Disdain/Anger for Young Women on DCUM

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The hate for young men is 100x the hate for young women.

lol says a man. you have NO idea what women go through on a constant basis. It becomes background noise, but the stress it takes on you is there just the same. How many times has the average man had his body grabbed or been flashed or intimidated by a stranger? That is one of a multitude of facets of life where women face overt and covert hostility.

Yeah, not even close.

The hate and disdain directed towards young men is almost scary due to how strong and irrational it is.

-female feminist

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Has anyone else noticed a consistent bias—and outright hostility—toward women in their 20s on this forum? It shows up everywhere: parenting discussions, dating threads, work and career posts, college topics, and of course in posts about sons’ girlfriends (including teenagers).
Young women are routinely portrayed as entitled, spoiled, selfish, or lazy, and are often blamed for nearly every problem in a relationship. The level of scrutiny and negativity is striking.
What’s particularly off-putting is that much of this criticism seems to come from middle-aged women who also describe themselves as feminists. Whats going on here? Why does DCUM hate young women?

Young women are going to bear the brunt of the real-life Gilead that is coming.

The best thing a woman 30 or younger can do for herself is a long-acting contraceptive like an IUD and avoiding men socially.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The hate for young men is 100x the hate for young women.

lol says a man. you have NO idea what women go through on a constant basis. It becomes background noise, but the stress it takes on you is there just the same. How many times has the average man had his body grabbed or been flashed or intimidated by a stranger? That is one of a multitude of facets of life where women face overt and covert hostility.

Yeah, not even close.

The hate and disdain directed towards young men is almost scary due to how strong and irrational it is.

-female feminist

Where are the gangs of young women abducting young men and sexually assaulting them?

A female feminist with a son

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The hate for young men is 100x the hate for young women.

lol says a man. you have NO idea what women go through on a constant basis. It becomes background noise, but the stress it takes on you is there just the same. How many times has the average man had his body grabbed or been flashed or intimidated by a stranger? That is one of a multitude of facets of life where women face overt and covert hostility.

Yeah, not even close.

The hate and disdain directed towards young men is almost scary due to how strong and irrational it is.

-female feminist

I can handle hate, I've handled disdain

Easy

It's the physical part that is distressing.

Are you saying men are experiencing that, "female feminist( )?"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The hate for young men is 100x the hate for young women.

lol says a man. you have NO idea what women go through on a constant basis. It becomes background noise, but the stress it takes on you is there just the same. How many times has the average man had his body grabbed or been flashed or intimidated by a stranger? That is one of a multitude of facets of life where women face overt and covert hostility.

What an irrational claim.

That behavior is not common at all.

Men simply are not walking around flashing and grabbing women.

The people intimidating women (and men) in public are crazed junkies, mentally ill homeless, or serial criminals. They are in their own separate categories and do not represent men as a sex At All.

Quit blaming today's young men who are NOT cut from that cloth, for the sins of some mythical creepers from circa 1967 before their parents were even born.

[Anonymous]

I think it’s anytime people open up about personal things on this board that they are conflicted about. It’s like cracking open the door for people to sneak right in with the snide nasty remarks.

Losing weight? “Maybe you shouldn’t have gotten so heavy in the first place to need medication”

Have a spectrum child with public meltdowns? “Perhaps you shouldn’t reconsider the rights of others not to have to deal with kids like yours in communal spaces”

Even a grandma with a baby in the NICU got roasted (if that was true)

It’s not just this board, though, the whole internet is like this today

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The hate for young men is 100x the hate for young women.

lol says a man. you have NO idea what women go through on a constant basis. It becomes background noise, but the stress it takes on you is there just the same. How many times has the average man had his body grabbed or been flashed or intimidated by a stranger? That is one of a multitude of facets of life where women face overt and covert hostility.

What an irrational claim.

That behavior is not common at all.

Men simply are not walking around flashing and grabbing women.

The people intimidating women (and men) in public are crazed junkies, mentally ill homeless, or serial criminals. They are in their own separate categories and do not represent men as a sex At All.

Quit blaming today's young men who are NOT cut from that cloth, for the sins of some mythical creepers from circa 1967 before their parents were even born.

This is what you tell yourself. Doesn't make it true for most.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The hate for young men is 100x the hate for young women.

lol says a man. you have NO idea what women go through on a constant basis. It becomes background noise, but the stress it takes on you is there just the same. How many times has the average man had his body grabbed or been flashed or intimidated by a stranger? That is one of a multitude of facets of life where women face overt and covert hostility.

Yeah, not even close.

The hate and disdain directed towards young men is almost scary due to how strong and irrational it is.

-female feminist

Where are the gangs of young women abducting young men and sexually assaulting them?

A female feminist with a son

You are being completely irrational.

There are almost zero gangs of young men abducting and sexually assaulting young women.

The incidents in recent years were all from men who were not supposed to be in the US, from backwards countries where women are treated very poorly, who were also involved in crime or from religions where a woman showing her ankle is a sign of a harlot, or crazed junkies hyped up on fentanyl with extensive violent criminal records who were repeatedly released by blue city officials in the name of inclusion and compassion.

