I think it’s awful if parents do that. It hasn’t been our experience. The AAP students maintain friendships with non AAP friends. Especially if they are in extracurriculars together. Same sports team, scouts, etc. It takes a bit more effort to see each other outside of that. It seems that some areas have a more toxic competitive attitude about AAP which is a shame. But you’re right, good riddance if that’s how they are. It’s awful if their attitude does rub off on their kids. |
“Vast majority” is a stretch. Appeals have a low success rate from my observation. You can tell who got in first round from AAP orientation. Hardly anyone not there shows up the first day of school. Most kids in AAP do not have a preexisting diagnosis. Although some kids do end up getting diagnosed after starting AAP. |
The experience depends entirely on the specific school. It’s a toss up at some schools but some schools are able to effectively implement full time services. |
Not all parents go to AAP orientation either, and so the number of kids getting in on appeal would be even less. |
We did let a couple friendships fizzle out. But we would have even if they were still in the same school. Those “friends” pitted my kid against each other, were controlling and would frequently say mean things. The parents might have thought that we dropped them because of AAP but it’s an entirely different reason. |
It's harder because base school is a center, so we get to watch everyone move as a group as we hang out outside it |
Yes but PP's kid got advanced math instruction due to being placed in AAP math. |
If your kid is as smart as you say, why not push for AAP or at least principal placement? |
Center school, they don't principal place. How do you push? All I said is that I'm sure some of those friends are peers. Teacher thinks kid needs it, committee of people who have never met the kid says no. My experience at the center school is that the very smart kids get divided...half are in and half can't get in. Someone doing a sociology degree should write a report about the short term and long term affects of the program. For my kids, I think long term the cream will rise to the top, but short term it creates real social and emotional stress and affects confidence For the kids who get in but struggle, I imagine more negative long term affects? |