Heh. I am a "Besserwisser". Couldn't help myself, it just drives me nuts. Liebe is such an odd choice, as is agape for the reason you mention. I'm not even touching the "what is a preppy name" part of it. |
| Related, sort of: So is it pretentious to name a kid XX XX III, even though the family isn't old-money? My DH is a Jr. and I'd be open to naming a son III, but we are both from working-class families. |
My husband is a III even though his parents are working-class. I don't think it's pretentious. (We drew the line at a IV, though.) OT: I once met a guy who was the 19th. Talk about pressure to have kids! |
As a European, I find the whole "III" business utterly ridiculous and pretentious even for people from old money. What are you guys, dukes, kings, popes? Not even the European nobility - except for RULERS - did this. |
Yes, it's pretentious. It's also now the dominion of the working class, as they're being pretentious...that is, Attempting to impress by affecting greater importance, talent, culture, etc., than is actually possessed. Unless you are royalty, you don't need to be the III, or XI, or whatever. |
+100 You must be one of the other Germans.
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If you Mr. XIX had the initials HDG, I know him, too. Back to the OP, if you have to ask if a name is preppy and didn't actually go to prep school, STOP IT. Pick a name you like -- you'll never pass. |
What if you just want to honor your predecessors? I guess you could do same first name, different middle name. |
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I think a better description of what op is probably looking for would be "soap opera" names as opposed to "preppy" names.
I agree with what PPs have said about preppy names being organic or random nicknames for either generic family names (William, John) or crazy old school family names (wentworth). I think the 80s soap opera and John Houghs (sp?) movie names like Trevor, Hunter, and Preston are faux preppy. The real preps I have known have boring (George, John, Mary, Elizabeth) or ugly names that were given out of birth-rite and not intended to be a cool name and are typically from the wrong generation. Think Barbara, Wallace, Beatrice, or Archibald on 30-somethings. And, of course, the catchy and sometimes inappropriately juvenile nicknames for III, IV, etc. |
MY name is Liebe. Thanks. |
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Here are some different names I have heard lately:
Kevlar Ford Greyson Greyer Jagger Truman Lukas Sampson |
Kevlar??? |
Those aren't preppy names. Those are names that hipsters give to their kids. |
No. Don't! Any guy named "Chet" is always a dick. If you're going to go prep, pick something WASPy and classic: William, Robert, John, Charles, Phillip, Henry, Harry, Arthur, George, Edward, James |
Heh. I grew up working class and all the men named their sons after themselves. People called them "Big ____" and "Little ______." Big John and Little John Big David and Little David Big Lenny and Little Lenny Big Jim and Little Jim Big Dale and Little Dale I put my foot down and refused to do this to my boys. Their father's last name is sufficient. They don't need his first name, too. |