and accuse him of wearing cologne for the sole purpose of attracting hot babes like said 70 year old, and wear a formfitting button down to try to show his body off to attract all the senior citizens around.

Yes, you are SO RIGHT. You caught me in my lie. Totally.

I doubt it's the 70 yr old man, but rather the slippery slope. If a 70 yr old man this time, then maybe a 60 yr old next. And then 50... Where's the line that you would all say justifies his feelings? It shows a certain insensitivity to promote to your partner that someone hit on you, regardless of circumstance. To me, people who advertise stuff like this are the insecure ones.