Tell us your deepest secret

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok sure this is anonymous right? I realized in my early 50s that I am bisexual. Female, now 60. It's just so wild. I wonder if other people in my life might suspect.

Uh. You know this happens to every woman, right?

Hmmm… I’m a 50 year old female and am not attracted to women.

Me neither. I guess we are in the minority then.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Haven't had one of these threads in a long time

I feel envious of people who inherit good looks, intelligence, wealth, power, athletic prowess etc and have a leg up in life.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hit my autistic/ADHD child when he was little. It wasn’t a spanking as a prescribed punishment. I just lost my sh!t. He’s in his late teens now, and I’ve apologized multiple times. I still feel so ashamed any time he brings it up. DH and the other kids pretend it never even happened.

I lost my temper at my adhd son too in a way that also ashames me (he might also be on the spectrum). We brought in a behavior specialist to help us cope with his triggering behaviors. You’re not alone - these are very challenging kids who make life very stressful despite their good qualities. It doesn’t make our reactions okay, but it’s okay to need extra help coping with special needs.

I’d love it if you two could start another thread about this. ADHD mom with adhd kid here.

[Anonymous]

I miss when DCUM wasn't full of trolls

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:1. I don't understand anything I do at work. I've had the same job for 28 years, and wonder if the other people who do this understand it but can't figure out a way to ask them without giving away that I don't.

2. Also, if I get too sick or whatever to work before I die, I will be homeless in about 6-8 years after stopping work. If this happens, I will end my life.

3. Speaking of 2, I fully believe in suicide. If someone doesn't want to live, they shouldn't have to. Not all problems are temporary, and I don't think someone should live miserably so other people won't be sad (never mind that not everyone has people who would be sad if they were dead).

My only exception to thinking this is parents - they should live miserably until their kids are at least 24-25, then they can end it. I've known a few people whose parents killed themselves when they (the people I have known) were children, and it really messed them all up deeply.

I've had this stance since I was about 12, and have never wavered.

Uhh… maybe you haven’t known anyone who committed suicide when their kids were grown adults but I have and the outcome is just as severe. Suicidal ideation in the grown children for sure. It’s an awful legacy no matter how old you are.

A stroke or heart attack is easer to palate? Lots of meds look like that. Just need the right mix and the right story to tell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A very high profile man hit on me (think Musk level, dinners with presidents etc., but not Musk) . We had almost a year long secret affair. He was saying same s..t that Musk was saying to women: that he wanted to fertilize me, loved me etc.

He wanted me to join a triad with him and his other woman. He traveled a lot, so women would need to be bisexual and sleep with each other when he’s on trips. No men was allowed to date his chicks. He also had a male friend ( another well known figure) and suggested that if I want another man when he’s absent, that friend could f..k me and they both would f..k me sometimes in BDSM style. Eg I’m a slave on chains etc.

What’s the worst, I really liked the dude, he was hot. He flew to my city and we f….d in hotels. But I eventually backed off when he suggested that I meet his other woman and try to sleep with her.

I think you wrote about this before.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a married mom of teens and I'm stil doing sex work. Been married for over 20 years.

Tell us more!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a married mom of teens and I'm stil doing sex work. Been married for over 20 years.

Tell us more!

+1
Very interested. Might want to meet you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A very high profile man hit on me (think Musk level, dinners with presidents etc., but not Musk) . We had almost a year long secret affair. He was saying same s..t that Musk was saying to women: that he wanted to fertilize me, loved me etc.

He wanted me to join a triad with him and his other woman. He traveled a lot, so women would need to be bisexual and sleep with each other when he’s on trips. No men was allowed to date his chicks. He also had a male friend ( another well known figure) and suggested that if I want another man when he’s absent, that friend could f..k me and they both would f..k me sometimes in BDSM style. Eg I’m a slave on chains etc.

What’s the worst, I really liked the dude, he was hot. He flew to my city and we f….d in hotels. But I eventually backed off when he suggested that I meet his other woman and try to sleep with her.

I think you wrote about this before.

Yep, the anonymous forum is the only place I can share these emotions . In real life people would think I’m crazy and it’s a made-up story. He also prohibited me to talk about him.
Even a friend who introduced us doesn’t know about the affair. But it’s a 100% real story, I still can’t believe I got entangled in something like that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a married mom of teens and I'm stil doing sex work. Been married for over 20 years.

You husband doesn’t know ? How do you manage to keep it secret ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a married mom of teens and I'm stil doing sex work. Been married for over 20 years.

You husband doesn’t know ? How do you manage to keep it secret ?

Also, SAHM here who needs a way out. I think I’d be able to do video chat stuff, is that what you do? How to get into it? What’s the best market for still smokin’ hot 45 year old? Can it be done anonymously?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hit my autistic/ADHD child when he was little. It wasn’t a spanking as a prescribed punishment. I just lost my sh!t. He’s in his late teens now, and I’ve apologized multiple times. I still feel so ashamed any time he brings it up. DH and the other kids pretend it never even happened.

I lost my temper at my adhd son too in a way that also ashames me (he might also be on the spectrum). We brought in a behavior specialist to help us cope with his triggering behaviors. You’re not alone - these are very challenging kids who make life very stressful despite their good qualities. It doesn’t make our reactions okay, but it’s okay to need extra help coping with special needs.

I’d love it if you two could start another thread about this. ADHD mom with adhd kid here.

ADHD adult here whose mom lost it on her a few times when I was a kid. It’s ok, really. I love my mom. Especially now that I have my own kids, I know how hard it is.

[Anonymous]

I orchestrated the laying off of about a third of my corporate purchasing department several decades ago. One of the finest decisions I ever made.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ok sure this is anonymous right? I realized in my early 50s that I am bisexual. Female, now 60. It's just so wild. I wonder if other people in my life might suspect.

Uh. You know this happens to every woman, right?

Happens to women with no values

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. I don't understand anything I do at work. I've had the same job for 28 years, and wonder if the other people who do this understand it but can't figure out a way to ask them without giving away that I don't.

2. Also, if I get too sick or whatever to work before I die, I will be homeless in about 6-8 years after stopping work. If this happens, I will end my life.

3. Speaking of 2, I fully believe in suicide. If someone doesn't want to live, they shouldn't have to. Not all problems are temporary, and I don't think someone should live miserably so other people won't be sad (never mind that not everyone has people who would be sad if they were dead).

My only exception to thinking this is parents - they should live miserably until their kids are at least 24-25, then they can end it. I've known a few people whose parents killed themselves when they (the people I have known) were children, and it really messed them all up deeply.

I've had this stance since I was about 12, and have never wavered.

Suicide doesn’t end problems. It is the beginning of problems. Problems of hereafter are MUCH MORE WORSE than the problems of this world.