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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He is insecure.  Until HE realizes this and wants to make a change, you will be dealing with more of this shit.

You are your own person.  He should control what you wear out.

Has he done anything similar in the past?[/quote]
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I am a guy.  I understand his feelings.  I am also impartial (I don't know the couple).  So, I also understand her side of the story.

But...listen.....first stop adding fuel to the fire.  Help her understand you idiot, and not make things worse.  Okay?

Let me explain.  First, it is natural for him to feel a sense of jealousy.  He has a condition that prevents him from going out.  He will feel insecure.  Second, there are a LOT of cues to the story that you (person I am quoting, not OP) simply weren't able to pick up on for whatever reason.  GF found it funny that a 70 year old man was chasing her.  She laughed.  Laughing is a positive thing.  Makes people feel good.  He made her feel good. Plus, she somehow was able to distinguish 60 from 70, so they spoke. There was a conversation somewhere. So his feelings are natural, albeit most likely misplaced. For Christ's sake, give him some slack.

Its you bitches like this poster that I am quoting that refuse to give gender equality.  If the story was about MILF chasing a dude out of whatever steakhouse, you'd probably say it was the dude's fault.

If a woman was insecure, you woiuldn't blame the woman for insecurity, you'd say that the guy made her that way.  Swear to god.  Until you decide to be fair, your own problems with men will never be solved. Its that simple.  World is filled with idiots no matter what you are. 
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LOL.  This is the craziest shit I have read in my life.  i dont even know where to start.  [/quote]

Start by being an empathetic person. [/quote]

I am. You have my sympathy for being batshit insane.[/quote]

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