None of those criminals represents your son, his friends, any of the young men in our area or in the country at large.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The hate for young men is 100x the hate for young women.

lol says a man. you have NO idea what women go through on a constant basis. It becomes background noise, but the stress it takes on you is there just the same. How many times has the average man had his body grabbed or been flashed or intimidated by a stranger? That is one of a multitude of facets of life where women face overt and covert hostility.

What an irrational claim.

That behavior is not common at all.

Men simply are not walking around flashing and grabbing women.

The people intimidating women (and men) in public are crazed junkies, mentally ill homeless, or serial criminals. They are in their own separate categories and do not represent men as a sex At All.

Quit blaming today's young men who are NOT cut from that cloth, for the sins of some mythical creepers from circa 1967 before their parents were even born.

This is what you tell yourself. Doesn't make it true for most.

Sorry but bull$#!t

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The hate for young men is 100x the hate for young women.

lol says a man. you have NO idea what women go through on a constant basis. It becomes background noise, but the stress it takes on you is there just the same. How many times has the average man had his body grabbed or been flashed or intimidated by a stranger? That is one of a multitude of facets of life where women face overt and covert hostility.

What an irrational claim.

That behavior is not common at all.

Men simply are not walking around flashing and grabbing women.

The people intimidating women (and men) in public are crazed junkies, mentally ill homeless, or serial criminals. They are in their own separate categories and do not represent men as a sex At All.

Quit blaming today's young men who are NOT cut from that cloth, for the sins of some mythical creepers from circa 1967 before their parents were even born.

This is what you tell yourself. Doesn't make it true for most.

Sorry but bull$#!t

I can say the same for you

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The hate for young men is 100x the hate for young women.

lol says a man. you have NO idea what women go through on a constant basis. It becomes background noise, but the stress it takes on you is there just the same. How many times has the average man had his body grabbed or been flashed or intimidated by a stranger? That is one of a multitude of facets of life where women face overt and covert hostility.

What an irrational claim.

That behavior is not common at all.

Men simply are not walking around flashing and grabbing women.

The people intimidating women (and men) in public are crazed junkies, mentally ill homeless, or serial criminals. They are in their own separate categories and do not represent men as a sex At All.

Quit blaming today's young men who are NOT cut from that cloth, for the sins of some mythical creepers from circa 1967 before their parents were even born.

This is what you tell yourself. Doesn't make it true for most.

Sorry but bull$#!t

I can say the same for you

If you are regularly getting flashed and groped by roving gangs of US men, then you probably are living in the wrong neighborhood.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The hate for young men is 100x the hate for young women.

lol says a man. you have NO idea what women go through on a constant basis. It becomes background noise, but the stress it takes on you is there just the same. How many times has the average man had his body grabbed or been flashed or intimidated by a stranger? That is one of a multitude of facets of life where women face overt and covert hostility.

Yeah, not even close.

The hate and disdain directed towards young men is almost scary due to how strong and irrational it is.

-female feminist

Where are the gangs of young women abducting young men and sexually assaulting them?

A female feminist with a son

You are being completely irrational.

There are almost zero gangs of young men abducting and sexually assaulting young women.

The incidents in recent years were all from men who were not supposed to be in the US, from backwards countries where women are treated very poorly, who were also involved in crime or from religions where a woman showing her ankle is a sign of a harlot, or crazed junkies hyped up on fentanyl with extensive violent criminal records who were repeatedly released by blue city officials in the name of inclusion and compassion.

None of those criminals represents your son, his friends, any of the young men in our area or in the country at large.

Oh you're one of those

Figures

Have you checked on ALL your top leadership lately?

I guess it's good this thread is only about YOUNG men, for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The hate for young men is 100x the hate for young women.

lol says a man. you have NO idea what women go through on a constant basis. It becomes background noise, but the stress it takes on you is there just the same. How many times has the average man had his body grabbed or been flashed or intimidated by a stranger? That is one of a multitude of facets of life where women face overt and covert hostility.

What an irrational claim.

That behavior is not common at all.

Men simply are not walking around flashing and grabbing women.

The people intimidating women (and men) in public are crazed junkies, mentally ill homeless, or serial criminals. They are in their own separate categories and do not represent men as a sex At All.

Quit blaming today's young men who are NOT cut from that cloth, for the sins of some mythical creepers from circa 1967 before their parents were even born.

This is what you tell yourself. Doesn't make it true for most.

Sorry but bull$#!t

I can say the same for you

If you are regularly getting flashed and groped by roving gangs of US men, then you probably are living in the wrong neighborhood.

Bye MAGA

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have not noticed this. If any group seems singled out for derision it is Boomer mother in laws. So many people are so incredibly rude to this group and honestly it never matches what I see in my neighbors, coworkers, and family members in this demographic, who are all bending over backwards to help their adult children and their spouses with free childcare, presents, vacations, etc.

+1

[Anonymous]

There are stupid people everywhere. Meaning there will always be one person who is contemptuous of a group, regardless of what group it is.

Stop thinking in terms of groups. Not all people in a group are the same.