Me too! I lost a bunch of weight doing a high fiber diet, which did not involve juicing, but blending. Sometimes on my commute to work, I'm afraid I won't make it into the office without crapping myself. I don't think my meals stay in my body longer than 8 hours. I think I just shit all my fat out. |
This looks miserable. I could never sustain this long term. I did WW for 3 months and then switched to MFP. I did both religiously and steadily lost weight. Now I can eyeball my food and know how much I need to maintain. I eat whatever I want, just now how ever much I want. The above diet is simply a reduction in calories, just looking at it a different way. |
OP -- I would suggest changing one meal out of your day and see what impact that can have. At one point I was eating a pretty heavy breakfast each day (waffles with peanut butter and syrup -- ridiculous). I started drinking a protein drink instead or a green smoothie (get a Nutribullet) and dropped weight quickly. I was cutting out at least 150 - 200 calories but it didn't feel like a big sacrifice because it was just one meal. |
OP, first of all, a big, big hug to you. I can totally relate to your frustration and sadness. What makes your posts so heartbreaking is the cycle of shame, self-loathing and despair that so many of us struggle with. I often think we are our own worst enemies.
I would focus less on the nitty gritty of following a diet and more on mindful eating and quieting those hurtful thoughts. Your body is amazing and beautiful, and I hope you can find the path to loving, accepting and honoring it. We can do so much damage to ourselves when our efforts are directed towards denying ourselves versus feeding our bodies what they need with love and respect. I found Geneen Roth's book, Women Food and God to be very, very helpful in helping me to right my perception of my body. I am not religious, but her message was wonderful. Best to you. |
Never say never. I thought the same because I LOVE to eat and snack. I have tried WW and similar low-calorie diets and they do not work for me. Having to watch my calories/points is stressful and makes me focus on food too much. It also makes it more difficult for me to calculate when I make home-cooked meals. I have found that, what works for me, is taking so many options out of the equation. I initially said I would try it for a week to see how it goes. Once I got past day 2-3, it got really easy and I decided to keep going. Like you said, it's about calorie restrictions and, since I've found that I eat better on weekdays when I have a more structured schedule, this works great for me. BTW, there is no plan to sustain this long-term and it really shouldn't be for others. I'm 12 pounds down after 2 weeks. Week 3 started yesterday, so I'm hoping I will get close to my goal in another 2-3 weeks. Even then, I will continue to juice for breakfast because I like how quickly I can get my veggies/fruits for the day. |
For those interested in low carb try this: http://www.dietdoctor.com/how-to-lose-weight
My husband lost 60lbs with this (over 3 years and he also started training for races) and now I'm starting it. It's tough because I adore fruit, but this seems to work slowly and surely. |
This is what I do too. It's really the only thing sustainable long-term. |
OP you are not pathetic, but you do need to decide you really want to make changes, and not be so hard on yourself. This needs to be a lifestyle change, not just a temporary diet. Make small changes - one a week. Maybe this week you just start tracking your food on an app, to get an idea of what you are eating. Next week cut out a snack. Do that for a week. The next week swap your breakfast for some Fage total (not the 2% or 0% - this keeps you full and is really really rich. Taste like it should be bad for you, but lots of protein). Don't think of it as cheating. You just have to make a different choice tomorrow. Weight loss doesn't happen over night - you didn't gain 30 lbs in one day, and you won't lose it in one either. So put on your big-girl panties and make the decision to do this. No more whining. You can do this. |
How much weight have you lost and over what time frame? |
I am fat because I consume more calories than I burn.
End of thread. |
I lost 40 lbs in about 6 months 5-6 years ago. I'm now doing it again after the birth of my second baby - have lost 5 in a month so far. |
NP here. I'm fat for so many reasons -- I choose food as comfort for stress, loneliness, boredom, pain -- as I have done since middle school when i was sexually abused. I have a great disconnection from my body. I thought I was giant and obese when I was 150 lbs on a 5'7" frame. I am now 275 lbs on the same frame.
I gained 90 pounds while on SSRI antidepressants over two years in my late 20's. Ironically, I exercised more and ate better during those two years than the previous 5. I have sleep apnea. I suspect now that I had sleep apnea in my early 20's, but my fatigue and brain fog were misdiagnosed as depression. The depression meds let to weight gain, which worsened the sleep apnea, and the sleep deprivation triggered a cortisol response and carb cravings, and I got caught in a terrible cycle. On top of that, I'm an insanely picky eater. I was very underweight as a child, until middle school. Then I found that carbs made me feel better, so i ate lots of them. Lots. My diet has little variety. The low self-esteem worsens the spiral. The all-or-nothing perfectionism makes dieting initially successful and then a complete failure, as the rebound effect after calorie restriction and lower metabolism makes me put back on more than I lose, and feel worse than when I started. I have considered weight loss surgery. Two of my friends had it. Both attempted suicide within 5 years of the surgery. One has developed chronic health problems in addition to the suicidality. The other has regained most of the weight, as so many do, but looks so much worse than when she started -- papery, pale skin, lots of hair loss from nutrient loss. Some days, I figure steadily fat is better than that. But when I look at pictures, I just want to not be so hideously huge. *sigh* |
I am sorry, this sucks. I am OP and have less weight to lose but I know how much it sucks. |
40lbs, took me 8 months and it has been 3 years now. Studies show that rapid weight loss leads to long term failure. If you are using some sort of gimmick, then you are not training your brain for the "real world". Great article about the fat cell and even a note on calorie counting and chewing. The chewing aspect really makes sense because for a while I tried meal replacement shakes and found that no matter what, I still was never feeling full. Chewing sends your hormones signals. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristin-kirkpatrick-ms-rd-ld/maintaining-weight-loss_b_942701.html calorie counting also helped me gravitate low carb foods. This is because high sugar foods are very "expensive" in terms of calories or points. If I can eat high fiber or high protein foods, I can eat more to fill up my stomach, vs. a bag of chips that hardly made a dent in my hunger, but cost a ton in calories or points. However, at this point, I pretty much know how much and what I can eat. I only go on MFP if my weight creeps up by 5lbs. And even then, it takes me about 3 weeks to take it back off. |
Sounds great, but what I will caution against is criticizing what works for others. ANY weight loss method (including low calorie diets) have the potential for failure. The goal is to find what works for you and then work hard at maintaining the weight loss after you've reached your goal. |