At what age did you lose your virginity?

[Anonymous]

16, wish I had waited. But I had done everything else till that point - oral and anal and sex toys - so intercourse didnt seem like that big a deal by that point.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:16, wish I had waited. But I had done everything else till that point - oral and anal and sex toys - so intercourse didnt seem like that big a deal by that point.

OMG PP. A lot of 30 yr olds haven't done that. Seems so young!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:16, wish I had waited. But I had done everything else till that point - oral and anal and sex toys - so intercourse didnt seem like that big a deal by that point.

OMG PP. A lot of 30 yr olds haven't done that. Seems so young!

I was young and stupid. It was a bad relationship and he took advantage of me in many ways.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:52, haven't lost it yet...

What are you waiting for ? Do you ever want to have sex ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:16, wish I had waited. But I had done everything else till that point - oral and anal and sex toys - so intercourse didnt seem like that big a deal by that point.

OMG PP. A lot of 30 yr olds haven't done that. Seems so young!

I was young and stupid. It was a bad relationship and he took advantage of me in many ways.

Was he a lot older than you? Did your parents talk to you about sex? I'm really curious because I have a DD and would prefer she wait till she's 18. In hindsight (being 20/20), what do you think your parents could've said that would've had you wait?

[Anonymous]

16 female. Yikes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:16, wish I had waited. But I had done everything else till that point - oral and anal and sex toys - so intercourse didnt seem like that big a deal by that point.

OMG PP. A lot of 30 yr olds haven't done that. Seems so young!

I was young and stupid. It was a bad relationship and he took advantage of me in many ways.

Was he a lot older than you? Did your parents talk to you about sex? I'm really curious because I have a DD and would prefer she wait till she's 18. In hindsight (being 20/20), what do you think your parents could've said that would've had you wait?

He was 19 and a high school drop out. I met him in the mall. My parents didnt know he existed and never would have been allowed to date him. I went to a small religious private school and felt stifled socially by the small number of options I had for friends and he made me feel sexy and pretty in a way that boys who have known you since you were 5 couldnt possibly do. I have a strong sexual streak and didnt really know how or even want to say no. I lived in a state of perpetual fear of finding out, self-loathing, lust, and guilt. It was a difficult time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:16, wish I had waited. But I had done everything else till that point - oral and anal and sex toys - so intercourse didnt seem like that big a deal by that point.

OMG PP. A lot of 30 yr olds haven't done that. Seems so young!

I was young and stupid. It was a bad relationship and he took advantage of me in many ways.

Was he a lot older than you? Did your parents talk to you about sex? I'm really curious because I have a DD and would prefer she wait till she's 18. In hindsight (being 20/20), what do you think your parents could've said that would've had you wait?

He was 19 and a high school drop out. I met him in the mall. My parents didnt know he existed and never would have been allowed to date him. I went to a small religious private school and felt stifled socially by the small number of options I had for friends and he made me feel sexy and pretty in a way that boys who have known you since you were 5 couldnt possibly do. I have a strong sexual streak and didnt really know how or even want to say no. I lived in a state of perpetual fear of finding out, self-loathing, lust, and guilt. It was a difficult time.

We were together for 7 years in an on again off again dramatic relationship.

[Anonymous]

15 and 3/4. Female. Sweet, sweet sex with my first love. Both virgins. No regrets.

[Anonymous]

17, with my English teacher! I really loved him. He would be arrested today. It was 30 years ago.

[Anonymous]

17, she was 16

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:17, with my English teacher! I really loved him. He would be arrested today. It was 30 years ago.

Did he love you? Or did he just take advantage of you? I know you said you loved him, but a 17 yr old can easily fall in love.

[Anonymous]

17 female. Older bf, think he was 20.

Advice to parents: don't let your kid date someone out of high school

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:17 female. Older bf, think he was 20.

Advice to parents: don't let your kid date someone out of high school

Good advice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:17, with my English teacher! I really loved him. He would be arrested today. It was 30 years ago.

Did he love you? Or did he just take advantage of you? I know you said you loved him, but a 17 yr old can easily fall in love.

I still haven't figured that question out and it's been 30 years. Sometimes I think yes, sometimes I think no.